sandimoon

Fair enough that not all SPs like their jobs. But as you said, lots of young ladies here with manners, respect & decorum. I was 20, 25, whatever & I never dismissed how a person made their living as being beneath me. No matter what it was. And if she has bills, she should have thought of that before being so downright smug. What man wants to pay to screw a robotic dilettante? She was bravado run amok & frankly, as a woman & SP, it's not sad, it's embarrassing. She has hot girl syndrome: "I'm cute, I'm fit, I'm gorgeous, men pay to fuck me, so I can act uppity & charm my way out." I've seen it before & while not pretty, that fall from the pedestal is usually quite predictable & justifiable. If she's old enough to fuck like an adult, she can damn well act like one. Being disdainful of other women, their choices, livelihoods, pride in their work, is not capricious youth. It is arrogance & should be nipped in the bud, as it was. She insulted 90% of the women here & most of the men. Remember it wasn't just H--kers, it was also a " h--ker board " she didn't need to feed her ego. And after being called on it, came back for more. Like Georgiana said, as advertisers, we should be held to a higher standard & most professional SPs have very little patience for this type of boorish behaviour. Getting shut down is part of growing up, my sisters kids are 9 & 7, and THEY know that actions have consequences. Now, so does she. I also wonder if she appreciates the irony of being fired from a pseudo-job. I know I do. Sandi

Trust me princess, you needn't worry. Because a tight ass, flat abs & perky boobs aren't forever. Respect is. And after this dismissive, condescending, holier than thou comment, that is the last word I believe most of us would use in reference to you. Just sayin... Sandi

When I see threads like these, started by members for almost 3 years, total post count of 9, I search their vast history, determine the totality of their contributions ( if any ), decide whether or not I feel compelled to proffer a response, then respond accordingly................................................................. ........................................................................................... so.....Movie ABC's are now on Q..... ......who's up? Sandi

Practical Magic. Sandra Bullock, Nicole Kidman, Stockard Channing, Diane Wiest, Aidan Quinn. Sandi

Boomer, good luck with the surgery. A big shout out to Angela & her generosity and to you as well for saying a public thank you. Class acts, both of you, all the way!!! Sandi

Sneakers. Robert Redford, Sydney Poitier, Dan Ackroyd, River Pheonix. Sandi

Liberty Heights. Ben Foster, Joe Montegna, Bebe Neuwirth, Adrien Brody. Barry Levinson's films are awesome. Sandi

Losing Chase. A wonderful independent film with Helen Mirren, Beau Bridges, Kyra Sedgwick & the directorial debut of Kevin Bacon. Sandi

Four Brothers (Just watched it again last night) Mark Wahlberg, Tyrese Gibson, Terrence Howard. S

Dreamgirls. Jennifer Hudson, Jamie Foxx, Eddie Murphy. Not one for musicals much but this was a brilliant film. Murphy was so robbed at the Oscars. S

(The) Breakfast Club. S

Zathura. Cute fantasy movie about brothers & the first thing I saw with Kristen Stewart. Tim Robbins, Dax Sheppard Josh Hutcherson, Jonah Bobo. S

I totally get your concern. But I always work under the assumption that ALL is seen. Privacy, in the internet age, is an illusion. I am not worried though. For quite some time I worked at an agency, never had an LE issue. 3+ years independent, same thing. The Cootchie Cops aren't looking for me. I don't ad car dates, illegal activities, steal from people or otherwise call attention. Do they know I exist? Absolutely. But I am SO the least of their concerns. Same with Hobbyists. Predators, however, are another matter entirely. I have no fear of Cerb being a target. Their parent company & affiliates are reputable, tax paying businesses. Wannabe Pimp Daddy, on the other hand: Bring in da funk, bring in da noise. And the cameras. Guys like this need a scarlet letter. A big old P. Sandi

Mystery, Alaska. Russell Crowe, Hank Azaria, Mary McCormack. S

Kafka Jeremy Irons S

(The) Year of Living Dangerously. Mel Gibson, Sigourney Weaver S

(The) Verdict Paul Newman, Jack Warden, Charlotte Rampling S Additional Comments: Crap too slow! W Where the Heart Is. Natalie Portman, Ashley Judd, Stockard Channing S

Twister. (Helen Hunt, Bill Paxton, et al.) Sandi

I threw up in my mouth reading this post. Sure, what guy wouldn't want to pay for a mediocre, lacklustre performance? Of course she could be great, just not with you. The wording here is truly disturbing. Not only putting it out there that the more they pay, the more they can do whatever they want to her but can because she just does as told. There is now way she is into this. This has procurement & coercion written ALL over it. Like Backrubman, I feel the best outcome would be that the authorities are reading this. Then we'll see how he likes being pimped out to the highest bidder in Millhaven. I hear they also " pay more " for newbies to " take direction ". Now excuse me, please, while I go delouse. Sandi

Yes. Pay for the service(s) you SO CLEARLY desire rather than continue attempting to circumvent protocol by " advertising " as a wannabe escort. The alternative, to a paid companion with an I.Q. above 120 like myself, is truly insulting. Please be so kind as to stop. Thank you. Sandi

Not always true, but funny nonetheless. This IS true & still makes me laugh! AMEN, Madame Secretary! Always respected but also a little afraid of her. Age notwithstanding, I believe she could bitch slap the Clairol right out' my hair. Sandi

I always enjoy the originality, imagination & humour of Amelia Middleton's ads. Amelia: Extinct Until Now Amelia+Brandon Sitting in a Tree.... Seriously, how awesome is this? Put the Zest Back In Your Lime I had tears rolling from this! Also, her website is my all time favourite & has been since day one. www.stateofamelia.com/ Sandi

What a shame. It sounds as though he wasn't trying anything underhanded, just mixed up his handles. He could avoid this next time by PMing the lady he is using as a reference as well as the lady he wants to visit on EACH site to clarify that he is both member ABC & XYZ. Then they will both know he is the same person, as opposed to someone trying to produce a false reference. So much wrong with this, I am at a loss as to where to begin. So I will start from the bottom. An SPs business strategy is just that: Business. Hers, not all of Halifax. A Hobbyist HAS no business agenda. And while he may not be trying to be deceitful, but like Billybob, unable to secure his favoured handle on CERB, his identity or any other information she requires is for her safety & comfort. And I imagine SHE cares. So if she asks for 2 references, provide them or move on. Also, I have yet to see a website where a lady who requests references does not provide alternate options. If you have none, that's fair, but follow her secondary protocol. No shit! If he had none at first, where did he suddenly find them only after she declined an encounter? And who is to say they were legit? Him? Another SP? If she now requests more, provide it or move on. And seriously, who really cares if he is Elite? By virtue of his behaviour, that is the last word I would use to describe him. As a long time member, he should know the score. If not, hardly her concern. It's very gracious of you Steve to assume this was not the intent from the onset & I am sure you are sincere. I on the other hand do not possess the " benefit-of-the-doubt-it " gene. And right now I am too incensed to wait until my little yellow pill kicks in. I find the entire post was in poor taste. And quite obviously deliberate. Of course, I am ALSO working under the assumption ANY of this is true & not just an attempt to slander a touring lady. Wouldn't be the first time. That said, I highly doubt the man in question ( real? ) will be happy right now! Although I have little sympathy for him. ( should he exist ) Or, frankly, respect for either party. Firstly, a hobbyist with Elite status discussing with one SP another SP, to the point of naming her, stating that he was declined by her, is not only immature, whiny & classless.... .....it is really pathetic. Have you no decorum? Have you no pride? Lastly, have you not the ability to discern the difference between an SP who can keep secrets & one who....well.......clearly cannot? It's no wonder she said no!!! I hope it was worth it. Because if this attempt at an encounter was real....& now you are known to talk out of school with less than circumspect women.....good luck with all the other touring ladies.... ...because bad news travels fast. On that note, said SP, coming to an open forum, detailing another SPs security measures, trashing them, then alluding to her identity with this, is inflammatory, beyond unprofessional & potentially dangerous to the SP. But don't you just love irony? By doing that with the presumption of impunity, she has shown ALL of Halifax, CERB & by extension Canada, she also has no problem discussing publicly what her clients tell her. Makes me wonder what she says without an audience..... Sandi P.S. My regards to NM. I happily take responsibility. For this time & the last.

If you were to ask me, you wouldn't be the first. My response: " Sorry, I don't accept A.A.R.P. cards ". Sandi

If he doesn't have a quarter, he could do Eennie, meenie, minie, ho! Sandi