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Well I found out more details. It was a accident and she's in a lot of pain. Poor gal.

A friend of mine who is on a much needed vacation emailed me yesterday that she was hurt in an accident and is in hospital. but hasn't given me any details. It sucks that she hurt herself, and it also sucks that I don't know how bad it is.

In a hotel in Niagara with my wife. She's sleeping.

a frame for a picture a friend gave me for my birthday

location matters to me in that I'm typically making my way around the city by public transit so the incall sight normally has to be convenient... I have on two occasions gone well out of my way to see a particular lady, but she was/is special (and only available once every few months). But type of building, Condo or Hotel, doesn't matter. I did run into a bit of a problem once because the incall condo was near where my daughter works... yikes... I met her boyfriend about 5 minutes from the incall site... I had to quickly come up with an excuse for being in that area. Fortunately her office moved.

The highlight of my weekend was painting a really nice painting of a lady in a hallway.

If I don't get a reply, I wait. No problem. If I don't hear from her in a day and its the day were supposed to meet. Panic!!! Buts that has never happened. With one lady, we only text the day we're meeting or if we haven't finalized plans the day before... otherwise we exchange email for which usually get a reply in a day or two.

My home sex life has been pretty mediocre for the past 15 years... but I survived. What made me take the leap was a strip joint in combo with feeling lonely while on a conference trip to West Virginia... Its hard for me to recall exactly the details, but a female friend of mine had been flirting with me about my up coming trips to West Virginia and Lake Tahoe. West Virginia was of particular interest to her because it was the home of one of her favourite writers (turns out she was wrong about his home anyway, it was Virginia, but close)... she was quite a tease... anyway, so I was at the hotel for the conference and frustrated and went out for a drive around the area. I actually had a purpose... I was looking for a type of business related to my job and related to the purpose of my visit... scoping out the local market. Anyway, as I was driving I past by an place with exotic dancing... I drove by it found what I was looking for, but the wheels were spinning. A half hour later, on my way back to my hotel I happened to drive by the exotic dancing bar again (which is a minor miracle as I didn't actually know the area at all). So on a whim I stopped... the girls offered lap dances and I was were allowed to touch and fondle... that broke the ice... about 2 months later I was heading to Reno Nevada. I tried to find the Mustang Ranch but it had been moved... but eventually found a lady at the Wild Ranch Saloon in Winnemucca. It was more then a year and a half before I saw any ladies in Canada.

two weeks to wait before I can see my favourite again... and the hotels prices are all jacked up for August... low availability and one of the hotels we frequent is no longer taking reservations at all (for the rest of the year!!!)... and just when the staff had gotten to know me well enough not to require a credit card imprint for security deposit (so cash only -- no record to worry about)

and if you really want to be nice you could refer them to someone else (or to an agency)

The best answer I can give is just be honest and direct to the point. They have lots of options, so I don't see them suffering.

I first answered this post in 2011 about treating yourself on your birthday... lol... I've been regularly treating myself to a birthday special ever since, but usually not on my birthday... The Lady I saw in 2012 came wrapped with a bow. Another year (2013) I found out that the lady had her birthday the day after mine, so we celebrated together. This year my birthday session had to be slightly more than a week early because the lady I wanted to see was going on vacation... For the past 4 years I've brought sparkling wine to the session (which I've always cleared with the lady first). This year it was an actual Champaign ($70)... Because I spilt some when I opened it (real Champaign is more bubbly then sparkling win) the lady told me I wasn't allowed to pour it...

What I like depends on my mood. I always enjoy conversations with intelligent ladies. I like art and paint so a woman that expresses an interest in art is always a plus. If so she is likely to treated to a series of pictures of my paintings on my phone. And if I see her often enough, I give her a picture or two. Sometimes in the past I have the felt need to be with someone I don't know just for the anonymity... other times, I enjoy spending time with a lady who I've seen many times before. I love hair... I'm sure I have a hair fetish... I usually I prefer long dark brown hair but sometimes have looked for a lady with black hair, or blonde hair, or red hair... and have booked ladies precisely because of their hair. I love gently running my hands through a ladies hair or feeling her hair tickling my chest or being enveloped by her hair while we kiss. Being able to play with her hair is a big issue to me in whether I repeat or not. But I might be unique in that respect, lol. One lady was quite amused that it was her hair and not her other features (beautiful natural breasts) that attracted me... I've been seeing her off and on now for 4 years and I still love her hair. Other things hummm. I've booked ladies for the fantasy about dreaming they were someone I knew... a friend, or an x-lover, or a childhood sweetheart. I don't like smoke so I prefer a non-smoker. I'm not crazy about perfume, but my current favourite SP has a scent that I find very pleasing. I like our physical time together to be slow and gentle. Some ladies seem to be in a rush. I much prefer natural breasts. But mostly I enjoy spending time with a beautiful, fun and interesting companion.

Just ordered a package of cerium oxide which is used to polish glass from Amazon.ca. I have carved a little sculpture in the shape of tooth... made of blue sodalite a semiprecious stone from Bancroft... (i.e., a blue tooth) and I'm going to give it to a lady... to help us stay connected, lol. Anyway, the polish will make it nice and shiny.

I usually book with agencies that have a good reputation and provide incalls as an option. I was very nervous the first few times.

My 20 year old son grilled pork chops. I boiled rice and then fried the rice with eggs, chicken, peas and mushrooms. The pork was served with rice and a salad. My wife came home from work and told me she was going out to a friends and wouldn't be eating here. Now I said that to her after she cooked... she'd be pissed... hummm.

I rented season 1 of Viking to watch this evening... was drinking wine during dinner, dozed off and missed half of episode 1; Have now just finished re-watching it and am watching episode 2.

Having to wait 3 more weeks before I can visit my favourite SP again. And finding that all the hotels during the time are either booked or more expensive then usual.

Not being able to find my latest insurance certificates... and needing to renew my licence stickers.

I did love Leaving Las Vegas, but it struck me as sad that he find a woman who cares about him, but doesn't change his mind as he proceeds to commit suicide by alcohol.

Yes Asians are hot, and different; variety is the spice of life. For me personally, once upon a time (over 29 years ago) I was working with a young lady (T) in Toronto who was originally from Hong Kong. T had just finished her social work degree. The hug congratulating her eventually lead to a brief affair... my wife caught me the first time... my wife and I eventually reconciled. I think we were both reluctant to tell our families it was all a big mistake less then a year after getting married. For ever after I think my wife is over confident in her ability to read my mind. T was my only "affair" per se... Anyway, every now and then I look for an Asian Lady SP to remind me of that brief encounter with T.

I GOT to buy a print from the Art Gallery of Ontario of a particular painting she likes... for her birthday (for my daughter).