Sophia,
Great thread and you got me thinking a little. For me, most of the attraction is the fantasy of having (a new) girlfriend. Of course the main reason for the date is the physical activity, but after that I love to give a back rub or body massage and talk to the SP.
I'd love to tell all the SPs what would drive me wild, but I'm not imaginative enough to come up with that crazy fantasy. (Or maybe I'm just too Puritanical and embarrassed). I do know that Sophia's ads have always turned me on, the way she sets up a scenario. For me, I might need a prompter from the SP as to what we should try. That thought is pretty hot, but has not happened yet.