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I have heard (no idea who from) that its fear of large organs... and the pain therein. no idea is that stereotype is true, but I did talk to one gal who definitely did not like large (extra long organs). Not a problem with me, no fear there, lol.

Sometimes I like the thrill of seeing a totally new girl... all those butterflies in the stomach. But other times I want to see a girl that I've seen before. Some repeats have been disappointing, others have been fantastic. The three ladies who I've seen the most are those ones who have been consistently fantastic.

"Some(not all)...but some...will open up and confide about what it is about their married life that has led them to seek intimacy elsewhere. They open up their hearts, share their story, and teach me about life and love with their experiences. To me, this knowledge is wealth for my soul. Their story IS a part of what makes them who they are, and who they have become." I usually talk to my SP about my homelife to some extent. Sometimes I like to see new girls that I've never seen before; sometimes I like to reconnect with a lady I've seen several times before. One of my favourites has been quite the marital counsellor and has a lot of wisdom about relationships. Its rare when a man and a woman can be that honest with each other because there is no pretence (unless we want to play pretend). Once, I was telling her about another woman who was flirting with me, she sternly told me not to cheat on my wife. It was funny to be there lying naked with this lady, and her telling me not to cheat, but she's right. I've seen her (my SP that is, not the flirty girl) several times and think of her as a friend... but have no romantic attachment... I told her I view her as a friend... and I initially said, "an expensive friend", but corrected myself... that she's much less expensive than the cost of a divorce. Additional Comments: I actually accidentally found out that one of my SP is married. I respect her privacy and definitely wouldn't bring it up. It neither attracts me nor bothers me.

"If married men are more likely not to get attracted then why is the divorce rate so high in this country? I wonder if the stalkers in this business are all single?" I do know of one man that did leave his wife for an escort, but I think that's a rarity. More often its the wife that ends the marriage after she find out what he's doing. Men see escorts because they want the best of both worlds... Good sex and a blissful domestic life. Its rare to get both with the same woman. Well, that's my reason anyway. I have no intention of leaving my wife. I like her actually, we get along well, we go out regularly, I get along with her family, we have 4 wonderful children (teenagers and adults)... the only complaint I have about her at all is that she doesn't want as much sex as me... In fact she doesn't even realize how rarely we have sex... She never believes me if I tell her its been over a month (she will say, no I'm sure it hasn't been that long). I have a couple of escorts that I consider friends, but I do not view them romantically. We have a great time together, we talk, we joke around, one even let me paint a picture of her, but I have no interest in leaving my wife for those gals (and vice versa). I think divorce is more common with affairs than with escorts because its much harder to keep an affair secret and they often have an emotional component with the other woman. I believe that the divorce rate would be a lot lower if people would focus on getting the sex they need from a professional, rather than from an amateur affair.

One of the first SPs I visited was a gorgeous brunette, I'll call her K. The next time I went to that same agency, I choose a different gal, because K wasn't available, I'll call her R. I felt sort of guilty that I was seeing a different gal. The sessions took place in the same apartment so I was a little uncomfortable about the possibility that I'd see K when I arrived for my date with R. I didn't. It was an odd feeling that made no intellectual sense because I had no commitment with the gal. I guess some men are predisposed to feel guilt about seeing multiple partners. But if anything, I should have felt guilt to my wife... I didn't. It passed. I no longer have that hang-up.

Welllllll, my wife and I are down to once a month and that's toooo long between orgasms for me, so I supplement that with a SP about once a month, though recently due to some extra cash I've been doing it with an SP every 3 weeks. The longest I've waited between SPs in the past 3 years was 2 1/2 months and that was under unusual circumstances.

Well I did it, I selected a girl because of her name. LOL. Ok, well the D cups and beautiful body might have factored into the choice. She was fantastic. I'm not sure it worked completely though. I haven't totally blocked out my memory of that other woman who had that name... I guess I'll just have to keep going back to that service provider until that memory is gone, LOL. Oh darn it.

I booked Lisa because of her name. I wanted to erase my memory of someone I used to know... A bit of cognitive therapy... Out with bad memories... in with something more fun. I'm kidding. I booked her because her pictures were smoking hot. The name was just an added bonus. I saw Lisa this weekend. She is smoking hot. Her breast are beautifully shaped Ds, just perfect. Soft, smoothed, natural and tasty. Her skin is a lovely shade of chocolate and very even from head to toe. She tastes like coconut butter (which she uses to keep her skin beautifully soft). She was fun, and very pleasant to be with. She is from the Caribbean but grew up mostly in Toronto. She doesn't like to kiss a lot but oh has very warm hugs. Started a BBBJ then we got the condom on for sex. etc. Sweet girl. I will likely see her again... in case I need more therapy, LOL.

I have a new idea about how to select a person. Her stage name. I want to forget about someone, or at least displace some somewhat unpleasant memories, so I'm thinking of booking a rather sexy new girl at an escort agency that goes by that same first name. The name is actually a very common name, but I've not seen very many SPs who go with that name as a stage name (perhaps its too ordinary). Its all in jest. Its been a long time since I've seen the person who I'd like to forget. But her name still occasionally triggers my memory of her (e.g., if I see her first name in the credits for a TV show... or as a character in a TV show -- as I said its a common name)... I think it would be kind of fun to disrupt that memory and give myself a more pleasant association with that name.

I want you to want me, I need you to need me... ok, and now for real. I WANT to see a particular lady again, soon. I NEED to save up some money first (in a way my wife won't notice), he he.

This agency has me figured out... This is a new girl at Toronto Passions. Her main profile picture is even better but I can't do it as a direct link to the picture, but here's the link... http://www.torontopassions.com/spdir/opensp/id/138927805631b76bdd161341a6a86cf4e2d79cb462 Enjoy.

Thank, they do wear cute skirts & have nice moves... I take it Calle likes fake blond hair. LOL.

Back to praising my favourite item of female attire (because its so easy to imagine removing it). This gal, Grace Miller @ Garden of Eden, is gorgeous and she's a lot of fun. I've seen her. This photo is of a new gal, Gabriella @ Garden of Eden who I haven't seen her, but I do love the way she wears a skirt and stockings.

Interesting, but I wanted to point out that "They let themselves lose track of time." is also a symptom of pathological gambling and compulsive behaviors in general... the health benefits of letting yourself lose track of time depends a lot on what you are doing, and how often. Edit: wanted to add that finding a healthy way of losing yourself I think is very important. I find that when I'm painting I can lose myself in the art and when I'm done, I have a painting that I'm proud to put on my wall, or give to a friend (I even sold one recently).

Maybe its just not his thing. I personally don't do oral sex, I don't ask for it either. You could have asked him to us his fingers.

Hi My name is n_____ and I'm addicted to coffee. Its been 2, maybe 3 hours since my last cup.

The low light of the day was that my TV fan started cutting out forcing the TV to shut itself off. I've been replacing fans in computers for years (1987 I installed 2 fan in my Coleco-vision ADAM to solve an over heating problems) and the TV is years out of warranty. So I thought I'd open it up and take a look. Easy peasy, a 4.75 inch by 1 inch fan... red, black, with 3rd wire for sensor - pretty much the same as the one I installed in my computer a couple months ago. No problem. I found a computer parts paradise just around the corner from where I live (a whole isle of computer fans). Got a fan, installed it. I had to graft in a different plug because the fans plug was different from the previous fan. Connected it all etc.. Everything worked. reassembled the TV and remounted it on wall... BUT It started cutting out again. I had visions of the staff at some repair store laughing at me for trying to fix it myself. So I took it back down, took apart and decided to solder the wires where I graphed on the new fan to the old plug for a more secure setting (instead of screwed on caps connectors). Still didn't work. pushed the fan's plug a little tighter, it clicked, and presto, the TV worked... and is still working an hour later. Cost of replacement fan $10. The thought of having to take it to a repair shop, embarrassing. Getting it working myself, priceless.

Could you narrow down the scope a bit, like where did you see her ad for example? what city? the reason I ask, is that I have seen a lady who called herself Dakota, but not Delectable, but its possible she might have added an adjective Edit: Skip that, I found the post by Delectable Dakota... I don't think she is the same girl, the girl I saw was brunette.

So glad I started this thread.

For me, I don't think that's changed much. I still get hard at inopportune times. Perhaps not as often, but more often than is needed. I remember my first hard on, in grade 7 English, (1976 approx.). Didn't have clue what was happening. LOL.

yeah, with malls open on Sunday I found the best place to teach my kids driving was a grave yard... Additional Comments: I agree that the bush was sexy. If it makes you feel any better, my wife still has her bush. I'm sure she's not alone in the lack of landscaping down under. I actually put out a question about that a while back. The best response I got was that it was had to do with Thong bathing suits. As they became more popular it encouraged trimming of the nether regions. I'm a member of playboy cyberclub and have access to the pinups from its inception to the present. Looking at playboy from 1980 to 2010 you see a very gradual reduction in bush from year to year. Consistent with the thong hypothesis, the shape of the bush first became narrow before finally disappearing altogether . Its a fascinating cultural shift in the concept of sexy, worthy of close scrutiny, lol. I plan to spend many hours closely examining the evidence.

I recently found this beautiful little skirt on the Garden of Eden Web site... I do so love the skirt and stockings combo. and the flip side view as well, yummy.

Or, lucky is the man who can afford to get that lust taken care of on the side... lol, without his love knowing.

I think the problem with the word love is that we used that same word to mean so many different things. People say non-sense like love is never having to say you are sorry... that's just nuts. People say, that love is unconditional, but that's often just simply not true and frankly loving someone no matter what is just nuts. In my opinion, "Love" is a bonding instinct works through the limbic system, and that bond is actually pretty stupid. Its similar to an addiction. The limbic system is controls desires, but is a pretty stupid system that can easily get hooked on dysfunctional behaviors (drugs, alcohol, excessive gambling etc.). Love is however very important for survival. Love for example of a child is a bonding instinct that has very little to do with their behavior. A child has to be pretty awful for a parent who loves him/her for the parent to seriously waver in that feeling towards their brats... Good thing too because if that wasn't the case then many young children wouldn't survive past their 2nd birthday... and those that do, wouldn't make it past adolescence. Love of a child can be virtually unconditional when the parent is well bonded to their child. Children can also be strongly instinctually bonded to their parents, but it is not necessarily as strong, and may well not be unconditional. Any parents who has had a teenager will come to hear statements such as "you're ruining my life". But the good parents will still welcome the wayward child back home etc. and the children will move past that stage and come to love their parents with more affection (well that's been my experience with my kids anyway). Romantic love sometimes comes in a similar strength to parent/child bonding and is from time to time irrationally nutty. It can be unconditional, but it sad when its not mutually of that strength. As with the parent child bond romantic love was important for survival during our hunter gatherer days -- at least until at least one of the kids reaches the age of 7 -- an age at which the child has the strength and intelligence to survive and help out his or her mother survive. I often wondered if that's the origin of the 7 year itch phenomenon. Coincidence? Its not as crucial to survival anymore but we are all powerfully motivated to seek out that romantic love. Also that romantic bond is often not mutual and in my opinion its the same bond -- the same limbic system links -- whether is mutual or not. This is because unrequited love has many of the same characteristics as mutual pair bonding... without the mutual bit. Friendship love, if you call it love, is rational, and based on how they act. Its in my opinion one of the most beautiful interpersonal relationships when its respected equally by both, but its NOT really unconditional. That is a friend that betrays ones trust could very well end that relationship. Romantic love and friendship often do coincide. That is the person who one loves as a romantic partner is also, hopefully, someone who you like as a friend. I'm not really sure if I love my wife, but I like her... were friends... and in a sense that's probably more important for why we are still together. Then there is admiration -- not a friendship per se -- but admiring someone of high status, or great importance. We use that same word again, love, to describe a great writer or philosopher or politician or performer of some kinds that we admire. Is that love? Its not typically unconditional because if the admired person proves unworthy, that love will disappear pretty quickly. Then there is the love of pets. That's probably the same as bonding with ones children, but I'm not entirely convinced by that. When my pet fish die... its not a particularly traumatic experience, but perhaps for dogs or cats, that bond is stronger. Calling all these things love can makes talking about relationships very confusing, and its important to specific what one is actually talking about.

Indeed. I fall in love every time I share an intimate experience with a lady. There is nothing more beautiful than the face of a woman just after penetration. Something about the combination of beauty, vulnerability, sensuality, trust, anticipation, and excitement.