itd131

She is reviewed on another board. I suggest you check those reviews before proceeding any further.

I don't think Emilie has a review thread yet so thought I'd start one. You can follow her on twitter, https://twitter.com/SpadeEmilie where she updates regularly. She has a unique style and look that you can see quite well on her social media pages. The pictures she posts match exactly the woman you will meet in person. I don't like to go into details but her service is of the highest level, she is very accommodating and goes out of her way to make the session great. I definitely recommend to pay her a visit.

I suggest you set up a "business only" twitter page. Don't use your personal one. From what I have seen, most providers do not at all connect their personal pages to their work ones, for privacy, etc. If you want to grow your business or advertise, start following other providers you know and they will likely follow you back. Retweet their posts sometimes and others will re-tweet yours sometimes to their followers. When someone follows you, follow them back. Over time you will see your list of followers grow. If you connect yourself to others in the Ottawa area, clients will find you. This can happen by re-tweets or by checking lists of followers. If a potential client follows you, following back is probably a good idea (although not all providers do this). From my perspective, the key to attracting and keeping potential clients is to post regularly, particularly pics and video. If you post interesting stuff, potential clients will keep following you. Be sure to present yourself well at all times. Don't worry about having high end professionally done photos. A few are nice but in some ways a good selfie is of higher interest to potential clients. Posting a new pic or vid or anything interesting or funny does have a way of keeping you in the front of our minds. One way to think about it is: Who would you rather book, the lady who posts new and interesting stuff on a regular basis or the one who never updates her page or has been reusing the same pics for two years? I almost never take a chance on a new person anymore unless I follow her on twitter first. It's partly to see her pics and video but I also get a sense of her personality and the way she runs her business. TBH, twitter convinces me not to visit people more than it convinces me to visit people. The good thing is I never have bad sessions anymore because with twitter I can get a pretty good idea of who will provide a good experience and who won't without taking any chances. There are also some providers who don't use twitter so much to advertise, it's more just to keep in contact with their existing clients. They might keep their accounts private and only accept people they know as followers. In this case they just use twitter to let their clients know when they are available and to stay in touch with their clients in between meetings.

Noticed someone asking about Lexi on the other board so thought I would recommend her here as well. The pictures on her lyla profile are quite accurate. She's got that bleach blonde larger than life dancer look that you can easily imagine on stage at clubs in Montreal. She has quite a few tats, for those who care about that type of thing. Her service is outstanding. She's open minded and fun and definitely goes out of her way to tailor the session to the client. She's also very friendly and easy to talk to. Booking was easy, the session started on time and she has a nice incall location. Definitely recommend paying her a visit.

If you have a website, I don't think it matters too much. If I like the pictures I see in an ad, I will likely click through to the website right away. If I don't like the pictures, I won't proceed any farther. On the website I will look for pictures, rates, availability, contact info, services and general location. I prefer if the website content is created by the lady herself, or if she has a twitter page, something that gives an idea of her personality. The other concern with BP is that many ads are fake. So I always look to make sure the person is legit. If you have a website or active twitter page or something, this becomes much less of a concern.

She's been working indie lately (613-902-2494): http://ottawa.backpage.ca/BodyRubs/im-back-orleans-redhead-independent/54458382

Yes, I assumed he was talking about an SP. He did start off by saying he spent time with his "favourite SP." Now he says he doesn't pay her, or at least not all the time. If he's not paying her, she's not an SP. Does she think of him as a client or boyfriend? If the answer is boyfriend, then WIR, I imagine everything you say is true. If the answer is client, then TBH, what you are describing sounds a lot like what has been referred to as a bad client on the regular client thread of the other board. For example, the guy who expects unpaid time, etc. Anyway, you are correct, I don't know the details of your situation. I brought this up because it's not uncommon to see guys get a little over attached, if you know what I mean. If that's not your situation then please ignore everything I said.

Yes, of course you did, seeing as that's what happened when you made an identical post on the other board. Interesting that you deleted the thread over there. I don't mean to be negative, just realistic. Enjoy your time with her for what it is but realize, you don't know her. You know the paid version of her. They aren't the same. Outside of the sp world she doesn't exist, neither does someone "just like her" (actually the paid version of her). Believing that you will find someone in an unpaid relationship who will behave like someone in a paid "relationship" is where I think you will end up in trouble.

Concerns about the negative effects of porn are very real: I wouldn't be surprised if seeing SPs can have similar effects. Wonder if anyone has looked into it?

Sounds like you are mixing a paid fantasy with reality. Don't go there my friend.

Seriously? Darwin should be in touch with you soon.

I can recommend Camryn. Haven't seen her in awhile so my info may not be up to date but I've had a fun time with her on more than one occasion.

OMG, you're a dude, I assumed you were a woman. Guess this would be an example of how pics help, lol!

Pictures please

Zoe doesn't visit Ottawa often. Pretty sure she's from Montreal so only posts when in town. She sometimes offers duos with Kate. She's legit for sure.

Sophia is back. You may remember her from her days at PK or previously as an indie. Dropped by for a visit and had a great time. Her pics are accurate (she doesn't show her face but she is gorgeous, IMHO) and she has a nice downtown incall location. It has been a very long time since I've seen her, as she has been out of the biz, so it was a very nice surprise to see she is back. Same great service as always and I find that every visit with her is better than the last one. I definitely recommend her!

Believe this is Angelica from PS.

Saw her awhile ago. Had a great time. Definitely recommend her.

Charlotte fits the bill I think: http://backpage.com.ottawa.listcrawler.com/post/19191206/charlotte

OK, thanks. Thanks for the nominations!

You're welcome Goddess. What is a nominated post anyway?

I haven't noticed a trend of lowering rates. I would say rates have been fairly consistent for awhile. I would say it is not at all accurate that a majority of providers are charging 80-100 per hour. I have never seen that and if I did, I would probably assume it was some type of scam. I would say the most common hour rates are in the area of 160-200. I have seen as low as 120 and as high as 400 but those are extremes and very rare. It's difficult to compare rates because there are a lot of factors that affect rates such as: Services - ladies who offer less options generally charge less Experience - it seems to me the most popular providers are the ones who are un-rushed, friendly, and go out of their way to create a fun experience for their clients Attractiveness - I think the truth is that guys will pay more to spend time with a lady who is DDG, for ex. Willingness to travel - ladies who travel frequently can often charge more because their pool of clients is larger (that's my theory anyway) Repeat customers - it's quite common that ladies offer lower rates to their regulars Location - I think clients generally expect better quality incall locations with providers who charge higher rates, also rates are often a bit lower outside the downtown core or on the Quebec side There are probably other factors I'm not thinking of right now as well. I would say that providers who are strong in these areas aren't lowering their rates. My guess would be that if someone keeps dropping their rates it's because they aren't offering sessions that clients want to pay for because they are lacking in one or more of the areas listed above. Hope that helps

She is reviewed here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=216621&highlight=naomie

I saw her years ago. She is definitely legit. I never repeated.

When I think of my all time favourite ladies that I've met over the years, right away five come to mind. Some are still in the business, some aren't. They have a lot in common in that they are all great in many ways, friendly, beautiful, caring - pretty much every positive trait you can think of. In my opinion they are the best I've met in this business and great people, period. The other thing they have in common is they have all been criticized at one point or another on review boards. Trust me, the problem wasn't with them, it was the guys/idiots writing the reviews. Awhile ago I was visiting a regular and she brought up a poor review she had received. I could sense she was a little pissed off. She said she tried her best with the client but he was smelly, rude and made her feel uncomfortable. From what she described, I'm surprised she even let him in her apartment but that's the type of person she is, always willing to try to please. Of course she couldn't be her best with him, the guy was a disgusting pig. Also, some losers just get off on cutting down others. They hide behind their computer screens and anonymously talk shit. I guess it makes them feel powerful but I'm sure in real life they are pathetic failures. When I read a review I take it with many grains of salt. I know there are two sides to every story and the lady doesn't get to write hers. I can understand how it must be upsetting to read negative things but please understand that just because someone writes something, definitely doesn't mean I believe it. I don't really pay attention to the content of reviews anyway. I mostly just check them as it gives me an indication that someone isn't a total fake. It's a sad fact that even the best in this business have to put up with losers writing trash about them. I think all you can do is ignore it and be confident that the good clients are ignoring it too.