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One of the things I've noticed is that once you get used to a condom, you don't really notice it anymore. My wife and I have been using condoms for years -- because she got pregnant too often using other methods (1 pregnancy while on the pill, 1 baby with diaphragm, etc.)... apparently we were at the high end of the fertility spectrum. Although its been 13 years since our last accidental pregnancy, we're not taking any chances. So I'm quite used to the rubbers. The thing is I really don't want to come home with some STD and have to try to explain why, or worse give it to her.

"fortunateone: I agree, and not just in sex workers and clients, but the general population" yes, I've heard of young women in the general public who refuse to use a condom... weird.

I value my health too much to want anything bare backed and would prefer a provider that has the same attitude. I think there is a growing complacency about STDs in society.

a cup of coffee with freshly ground beans

I've described my very first time above, but there were other firsts. I thought I'd describe my first time in Europe. It was in the city of Vienna. I had only started my hobby a year and a half earlier and had only been with 3 professional gals at that point so I was still pretty much a novice. I was heading to a conference in Vienna and was thinking about what to do for entertainment. I did a google search on prostitution in Europe and much to my delight discovered that it was legal in Austria. I searched out a few sites in Austria, but having limited knowledge of German I had difficulty finding a site. The big problem is I couldn't tell from the ads if the locations were brothels or strip joints. Fortunately while I was in Vienna I found a web site that described the various types of establishments in Vienna, but most were some distance from my hotel. But then I came across a review of a Laufhaus on Juchgasse which was not too far from my hotel -- about 1.5 km away -- walking distance. So I drew myself a map and put on my shoe and my jacket and walked out to explore this place. I could find it. I missed the street and nearly got lost. A half hour later I got back to my hotel. Took another look at the map realized my mistake and back out I went. This time I found it... just a half block from a clearly marked police station. I thought back to that web site... I sure hope it was telling the truth about the legality. Anyway. I found the door. The building was about 8 stories high and on each floor was 3 appartments with a 4th appartment a half floor up. There was an elevator, but since I didn't know who I wanted to see, I walked up checking out each door. According to the site one walks in look at the girls photos on her door, if a green light is on, you knock; if the red light is on, you don't knock. Most of the ladies were occupied, so I kept walking up. I think it was the 5th floor I came to the door of a Tatjana. In her pictures she had very long black hair, long legs, she was wearing stockings with garters, a black see through top, and held a mask over her head. She was gorgeous. So I knocked. She was very tall. She looked about 10 years older than her photos, but still was very attractive. I asked her how much for 15 minutes. She said 50 euros. So she invited me in. We did the financial part of the transaction. She asked me if I wanted some water I had a drink of water, and fetched me a bottle of water. We got down to sexual business. She was very nice. It was a great experience... one of the best sexual experiences I had ever had up to that point. I don't think she kept track of time either, she didn't rush me or anything, but was rather nice company. The only disappointment was no kissing; oh, and not much conversation... as she spoke mostly Russian and I only speak English. The web site for the Laufhaus is http://www.juchgasse11.at/home/ but shes not listed anymore. I'd post a photo of her from the web site but I can't figure out how to do that.

>Why is it that none of the major holidays are celebrated with naked lasciviousness rather than chocolate confections? Yes we need a bacchanalian festival. Why is it that people who care enough about their health to drink water in a water bottle, care so little about the health of the environment to leave the plastic bottle behind in the park.

I like natural breasts. I love nicely formed breasts, though not huge one... A nice C cup or even well formed B is fine with me. If a gal doesn't show her breasts clearly on the add, I'd likely pass. I was with a gal once whose ad said she had B cups... when she was lying on her back she hardly had any breasts at all. I had trouble getting turned on for the second round (even though otherwise she was gorgeous). I like brown or black hair. I'm particularly fond on very long wavy hair. I'm not really into blow jobs. I love kissing and I like either being on top or in cow girl, but am not that keen on doggie style. I prefer a non-smoker (for kissing). I don't mind tatoos or piercing, but am not attracted to them per se. I really like a girl who is interesting to talk to and has a great sense of humour. I often go to different girls each time, but there are some gals that I repeat with over and over again; it depends on if I feel like the excitement of novelty or the certainty of familiarity. When I go back to a girl I've been with before, its her personality and humour that I got back for. If I could I'd see a gal every week, but slightly less than once a month is all I can actually get away with. I've enjoyed every gal I've ever been with, but some of those experiences have been very very special.

last week of Winter, yippee thats a highlight as far as I'm concerned

the intensity of the experience varies each time There are a lot of factors that influence the intensity of the experience. The lady of course is a big part of it, her beauty or just how nice she is to me (humor, caressing, sense of fun). Another thing is my mood and how into it I am. Once I was thinking too much about someone else and just wasn't into the experience that day. So lots of factor contribute to the overall experience. But one factor that I find particularly important is timing. timing is the key for me. the best orgasms come when I slow down the thrusting just before I come, and coordinate the thrust perfectly with the ejaculation action so that I ejaculate as I'm thrusting in and match the thrust rhythm with the ejaculation pulses. I also note that if I come too soon or hold back too long, the organism isn't very good.

White lace definitely Skirts or Dresses.

I am an amateur artist... for fun, I've been trying to paint a portrait of a woman I used to know, almost entirely from memory (I have a photo of her, but the resolution is terrible)... I've been working on it for the past 3 weeks the pictures been close, but something was always slightly off.... this afternoon I realized I made her head slightly too large for her body... have corrected that... and cut back on her hair in the painting (I trimmed her hair, lol). and finally, it looks close enough.

cowgirl reality or fiction?

On Friday I finally put together a large project combining several files into one and the report for this project is now nearly complete... mostly just editing left to do!!! That was my highlight of the week. It wasn't until I had compiled it all to gether that I realized I actually could get the project finished by the end of the month as planned!!! Oh, and even more important, when my coauthor sent me back his corrections.. there weren't that many!!!

Never passed out, but have fallen asleep after sex from time to time.

Just note, the psychiatric definition of "pedifile" is sexual interest in a person who is prepubescent (typically under the age of 13) and LOOKS prepubesent. And the term refers to the psychiatric disorder, not whether the person acts on their desires. Most pedofiles do not engage in sex with minors (Dr. James Cantor at CAMH in Toronto calls them "gold star pedifiles), but those that do, tend to get the headlines. In the US very nasty laws make it nearly impossible for pedofiles to get help for their disorder. The term for a adult interested in sex with post pubesent girls 16 years old is "STUPID" (actually the term is Ephebophilia, but its not used very often and is typically not considered a psychiatric disorder).

A new coffee maker this afternoon about 5:30... my wife actually bought it for me because I was too busy makeing dinner (shes doesn't drinking coffee).

Before my wife and I were married, during one long summer we had no place to get intimate during the summer, so I'd meet her in Toronto, and we would go to various place and try to find cover where we could have some alone time... Once we made out in the bushes at night in Ontario place. Another time during the daytime, in the bushes just off the path in the Toronto Zoo. In all, probably in about 10 different outdoor locations -- never got caught. Twentry-six year later, its hard to believe shes the same person now, lol.

"In their defense, I do understand. I'm university educated and can't spell worth crap. lol. " very true, I have a Ph.D. and I can't spell and my writing is illegible (probably why they call me doc at work, lol). Additional Comments: The thing that makes me go hummmm are the water bottles one always sees left behind in parks, and conservation areas. You'd think that someone who wants to get out and enjoy nature and go for a walk or jog, and cares enough about their health to bring along water, would want to preserve that natural beauty that drew them to the park in the first place... nope... piles and piles of empty water bottles left behind.

4 door (I have kids) Do you prefer Live theatre or a movie?

thankyou for starting the thread... great idea I used the End of the World as an excuse for an evening out with a friend, drinking wine, and toasting the end of the world which neither of us believed would happen. It was good for a laugh. I always appreciated an extra excuse to go out drinking...

Darn it all. I was so looking forward to oblivion, lol. The worst part is now I'll have to actually pay for all those end of the world purchases I made, lol.

in Durham they have a lot of licence plates that start with bj. Saw 6 today. have not seen bbbj but did see bbj today, and a guy down the street has BJDB which i had to look at twice to confirm that that was a D, not an O.

Today it was my turn to cook. I placed in a glass baking dish 5 boneless pork chops, cut each in half, smoothered them in paprika, red onions, garlic, covered them with thinly sliced raw potatoes (carefully washed and cleaned, but not peeled), then covered the potatoes with freshly grated cheddar and parmesan cheese. It was then baked for an hour and a half and served with steamed brocolli. My three sons, my wife, and I, ate it without a single complaint, and there were no leftovers.

After work on Friday I was in need of some distraction and recreation. I booked an hour with Jasmine at the Garden of Eden. She is a sweet girl. Very thin, nice body, smoothe skin, very affectionate, very enthusiatic. I particularly loved the way she ran her hands all over me while we rested between shots. I also really enjoyed her kisses very much. She was just the right height so that we could kiss while making love. I loved the feel of her hair enveloping me. She was a great after work delight. I plan to repeat.