Gabriella Laurence

What you could do is prepare is separate envelop that says "thank you" with the money in it and leave it on the bathroom counter before you leave. A few gents have done this with me and it was a nice surprise :)

To put it bluntly, and I apologise in advance if this offends anyone (not my intention) but do any of the independent contractors you mentioned above get intimate with you? Do any of them kiss you, suck your cock, massage you, shower with you, put on beautiful lingerie for you, let you explore their bodies, etc. and give you orgasm(s)? I bet not! If it's all the same to those of you who like to negotiate, perhaps you should start a side-line business and experience first hand how it feels to be low-balled by someone looking for a deal for this type of extremely intimate experience/service. On a different note, if you can't afford your car repairs, yes, you can always try to get a better price and that reduction will come off the price of the parts --the mechanics will still get paid the same-- OR you can always take the bus, train, subway, or better yet, walk or bike... No one says that you HAVE to see an SP when you don't have the money.

Nathalie Lefebvre

Congratulations, beautiful lady! :) Well done! xox

It looks like reality can easily be confused with perceived bitchiness when one doesn't understand the concept and meaning of respect and when the facts, observations and comments do not reinforce someone's tasteless behavior. So, which one is it? She had a huge mess to clean or you minimized your mess by releasing yourself in a towel? Either way, the answer is not important as the main points are being ignored; 1) there is a time and place for everything -- no matter how horny you feel and need that release 2) your behavior towards the RTM (registered massage therapist-not to be confused with an MA) was absolutely disrespectful no matter how you look at it or try to justify it. If that makes me bitchy for saying so, so be it. I guess I have a low tolerance level for arrogant indifference, nonsense and idiocy...

I wonder how much pressure is put on the provider when she agrees to negotiate and accepts the low ball offer... Negotiating for this kind of intimate experience is a real turn off for the provider (at least for me, my lady friends and many others) no matter how you look at it. If you can't afford her donation or you find it to high for your liking, it is simple, move on to the next lady who offers a rate you are comfortable paying. Fortunately, the majority of the gentlemen are very respectful and understand what kind of "service" they are receiving and because of that, they do not try to low ball the ladies. (I used "you" but it is not directed at you, explorer69) It is one thing when a lady (or agency) OFFERS a special and quite another when a client/potential client tries to negotiate and asks for a reduced rate ;)

Thanks, Meg! Same goes for "can you price match another lady's rate?" Sure, only if she charges more then I do! lol

Thank you, Brad! I just tried it out and instead of having 52 characters for my ad link, it cut it down to 26. Pretty good for posting ad links in the shout box! The only downfall is that the http is http://www.tinyurl.com/a-random-number instead of http://www.cerb.ca/your-ad-number.

Like Midnite-Massage mentioned in her post, MAs who advertise extras are required, by CERB rules, to advertise in the SP section. For the OP- Have a look at the lady's description on the top right of her post before calling. It will usually let you know if she is an MA or an SP. ________________________________________________ Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Ottawa Posts: 905 I am a MA Thanks: 462 Thanked 589 Times in 307 Posts _______________________________________________ If you don't feel comfortable calling because "she has your number" then a simple PM might do the trick instead.

I never understood why I could never, and I mean never cook white rice from scratch. Every time I cook it (and I follow the instructions to a T), it always ends up looking and having the texture of risotto lol Thank goodness my lemon chicken and seasoned steamed veggies came out tasting yummy!

Mod is absolutely correct. Instead, what you could do is take advantage of electronic money email transfers. It works like a charm too! If you don't know how, have a look at this thread.

What a wonderful way to show your appreciation and respect to the RTM who gave you a great deal and a fantastic massage. She must really be looking forward to seeing you again. Good luck finding another RTM you like :)

I can't sleep so I'll answer your question ;) I always send a thank you note to the gentleman I have spent time with after an encounter. Sometimes I am not fast enough in sending my thank you email and my gentleman beats me to it. Does it annoy me when I see a thank you note in my inbox? Absolutely not because I love reading those special notes :)

Your post would be better suited for the general discussion area or, since your location says Ottawa, in the Ottawa discussion section. I hope this helps for next time! :)

I just prepared a nice bowl of fresh strawberries and raspberries and added milk (I always smell the milk first) only to find out with my first big spoonful that the milk was sour. So disgusting lol

Awesome! Congratulations to you, Cyclo and please do not stop posting the news articles that I enjoy so much! xox

If you look at Jessica's post history, you will see that he says he is a guy: Isn't "having a tent in the pants" just another way to say he had an erection? That's what I thought when I read his post. Maybe I am wrong... Could be a French/English thing...

Congratulations, Castle and well done!

Ahhhhhhh, Hubby, virtual Hubby, I am in a feisty mood today and will agree with parts of your post and disagree with another ;) The joys of virtual marriages lol I do agree with the fact that discretion is of the utmost importance when engaging in this lifestyle/hobby and that following instructions is just as important when meeting with a lady at her incall location (hotel or private location) as not sharing her personal details with others (address, phone number if not public, real name, etc.). I think Cleo addressed the issue quite nicely in the thread she started a while ago. BUT where I have to kinda disagree with you is about the "intimate details" of the encounter; some ladies do not mind a more detailed recommendation and some really don't appreciate it. I think it is fair to say that everyone has their own style and preferences when it comes to recos (gentlemen and ladies alike) and what is good for one might not be good for another ;) Ok, back to Nicolette's thread lol

Congrats, Cato :) xox

Similar threads started in the newbie section that could be helpful: Discretion and the Importance of Following Protocol at an SP's Location http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135381 The Importance of following Instructions.... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=78942 Additional Comments: And somewhat relevant to this discussion: A ladies location: info to never be shared http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=109295

I know most ladies would mark your email as spam and send it to the trash bin without even giving it a second thought. I know I would. Most ladies will also not put up with intoxicated clients and will ask them to leave if they notice you're high when arriving at their incall location (or leave if it's an outcall). Again, I know I would as I do not need my safety compromised by someone who might act irrationally because of the drugs and shows no respect and consideration for others. If you ever decided to surprise the lady, take out your coke and offer her some or do a line in front of her, there are good chances you might end up getting kicked out, butt naked on the sidewalk with your clothes next to you ;)

It looks like there is a good possibility for a new but similar "why did the chicken cross the road" thread poll. Lee, Jabba, Piano, OD, what do you think? ;)

Good for you for only indulging in CJBs. Let me ask you, do you enjoy kissing? If so, did you know that you can also contract diseases such as gonorrhea from kissing as the bacteria can also live in someone's throat? There is risk with every sexual activity we share with someone that is not a regular and exclusive partner. With a little research, you will also discover that BBBJ is not as risky as BBFS. Thanks, Cleo!

Yeah, really! And the day he catches something, who do you think is going to get the blame for it? The escort he had BBFS with? The girl at the bar he had BBFS with? The girl he picked up on the street for BBFS? OR himself? Of course it will be the "lady" he was with! I apologise but blatant stupidity and ignorance really anger me!