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I guess there can be benefits, but it just seems kinda weird!

Thanks everyone for all the input! "Moving on" seems to be the easiest and most common recommendation. But I think it's easier said than done! I like to stay optimistic! So just a quick poll; say the lady does happen to email me back... go for it? Or not? At first, I thought it might be a bit awkward - but if I step back and look at it, I think I was very tactful in my emails, and it was probably just an accident that my email got overlooked, so it shouldn't be an issue? As for phone calls, I can see why it would be a preferred method for some (PS- Megan, I think your method works very well!!), ... but when is a good time to call??? I would imagine during "available hours" would be best, but if she was busy at the time, ringing/vibrating cell phones are definitely an unwelcome distraction! -C

Thanks all for the replies. Her website stipulated that she'd only receive texts from guys she's met before. Anyway, I feel a bit better now. Still disappointed, since I'll have to move on, and she was really really good looking. I very much wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, since I know that stuff happens all the time, and you get busy with one thing or another... but that went out the window when she added a CERB post with her upcoming availabilities. :frown: Cheers...

So I've been interested in getting a massage from ... well, let's just say a semi-regular CERB lady. Last time I was in Ottawa, I emailed her once when I got into town, and then again two weeks later... but by the time she responded, I had left town. Now that I'm back in Ottawa, I tried emailing her again. To my delight, she responded right away with several availabilities over the next few days. I returned her email right away, and waited ... and waited ... and waited. I emailed her again a few days later, and proposed another time and date, but no response still. This was a week ago. So my question is, should I read anything into this? Is she not really interested in me? Should I try emailing again, or is it too awkward now? Anybody have a similar experience?

I just wanted to chime in and say thanks to Emily for a great massage this evening. Even though she had only started working there a week ago, she was great. I really loved her perky ... personality. :wink: