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"In the end it really boils down to the same point I made in the bad domination thread. It's my money, and I want what I want, if a particular escort can't at least play the role of an emotionally connected person, then I'll just take my $ elsewhere, no harm no foul :wink:" I don't think anyone is disputing your right to find a person that you can emotionally connect with personally, but it often takes a few visits to find that rapport. Some people can pretend to be emotionally connected well on the first visit, but I think that's a rarity. I guess I found it once... that is I genuinely connected with a lady so well on my first visit with her that I knew I had to see her again... actually by the second visit I was worried I'd fall in love, but not to worry... (but that's a story for another day).

as far as the Christian faith goes, sex outside of marriage is also frowned upon, but I'm not Christian... ha ha. I like my wife. She's a good person and the mother of my children and financially we are much stronger together and able to travel, put our kids through college etc.. I do not wish to hurt her. But we have very incompatible sexual needs. She for example can't even imagine sex when under stress, and I can't deal with stress without it... I love kissing and she hardly wants to kiss at all... she's very boring in the bed... blah blah blah, and after she has an O about a third of the time ruins my climax... So it was either continued frustration, divorce, an affair, or escorts... eenie meenie miney moe... frustration didn't seem like much fun...and as I past my 45th birthday I didn't want to wait any longer; wanted sex while I'm young enough to do it!! Divorce is messy and expensive and would harm my children. Escorts seemed the easier solution as an affair requires the cooperation of another lady who just wants sex (not a permanent relationship). I actually had an affair once, and my wife found out... advice, if you have an affair, don't let the gal give you a hickey... But I was faithful after that for about 22 years until a flirtatious friend drove me over the edge... in part because she would flirt, but then back off... and even though we didn't have an affair she validated every reason for choosing an escort instead... she told me she loved me, send me text messages in the middle of the night, and would act very openly sexual in public when drunk... She did invite me into her house to have a bath together, while she was very drunk (I was sober), but I suggested maybe another time when she was sober -- which never happened). Another problem with affairs is most of the Lady's I meet are at work and I can't get involved with them without getting into employment related to hassles... so hand off. So anyway, now days I stick to escorts because they are less complicated, less stressful, and actually know what they are doing... I don't have to worry about midnight text messages or drunken calls form love sick lovers.. 0000 said "Specifically I end up questioning whether the intimacy is real because it is bought and paid for." For sure, if you are seeing someone for the first time, she is trying to be intimate, but you can only expect so much because she doesn't know you... I can assure you that with the ladies I've developed a rapport with, the intimacy is real... we are friends (in an unusual way)... one lady who I've now been seeing for 4 years, I treat as my relationship advisor... because she is wise in the ways of love. someone else noted how the escort doesn't get jealous and that is one of the delights about talking to her about relationship problems... she takes marriage very seriously...

a hair cut

I still buy books, and CDs... I don't read virtual books and I really don't enjoy the experience... I get enough screen time at work... I find reading a book easier on the eyes. As for music... I bought 7 CD in the past month which were promptly ripped on to computer and my car's hard drive and then I put the music on my phone. The CDs are about the same price (and perhaps cheaper) as downloading the songs one at a time, and I have the option of re-loading them in a higher quality (frac) when I have more memory space.

I think its silly to expect an experience with a service providers to be great just because someone else had a great experience and vise versa... When I did read reviews/ recommendations, all I ever looked at was if the service provider was as advertised... that was it. What makes (that thing we're not allowed to talk about) great has to do with the chemistry and interaction, and interpersonal connection, not anything mechanical. I actually only ever had 2 disappointing experiences out of... hum... a lot more then 2. I used to check out reviews, but most of the time I didn't learn anything from them and the Ladies I was interested didn't have any, so I gave up looking. I've written a few, but nearly all are now out of date and the service providers have moved on to I know not where. One lovely lady I knew last time I saw her was about to finish her law degree... family law... so by now she's now screwing men in a completely different way, lol. I've stopped writing recommendations (or reviews) in part because I haven't actually seen any one new for 2 years...

Yer Favourites double CD (greatest hits) --- Tragically Hip

Taking a break while re-caulking the bathtub and shower surround... fun fun fun...

My wife and children are delivering a bed to my daughters so my youngest son has a place to crash on some school nights (e.g., 8 am classes at college)... the rest of the week he'll be at home in the burbs. So its just me at home. Replacing the caulking around the bathtub. No steak in the freezer... only chicken, chicken and more chicken... so I'm going to fry some bacon and probably have some eggs... (yes chicken eggs).

twice today... but no more til mid week... got to save it all for a beautiful Lady on Wednesday.

craft beer... more flavour. which goes better with sex: white wine, red wine, or sparkling wine.

I have a hotel booked for Wednesday to see a very lovely lady... Its not he cheapest hotel, but its decent, clean, private, and in a good location for both of us. Today Expedia emailed me information about hotels for that day, even though I've already booked a hotel (through Expedia), so I decided to check out the prices again, what they heck... turns out the hotel that I had already booked was now offering prices of $34 less then the room I had booked!!! I checked their cancellation policy...no problem... So I canceled my room for $151 and grabbed the room for $117 room... Yippee!!!

I think that if I was masturbating 5 to 10 times a day, loss of sensitivity or fertility would be the least of my problems... the raw skin and painful emptiness would be more of a concern... ouch... once every couple of days makes for a satisfying level of self pleasure. Additional Comments: For sure, assistance from someone else... especially a beautiful female friend is much much much much much better... sadly, my income does not allow me to enjoy another's company quite as often as I would like.

I do believe a moderate level of masturbation improves your fertility because it keeps the pipes clear. Personally I do it every couple of days... Best cure for insomnia... best cure for an aching heart... lol... best cure for boredom. If my wife is snoring, I can do it without waking her, lol. I'm usually doing it thinking about my most recent date with an SP... sometimes while looking at her advertising pictures (but not when I'm in bed with snoring wife)... It used to be masturbate before a date with an SP so that I wouldn't come too fast but I don't have that problem anymore... Instead my new rule these days is I don't masturbate for 2 days before a date because it maximizes my pleasure.

Hendrix -- Wild thing

three CDs... catching up on my music collection.

Dire Straits -- Something for Nothing

A note about my previous post with my painting... one of the big advantages of seeing the same lady over a period of a couple of years is she lets me paint pictures of her... she loves it (just sketches during our time together)... And I've given her 2 small paintings (one of her, one of a cat). I've achieved that level of rapport with two ladies.

Mexican --- fried beef, guacamole, tomatoes, cheese, and tostitos chips...

trying to think of a song I can teach myself to play on the guitar... rejected 3 songs so far this evening.

Frozen Yogurt... I can pretend it good for me. Iceberg or Romaine lettuce

If... by Pink Floyd, from Atom Heart Mother. Pretty song "And if I were a good man, I'd talk to you more often than I do." Trying to play along with it on my guitar.