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I booked with her (them?) but the actual SP was definitely not the person in the pictures. She was much plumper (though still nice).

There is NO WAY that's on the level.

A little beyond my means all the same I think :)

Good general advice for PE sufferers there, and believe me, I've tried much of it before :) Unfortunately in my case, I've never been able to have good sex and there does appear to be a physical cause. After basically suffering from lifelong PE I finally spoke to my doctor about it earlier this year, and a quick exam revealed that I have frenulum breve, which is known to be a physical cause of PE. I was referred to a urologist and it was all checked out and diagnosed. For me, when I get erect, my frenulum pulls very tightly on my glans, causing it to bend downwards a little. This tight area feels *very* tight during penetrative sex (and is actually quite a lot worse with a condom on). It is slightly painful, and the tugging feeling does unfortunately make me orgasm very quickly, but the orgasm is just as much painful as enjoyable. Anyway, I'm scheduled for surgery later this year to have it fixed. One possible side effect of this surgery is that I might lose a lot of feeling in that area, and not be able to orgasm easily from penetrative sex. Honestly, I think that's a deal I'll accept. Just in case there's anyone out there in the same situation - talk to your doctor about it. If like me you've *never* had good sex, there's a decent chance there is a physical issue going on, and it's usually fixable. I could have had this fixed 20 years ago if I was braver, and I'd probably have had a far more satisfying personal life, both sexually and emotionally.

I have a minor medical condition which affects my sexual performance. (Google "frenulum breve premature ejaculation" for the details). The result is that actual sex (including oral and hand stimulation) is a fairly brief experience for me, and orgasms aren't always that much fun. (And having admitted that, you won't be seeing me at the social ;) ). With this in mind, you'd think I wouldn't be much interested in spending time doing sexual things with SPs, but of course, that's not how the human brain is wired. I have a lot of sexual desire and I want to spend time with attractive, naked women, touching and being gently touched, maybe playing stripping games, or having a shower together. Basically, anything but rushing into sex, though of course I do want to finish up (however briefly) with sex. My (limited) experience with a few SPs indicates that this is not always their agenda - they want to have some part of themselves wrapped around me by minute 3, which means by minute 4 I'm going to be all done and not that excited about the experience I just had. Don't get me wrong, I understand why it is this way - I know that the majority of clients want to spend as much time as possible doing the dirty and don't feel they're getting their money's worth if that's not how it goes :) And I do know that I am "abnormal" in this matter, and I can't expect the SPs to be mind readers. But I wonder if anyone has recommendations for local SPs who might be particularly good at taking it slow, and not making me feel bad about my condition if I do pop very quickly? PMs very much welcome from SPs also.

Apologies if this is the wrong place to ask this (or just the wrong thing to ask!) but I can't think of a better place to get opinions, particularly from the ladies themselves :) I'm a (pretty good and very serious) figure photographer who occasionally looks for nude models for particular projects. The models are paid, and the pictures are erotic, but definitely art, not porn. They end up on people's walls and in my portfolio, not on sleazy websites. Unfortunately there precious few genuinely-attractive "mainstream" models around here who model nude, and I think I've shot with most of them already. On the other hand, there are a lot of stunning-looking escorts around here, and I imagine that at least some of them are relatively free of hangups around nudity. Would it be a breach of etiquette to approach some of the local ladies to ask if this is something they might consider?

Very interested in this also, if anyone has any other pointers.

I am a recent customer of this lady. I hope I will be seeing her again soon. This is not a typical massage experience. I expected that it would be basically a nice massage and a bit of sexual fun, but it actually turned out to be a genuinely spiritual experience, which happened to end in an orgasm. This was a very skilled, very deep, very intimate massage, performed in almost complete silence in a darkened room. It lasted a long time, and was exciting and relaxing at the same time. I was told how to breathe, and how to clear my mind, and constantly reminded to breathe properly. This left me in a genuine meditative state. It's a bit like being hypnotized. I'm not someone who meditates or anything like that, but I found myself experiencing all kinds of surprising emotions and memories. And yes, in the end, the most delicious, slow, careful, teasing orgasm, delivered at the hands of someone who knew how to bring me exactly to the brink, but no further, until eventually she brought me to a point of release. So yes, this is an experience I would recommend to anyone who is open-minded about maybe experiencing something genuine and deeper than just a rub-and-tug.