Gabriella Laurence

Unfortunately, it is :( Indeed, those excuses along with "I am allergic to latex, can I get BBFS" and/or "I have been with my wife for 30 years, never had sex with anyone else during that time, I am disease free, can't get an erection with a condom, can we have BBFS" or the opposite "I am a virgin" get used a lot and those BBFS requests are more common then one might expect. Your back door comment is also accurate... These types of emails always have a pattern to them too. It usually goes something like this: - First, he let's you know he is disease free - secondly, he let's you know he is more than comfortable financially - then explains his monogamous life - then explains his problem with an erection when wearing a condom - then gives the lady/SP great compliments - then shares his concerns about the SP being disease free - then offers "papers" to show he is "clean" and requires the same thing from the SP - then there is usually a reinforcement about how good looking he is, how wealthy he is, how he would be a good client and how he cares about his health (and yours) - then they often go into the "if you are not willing to offer BBFS, please do not be rude because I asked" - and if you have the misfortune of dealing with someone who is persistent, after you say no, they will come back with other "valid points" as to why you should offer them BBFS, remind you that you would be missing out on a lot and then come back with a higher $number... From experience (not only personal but from other ladies), I can assure you that BBFS requests come from men from all ages. .................. I am posting this email request as an example, edited to protect the man's privacy and his personal information, just to give you an idea of the manipulation involved in those types of request. Since I was not the one to receive that particular request, my lady friend gave me permission to post it in this thread. "Hello, I'm a tall, fit, handsome, intelligent, respectful, 100% disease free man who lives in xxx who collects a hefty xxxx and who has been in a faithful relationship with the same woman for the past x years but sadly the passion is now gone and I need some fun in my life. I would like to see you as soon as possible. I am looking for one classy honest, disease free provider to share a series of very special experiences with. As long as provide you with info to do a thorough back round check on me as well as current up to date medical proof that I'm 100% disease free and I also need proof that your totally healthy as well! Can we do a 6 hour BBFS session? Please email me your decision, thank you. I am a member of xxx and I do take maintaining my perfect health very seriously. P.S I am not the kind of guy to jump into a BBFS situation with both guns blazing because my perfect health is very important to me but as long as your willing to be honest with me and provide me with all the documentation that you are totally clean and once we get to know one another and build a trust between us is a 6 HOUR BBFS session possible? If you are not interested just politely say no but please don't go out of your way to insult me because there is no need for that, thank you and I look forward to hearing from you as soon as possible. P.S I am more then happy to donate extra, for the extra care and consideration. One more thing I forgot to mention, I am very well endowed! I am built way above the standard in every way imaginable! "

Or D) looking for more then just sex a.k.a companionship

My last post on this thread as I think everything has been covered so far... "Some of us may not have University and our grammar skills may not be up to what the more educated men's style of writing is. I myself would fall into that category. You may find yourself more attracted to the man who is well educated and knows proper grammar to use. I see nothing wrong with that actually. " And from what I can tell, you did just fine without one :) (as many other people do); you didn't need a university degree to become the nice gentleman you are, a gentleman who also understands what respect and common courtesy is all about. Some things just can't be learned in school... "I am sure you can pick and choose your suitors as all the wonderful cerb ladies can do. Just keep in mind that we are not ALL well educated." I actually do not care if my patrons (or potential ones) have a university degree or not. I do not care if there are mistakes in the text and if the grammar is perfect or not. What I care about is being contacted in a friendly polite way and exchanging a few pleasant emails to set the tone before a first time get together. It doesn't take a university degree or a college or high school degree to say "Hi, how are you? I am interested in spending time with you. Could you provide me with more information in regards to xyz. Thank you." "I agree no one, no matter what their education should ever be rude or disrespectful" See, those one liners "u avail", "cim? greek?" "how much", etc. are just plain rude and to a point, are disrespectful for many ladies. I am certainly not the only one who feels that way. "There are men out there that wouldn't mind that approach at all and may actually be turned on by it. I am not saying I am one of them, then again on a particular day and feeling in a certain mood, one never knows. :wink:" Yes, some men will enjoy the more direct approach and the text like messaging lingo. Some won't at all mostly because of the lingo used. Same for SPs. Some will put up with the "u avail now" and a large majority won't. As you already figured out, I am part of the majority ;) *Just so there is no misinterpretation, I find the direct approach can sometimes be realllly sexy even though I prefer to be a little bite more vague with my descriptions. To each their own. "I've been asked to text. The problem with that is my phone isn't set up for text. Luckily for me I was still able to chat with the lady from my computer to explain the situation or she may have thought there was a power struggle going on. Where it was just a simple case that I wasn't able to text." The texting example was just an example to make a point and I agree and understand that texting is not for everyone; when the gentleman takes the time to explain his situation, I am positive that all ladies will find other ways to accommodate a particular situation or request. Not being able to do something is not the same as not wanting to do something and blatantly disregarding instructions and do as you wish. Again, I don't mean you, HalifaxMan, it's just a general comment. "I had some very good workers who couldn't follow written instruction very well, but just tell them verbally what they had to do, and you could count on it getting done." If a gentleman is not comfortable with emails and texting, all he has to do is inform the lady and I am positive she will be happy to schedule a phone call to discuss everything that needs to be. Communication is key to many things in life... Use it! Gabby xox

I think some points are getting mixed up here... First impressions: When I receive emails with "how much", "u avail" and nothing else (not even an ? at the end lol), right off the bat that person is showing me that we are not compatible in many ways (I can go into details via PM if you'd like). From experience I can assure you that my best encounters and the patrons I enjoy the most have always been the ones who took the time to get to know me a little before our first encounter and my website was part of that process. They also weren't afraid of using more than 2 words (and punctuation) when they introduced themselves. Just to give you a simple example from your side; if a lady chooses to advertise in the "hey boyz wanna cum over im horney i wanna fuck" way will she attract the same gentlemen as if she were to advertise her message using a more subtle way (including proper grammar lol)? I can tell you the answer is a definite no. Now do a reverse with what I said... Besides, you have to remember that we receive many emails a day/week and some emails are just fantastic so it makes the selection process a lot easier ;) Reading my website for information I do believe that when a gentleman has taken the initiative to inform himself, at least read the basics on my site, that it shows some kind of interest. I also do not believe that because he doesn't take the time to read the basic info that he will automatically not follow instructions/respect boundaries during our date... I think it only shows a little laziness on his part ;) With that said, when a gentleman contacts me to find out about my donation and has taken the time to say "Hi Gabby, I would like to spend some time with you in the near future, I was thinking maybe next Tuesday. What would your donation be for a 3 hour encounter in Montreal", I will gladly answer him directly and not send him back to my website. You see the difference in approach from the "hey u avail"? The only emails I will not answer are the one liners, the rude ones and disrespectful ones. That's pretty much standard with all the ladies ;) For a laugh, you can check out one of my old ads addressing the subject ;) Following directions before and during an encounter It will be easier for me to give you an example or two; when I say, "please do not call me and only text me to confirm your number" and the gentleman decides to go against my direct and clear instructions and he decides that he wants to call me instead (see my post on page 1), red flags go up because it shows me that already, there is a "power struggle" going on. Let's pretend I decide to meet with him anyway... If I say please enter by the front door only (it could be at my incall or it could be pun intended ;)) because the back door is not to be used, will he indeed follow my instructions/directions and respect my boundaries or will he attempt to use the back door anyway? Hard to tell. Do I want to chance it? No. Indeed, some will out of curiosity to see if the paint is still wet lol but in this lifestyle, I do not want to take the risk of putting up that sign and having a potential client touch it anyway when he has already exhibited signs that he can't follow instructions. Blah, this turned out much longer than I wanted it to be.

HalifaxMan, I am quoting you but my comments are not directed at you or anyone in particular. My comments are made in a general sense... And how does that usually end? lol ;) Going back to the instructions they should've read in the first place, swearing and saying "why in the hell didn't I look at these in the first place" or finally stopping to ask for directions when they are long, long lost? I think I already know the answer to the above lol Joking aside, I think it's not so bad when a project takes 2-3 days to assemble instead of an hour or two with instructions but to take that same cavalier attitude and applying it to this "hobby" where discretion is one of the most important elements in this "hobby is just wrong and shows you don't care :( I don't think following a few simple instructions to insure discretion for both parties should be tossed aside just because, well, after all, it's the guy thing to do. Definitely! Not all men are the same and should not be painted with the same brush. That would be a huge mistake. I can tell you that, personally, there is a huge percentage of emails I do not answer because of what you mentioned. The "How much", "what ur rate", "u avail now" and so on is a huge turn off and I can only imagine what a rendez-vous would be like with a client like this... Not very inspiring lol I think Emily, WrinkledinTime and mrgreen said it best at the beginning of the thread:

LE had better things to do with their budget and time then to set up stings that target 2 consenting adults that want to get together, even when money exchanged, just so they can send some people to John school ;) Most often, they will set up stings where they advertise barely legal young girls on BP, hinting that she might not be legal to attract predators who seek the teenagers... Here's an interesting thread about the subject: http://71.6.170.35/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=123678 It includes links to various media links too. And you are right; never discuss anything about the business when meeting an SP in public. The details of the private encounter like rates and services should always be discussed in private. Otherwise, and if it's a sting, whether clients are targeted or ladies, there will be consequences. Additional Comments: I just had a look at Savannah's profile on EC. What a gorgeous woman! The gentlemen of Winnipeg are lucky to have her!!

It's too bad Scully and Mulder are no longer active with the FIB... I am positive they would have loved to interview you and investigate on the matter.

Putting on comfy snuggly wear after a hot shower, sipping on a cup of perfectly seasoned spicy tomato soup, poppy seed crackers and reading a good book!

lol Don't get me wrong, I enjoy those types of endings too but since Dexter is a dark drama series (we're talking about a lovable character but nonetheless, a serial killer here lol), I would be disappointed in the above scenario. It might be great to see Dexter, Harrison and Hannah live happily ever after but where's the drama in this? ;) lol

Congrats, my friend and please, never stop posting! Your silly posts always bring a smile to my face :) xox

Ahhhhhhh, the love fairy tale happy ending... To be honest, and not that I don't like or appreciate happy endings, but for a drama series such as Dexter, I would be highly disappointed if they chose to go that way. I can't wait to see tonight's episode!!! BB is also on so it's going to be a great TV night! :)

1. Burning my hand/thumb on one of the oven racks. It's not a big burn (only 2 inches long) but it hurts like hell. 2. You know how good a full body stretch feels and you need to stretch from your tippy toes all the way up to your finger tips? I needed a big one today and I wasn't careful about where I decided to do it... My fingers had a nice encounter with the turning blades of the ceiling fan...

I apologise for the thread highjack but it seems like I gave too much love lately and I am unable to leave rep point comments... Love this play on words!! Thank you for sharing :) I am also sorry to see you're having issues with someone not so kind. Thanks for adding to the word play! And yes, the above truly sucks!! Love this too lol Emma, you might want to use that quote for your lady "friend" ;)

Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. Much appreciated :) When I posted, I was well aware of what the subject was (SPs trash talking other SPs) and understood the reasoning behind your comment but since others, you included, had already expressed my thoughts (in a much better way that I could have), I thought I could skip commenting on the main subject directly, not rehash the same things and address a similar but relevant issue since the door had already been opened ;) To me, gossip is gossip and trash talking others is trash talking others and therefore has no gender. As stated before, it happens in almost every line of work, under different circumstances; reasons and motivations will often be varied but the main end result will often be similar... In short, affect the person who is being talked about and at the same time, potentially show the true nature of the "offender". Anyway, who has time to talk about others when you are spending time in wonderful company?! :) ............... I have a feeling I might have a Virtual Hubby #2 on the way! LOL RG, will you share? ;)

I know what you mean! I went to bed late last night (well this morning) and I woke up at 4h30am :icon_confused: It's going to be a long day. Good thing I only have to take care of some personal stuff today.

Ouch! Although I can understand where this temptation comes from, how will you avoid being perceived any differently from the ones you would like to expose? Seems to me like it's a double edge sword. You always have the option of posting about your personal experience(s) on a review board. If your list of no-shows and cancellations and SPs who change the terms of the encounter is growing so much, perhaps revising your selection process could be beneficial to you in the long run? Additional Comments: I am curious... NL, I ask this with the utmost respect... How is what you stated above not considered gossip? Because it is between men only? How do you know that what is being shared is the honest truth and that those "facts" are 100% accurate and haven't been altered in the slightest to make one look good (SP or client) and that it is not some manipulative way at getting back at whoever it is that is being talked about? Do you trust all these people that provide you with so called information?

So true! And this is also why I will never understand why some ladies will gladly accept an encounter with someone that gives them a fake name and calls from a disposable phone. How do you ensure your safety that way?? I know this will sound "dark" (not sure how to describe it) but if a client is going to hurt me or even worst, kill me, with all the info I have acquired with my screening, you can bet your ass that police will have something to go on in order start their investigation and/or make an arrest. If they succeed, I think, even though I might be hurt or killed, I am indirectly protecting other ladies from that psycho. I hope she is too!

When I first started in the industry (about 5 years ago), I made business decision based on personal preferences; I chose to add a few years to my real age so I would have a better chance at attracting the gentlemen I wanted to spend time with- the older and more mature gentleman. I felt that if I advertised my real age, I might attract a much different crowd. As time went by, I realised that I was aging too fast for my liking (that is in the SP world) and I stopped advertising a specific age all together and only advertise as "mature" or 35+. I also realize now that if the mentality is to automatically add 5 to 10 years to an SP who advertises her age (real or not), I must have been looked upon as an "old" woman at a very young age lol

Could someone explain to me why in-room fees are referred to as tipping instead of in-room fees? Is this a way to avoid some delicate grey areas of what is legal or not? That's also my understanding of tipping-a token of appreciation-and not something one HAS to do when a service has been provided. I am also positive that all MAs, independent or not, want to get paid for what they offer during a session...

Taking a southing and relaxing hot bubble bath in the afternoon and, at the same time, taking care of my sexy feet with a pumice stone... They feel like silk now! All they need is a fresh coat of polish that will be done tonight! I am an avid reader... I recently started reading a few books by this new author (author I never read before) and I am now addicted to her stories! It's an awesome discovery but one that is affecting my sleep badly because all I want to do, well almost ;), is to read her books.

Totally! lol It reminds me when I used to go to music classes, twice a week for 3-4 hours at a time. Even though I loved the classes, I couldn't stand all the loud noise and always came back with a huge headache. My parents were great and didn't mind it so much (because the instrument I played wasn't anything like the tuba lol) and they got accustomed to it pretty fast. When they got fed up, they would wear ear plugs so I could rehears at home BUT the rule was, close all the windows before I started so I didn't annoy the neighbors too lol Meg, the cold season is coming so hopefully you won't have to put up with it once all the windows are closed.

I went to get an extra large coffee at Tim Horton's earlier this morning. When I order, I always make sure to say DECAF (and I make sure the person repeats decaf) and ask them to double check when I pick it up at the window... Well, what do you know? I ended up with a regular coffee and for someone who has an extremely low tolerance to caffeine, it affects me in a very bad and unpleasant way; I feel like my brain and body are on drugs, I'm all jittery, my heart rate has been going crazy for a while now, I have the sweats, etc. What an awful feeling! :( I hope all those side affects stop soon!

Since all pleasures are delicious, I cannot pick one but I can certainly tell you about 2 erotic discoveries that happened to me as a companion. One of them was squirting! I will always be grateful to the gentleman who showed me how wonderful it could feel. The other one was discovering that all my toes were like a mini clitoris on their own when licked and sucked on and that I didn't really need much (if any) other stimulation to be able to reach orgasm. Just plain awesome!!

Try this: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143524

A one word answer for you... scam!