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She is reviewed on another board. I suggest you check those reviews before proceeding any further.

I don't think Emilie has a review thread yet so thought I'd start one. You can follow her on twitter, https://twitter.com/SpadeEmilie where she updates regularly. She has a unique style and look that you can see quite well on her social media pages. The pictures she posts match exactly the woman you will meet in person. I don't like to go into details but her service is of the highest level, she is very accommodating and goes out of her way to make the session great. I definitely recommend to pay her a visit.

I suggest you set up a "business only" twitter page. Don't use your personal one. From what I have seen, most providers do not at all connect their personal pages to their work ones, for privacy, etc. If you want to grow your business or advertise, start following other providers you know and they will likely follow you back. Retweet their posts sometimes and others will re-tweet yours sometimes to their followers. When someone follows you, follow them back. Over time you will see your list of followers grow. If you connect yourself to others in the Ottawa area, clients will find you. This can happen by re-tweets or by checking lists of followers. If a potential client follows you, following back is probably a good idea (although not all providers do this). From my perspective, the key to attracting and keeping potential clients is to post regularly, particularly pics and video. If you post interesting stuff, potential clients will keep following you. Be sure to present yourself well at all times. Don't worry about having high end professionally done photos. A few are nice but in some ways a good selfie is of higher interest to potential clients. Posting a new pic or vid or anything interesting or funny does have a way of keeping you in the front of our minds. One way to think about it is: Who would you rather book, the lady who posts new and interesting stuff on a regular basis or the one who never updates her page or has been reusing the same pics for two years? I almost never take a chance on a new person anymore unless I follow her on twitter first. It's partly to see her pics and video but I also get a sense of her personality and the way she runs her business. TBH, twitter convinces me not to visit people more than it convinces me to visit people. The good thing is I never have bad sessions anymore because with twitter I can get a pretty good idea of who will provide a good experience and who won't without taking any chances. There are also some providers who don't use twitter so much to advertise, it's more just to keep in contact with their existing clients. They might keep their accounts private and only accept people they know as followers. In this case they just use twitter to let their clients know when they are available and to stay in touch with their clients in between meetings.

Noticed someone asking about Lexi on the other board so thought I would recommend her here as well. The pictures on her lyla profile are quite accurate. She's got that bleach blonde larger than life dancer look that you can easily imagine on stage at clubs in Montreal. She has quite a few tats, for those who care about that type of thing. Her service is outstanding. She's open minded and fun and definitely goes out of her way to tailor the session to the client. She's also very friendly and easy to talk to. Booking was easy, the session started on time and she has a nice incall location. Definitely recommend paying her a visit.

If you have a website, I don't think it matters too much. If I like the pictures I see in an ad, I will likely click through to the website right away. If I don't like the pictures, I won't proceed any farther. On the website I will look for pictures, rates, availability, contact info, services and general location. I prefer if the website content is created by the lady herself, or if she has a twitter page, something that gives an idea of her personality. The other concern with BP is that many ads are fake. So I always look to make sure the person is legit. If you have a website or active twitter page or something, this becomes much less of a concern.

She's been working indie lately (613-902-2494): http://ottawa.backpage.ca/BodyRubs/im-back-orleans-redhead-independent/54458382

Yes, I assumed he was talking about an SP. He did start off by saying he spent time with his "favourite SP." Now he says he doesn't pay her, or at least not all the time. If he's not paying her, she's not an SP. Does she think of him as a client or boyfriend? If the answer is boyfriend, then WIR, I imagine everything you say is true. If the answer is client, then TBH, what you are describing sounds a lot like what has been referred to as a bad client on the regular client thread of the other board. For example, the guy who expects unpaid time, etc. Anyway, you are correct, I don't know the details of your situation. I brought this up because it's not uncommon to see guys get a little over attached, if you know what I mean. If that's not your situation then please ignore everything I said.

Yes, of course you did, seeing as that's what happened when you made an identical post on the other board. Interesting that you deleted the thread over there. I don't mean to be negative, just realistic. Enjoy your time with her for what it is but realize, you don't know her. You know the paid version of her. They aren't the same. Outside of the sp world she doesn't exist, neither does someone "just like her" (actually the paid version of her). Believing that you will find someone in an unpaid relationship who will behave like someone in a paid "relationship" is where I think you will end up in trouble.

Concerns about the negative effects of porn are very real: I wouldn't be surprised if seeing SPs can have similar effects. Wonder if anyone has looked into it?

Sounds like you are mixing a paid fantasy with reality. Don't go there my friend.

Seriously? Darwin should be in touch with you soon.

I can recommend Camryn. Haven't seen her in awhile so my info may not be up to date but I've had a fun time with her on more than one occasion.

OMG, you're a dude, I assumed you were a woman. Guess this would be an example of how pics help, lol!

Pictures please

Zoe doesn't visit Ottawa often. Pretty sure she's from Montreal so only posts when in town. She sometimes offers duos with Kate. She's legit for sure.