Angeltbay

i am an addict as well, and also in recovery for over a year, if u ever need some enourging words, even though ive never met you, you can always pm me, and ill be here to help. I appreciate this thread so much because i know how hard this is. And i also appreciate the courage you have to come out with this, as well, as the others who have posted. Good luck, and stay stong! Additional Comments: remember, you are not alone in this

like i said, but maybe i should say it differently... im not here to judge, but i would like to know with all these risks, how people go about this? are there safety measures you take? and how do both parties get enough courage to actually do this? Because i hone4tly think it takes alot of guts, and a lot o luck to offer this. As for herpees, it never goes away, and you can even contract it from someone who shows no signs of it. you can REDUCE the risk, but there is no cure

ok, i dont want to offend anyone with this post because i dont believe in BB-anyhing with all the diseases that are out there, i dont like taking the risk. Ive had alot of people ask me if i offer it, and i reply with "if i offer it to you, imagine how many other peopke i offer it to" Really, just because a lady or gentleman says they are clean doesnt mean they are. Ive known ladies who were escorts in this town that i live in who had herpees, and wasnt using protection (she hasnt been in town for a few yesrs and someone has told me the health unit will be called if she comes back to work) . Why does anyone really want to risk this? I dont want to scare anyone, but id love to know what people think about this? Like, if u can go to a docctor, show me the papers that you are clean, then maybe ill consider it. But nowadays, Aids, and herpees are a growing epidemic. Ladie4 if you're doing it just for the money, think about all the risks. Gentlemen, think about all the other guys she may have done something with like that. I know it feels better without, but you must think of your health, and the health of the people around you as well (this goes for both parties) Would you pick someone up from a bar that you dont know and not think about saety issues? Im just trying to understand the thought process of thoes who offer it, and thoes who request it.

I agree cerb is a wonderfull community, im pretty much hooked on it now. What keeps me coming back is that you can learn and share feelings, experience and guidance to both SPs and hobbiests. theres times where i cant talk to the people around me in real life because i dont talk about my business to other people here, and ive kept it that way for a while. To me Cerb is a safe place, No one will judge you for your questions or your comments, theres no one that will talk bad about you (considering thats not allowed thanks to the MOD for thoes rules) And i just love it! Another thing i love about it is that the discussions on here are not always work-related, its just people being people. Its truely wonderfull

flowers, i had one gentlemen who would get me an awesome bouquest of flowers every single holiday! it was so nice (he actually got them all the time for free or helping a friend who owns a shop) so, now ive got a bunch of really nice vases that i dont know what to do with, but each time he gave them to me i felt so special :)

well, or me, or a 12 hour night, i give 2 free hours, and knock off the transportation, that gives both of us a little leway or me it would be all inclusive, but i you want to get down to business for the ENTIRE 12 hours, i may not book that again lol. We are not robots. alot o men who like to talk and cuddle as well may consider this option, and i love that, i consider it to be more relaxing AND fun and i would think MSOG would be included too. im just speaking for myself As for meeting the gentleman beorehand, i would definately reccommend that for safety reasons, if you decide to book it without, then i would "call in" to someone (weather it be a driver or friend) every hour to make sure the lady is still safe Oh and many girls dont advertise that, or let you know when you call, you would usually have to request it and go from there

wonderfull! thanks :) i really like this group by the way, its the first and only one ive joined so far, so its a great idea :) thanks for starting it

well, i find i get ALOT more playfull when i have a drink :) but if im planning on drinking and working ill only have one or two, if i start actually feeling tipsy, ill stop, and i wont work, i can still have fun, and keep my head straight at the same time. I actually had a gentlemen call me the other day asking to see me, i explained to him very politlely that ive been drinkinking, and i will not work when im intoxicated, plain and simple. If my clients want to drink, fine by me, as long as they are still a gentlemen towards me, and dont start falling all over the place, (lol, thats actually happened to me before) And if that happens ill help you to bed explain why i have to leave, and call it a night Additional Comments: LMAO!!!!! hahahahaha!!! thats sooooo funny!!!

well, ill see what i can do with some new muffin recipies, i used to bake and cook alot, im just starting to get back into it now (i was living in a motel for 7 months....damn fast food) i would love to find some healthy recipies though, or maybe even some nice casseroles :)

different cities are different, like in thunder bay there are NO ASIANS! i kinda wish there was, i may even call myself one drunken night if i could. lol really, if you are in the "minority" in the escort biz, wouldnt you do better for the gentlemen who want a "change"?

just posted a new one :) really tasty spin on brunch :)

yeah, but that does get confusing for a "first-time" caller it is a good idea though

yeah, ive had a few too, but this one was really bitchy, so i had to rant...ive never had any actually show up though (im sure they could figure out where i live if they tried had enough) im wondering now, im sure alot o girls get these kind of calls, but has anyone actually had a mad girlfriend/wife show up?

even if it is someone actually coming into town with lower rates? who cares? your rates are your own, your services are your own, if you are doing well, theres no need to change anything. And i wouldnt bother replying to thoes emails any more, you'll probably piss them off more if they think your not getting them. they want to make you feel hurt or pananiod. Its really stupid Maybe they're just jealous! lol

ok, so i just had a lady call me up and start yelling at me, saying that she knows i live downtown and blah blah blah, so i pretty much said fuck off and hung up. How would you deal wiith that? And why would she yell at me? Its not my fault HE called ME! lmao! some people just dont know where to point the finger, and i guess its easier to point it to someone who your not in a relationship with, but, why wouldnt she talk to her man first? obviously she doesnt give him what he needs or he wouldnt be looking elsewhere! My ex boyfriend used to cheat on me all the time, and i would find phone numbers, but i would yell at HIM! not her! its the guys fault too!! ugh, i just had to rant about this a little guys...just a tip if you are attatched and write down a ladies phone number, and stick it in your wallet, dont put a name with it! That will keep us BOTH out off trouble! lol

i use my cell phone, as soon as i dont feel comfortable. if its an incall, and the guy wont leave, or is getting violent (although this has never happeenedf) all i gotta go is screem for help, or make a call, i have someone who i set something up with who lives in the same apt block as my who will be my helping hand if ever need be. as for outcalls, my cell phone! lol like i said as soon as i start to feel uncomfortable i will end the call, for instance i had this one gentlemen who was getting too rough, and said something about my giggling would get me killed if i did that around the wrong person. i asked him to grab me another drink, and i texted something to my driver, he called me in an instant and stayed on the phone with me untill he got there. Also, i use the buddy system, for incalls and out, when a gentlemen arrives/ i get to their location i always call in, and say im in and fine, if i wasnt comfortable when i first get to an outcall, all i would excuse myself, and call my driver, so hes on the phone with me, and i would explain to the gentlemen im not comfortable, and i have to leave.

its an advertised name in the newspaper, she is a ligit SP, and not a streetwalker (if thats what you mean? im not too sure) but i dont think you should publicize what street she lives on without her knowledge Additional Comments: whoops, now i know what you ment megan, srry, and i agree!!

CJ is the chronicle journal (the newspaper for thunderbay)

a name would help if you could remember it?

i would never ask for that. I would hope the gentlemen would repect my privacy as much as i respect theirs. Although, i usually ask for Some kind of name, so i can at least greet you properly but i usually say it can be a fake one if they want As or outcalls, some hotels require the last name registered to connect a "confirmation" phonecall. My solution to that is "i'm not too sure, i just got a page from someone there" and 9/10 times that works!

So, i know alot of ladies who have seen "regulars" for numerous years. Has there ever been a point in time where you become "just friends" with a gentlemen you've seen? (and im not talkin about friends with benefits) im talking about real friendship where you trust and confide in them the same as you would anyother real friend., or maybe you guys have mutual friends, and g out to the bar and party or something. Maybe this is wrong, I know that most people keep the business side of things seperate from the personal side, which is a good idea, but im just curious what other people think on this subject?

yeah, i saw thoes threads too, but that was a month ago that there was someone fixing the bugs and stuff. how did you set up your cerb account with your iphone? maybe its the same way? do i have to go through cerb to set it up? or should i be able to from the app?

im haveing problems with my posts on cerb, and was suggested tapatalk. So, i downloaded it for my blackberry bold. All it is is a white screen with "browse by category", "recently viewed", and "search" when i click on "browse by category" a popup come up that says "unknown method" if i click on the other two, it goes to a plain white screen Ive googled how to use it, and ive also looked in a few threads on here, and it doesnt tell me anything about it!!! what is supposed to show up? how do i use it? do i have to register to the tapatalk site? how do i get forums to show up on it?

the only thing i dont like about texting is how long it actually takes to set up an appointment. My work phone is different then the phone i use for everything else (no keyboard) so its really difficult to write out all the discriptions, locations, donations etc. i could take up to an hour for an appointment to actually be set up, and before i go see them, or they come see me, i request speaking on the phone first to make sure the gentlemen is serious. But i can understand why people would prefer text for instance if they are around family or friends, out in public, or just initially shy and want to get more comfortable before setting things up.

exactly my point! Additional Comments: exactly my point!