I am new to the massage scene but have found it a wonderful experience! Most experence that I had they just point and I say yes. Unfortunately I do not know the lingo and feel that I am missing out on several things. How do you learn what to ask for. I always thought when asked if I needed a shower they just wanted to know if I wanted to wash the massage oil off of me. Reading I am finding that I was so wrong! I feel so dumb!
When asked what else do I want I asked what else was there. I was told that they could not tell me that I had to ask. I was not interested in a full experience but what else is there that you can ask for and what do you say?
Recently I went to a spa and they told me to remove everything but my underwear. At that point I figured it would just be a massage. (I was sad about that because she was hot!) During the massage she asked if there was any other places that I wanted her to concentrate on. What is the proper response? I did not know what to say? How do you requests without offending?
What are the things that you can request?
I thought I was worldly but this is something new to me!
