Tara

Best Wishes from beautiful sunny Vancouver today.

Scammers can and do post on all sites so one needs to check reviews first before booking someone and now more than ever. Thanks to bill C36 being made a law now, the only complaint a man can make is that he paid for a massage and never got it. He most certainly cannot complain of not getting sexual services!

Discussion ads such as you describe are prohibited on the CL site so both the bad mouth ad and any responses it draws would be flagged by many and certainly the bad mouth ad would be reported to staff most likely which would bring it down pretty fast once they are aware of it. Normally it takes a lot of flags by different readers to remove an ad and the total number is not known to anyone but staff and it changes often as well depending on the category and how much spam is on the site at the time. Additional Comments: It is a good idea to try and figure out if you`re doing something which is getting your ads flagged off so you can do what you can to avoid it as much as possible. Once you understand how it works, it will be easier to avoid. A few people flagging off the competition doesn`t work unless you are over posting and your account is fragile and thus has a lower flag threshold (meaning it takes fewer and few flags to remove your ad if you have a history of getting a lot of flagged ads). While it is very common to violate rules on that site because nobody is happy just posting one ad every 48 hours as rules dictate and only in one location, the only way to fix a fragile account is to not use the account for a week or two and then abide by the rules to the letter for awhile to make your account stronger. The ad might still draw some flags from people, but it won`t get flagged off so quickly and maybe not at all. The other thing to watch for is when your ads are being flagged off before they even go up on the index. That means staff is aware you are breaking rules and have tagged your account to remove every ad you put up right away until you mend your ways. Those who still continue to ignore rules then may have the account put on hold and that is permanent. Another thing you should all be doing is flagging those spammers who are using every trick in the book to put up ten ads a day (& many in numerous locations in spite of just being in one location). If you don`t make an effort to flag and remove those big spammers, staff just lowers the flag threshold and the spammers are flagging you off but you are letting their ads stay up. Not a smart thing to let be happening. Your flag only counts once so it`s just finger exercise to be flagging the same ad over and over. Keep in mind that others breaking rules with prohibited photos and sex for money ads on CL doesn`t mean you will get away with it too. Be smart and word your ads so the men can contact you for more photos and more information and that will help you stay out of flag hell somewhat too. If everyone flagged the spammers, nobody would need to break rules with numerous ads a day in order to have their ad seen so get out and flag the spam and your own ad gets seen and the men will be happier not having to wade through the same spammers`ads over and over before they find a good one. Hope this helps everyone to manage their CL accounts so they are not getting flagged off so much.

It takes a great deal of time and persistence to get libelous posting removed and stopped once a poster decides to trash someone. I had a similar thing to deal with. Someone I had never had any contact with and at no time ever posted to or about her decided I was to blame for some problems she was having and trashed my working name on numerous sites. It took months to convince the site owners the accusation was trumped up and caused a lot of people a lot of time to get the truth out. By the time the truth comes out, your reputation is trashed and you are exhausted from the fight to defend yourself. Why any site permits serious accusations to be made without proof is just shocking beyond belief. Ignoring it doesn't work. It just gives the liar more rope to work with. My advice is to fight back in every legal way you can. Doing nothing just opens the door for them to do more harm to you.

Why any Government thinks it belongs in the bedrooms of the people in the first place will always be a mystery to me.

People who use the parking stall you are paying for when they know the manager is off duty and they cannot be towed out of it. Neighbors who play music loud enough to be intrusive, but not loud enough to interest the cops and again always when the manager is off duty so you can't stop them.

What about implied consent? Does a man not getting his sexual needs met by his committed partner have implied consent to see an escort? Most of my clients feel they do. The problem is that their partners would not think so.

I don't think so, but if your partner would think so, then it would be. If that is the case, then the problem you have isn't so much that you cheated in your partner's eyes (if they learned of it somehow), but the fact that your needs are not being met in the relationship itself and that is the real problem that needs to be addressed and not the cheating event itself.

The strong liking (also interpreted as love by many) that happens so often between men and women who get to know one another fairly well can happen regardless of how you meet one another and the fact that it is inconvenient for one or both won't usually matter much to either if it's mutual. The very nature of this particular business means it's more likely than not that it will be an unwelcome situation for one or the other or both people. If it's mutual and both people are emotionally available and mature enough to cope with the inevitable unique problems they'll encounter, more power to them to explore it if they want to. If not, I think most would agree with you birdboy that they should savor the great memories and move on.

Ah but in your case, I'm convinced that the best is still unwritten.

Birdboy never fails to fascinate his readers.

Anything you do which you feel has to kept hidden from your SO is cheating yourself out of the closest possible intimate relationship you could otherwise enjoy with your SO. Add to that the problem of the SO finding out and feeling you've betrayed the trust she had in you does more damage than any possible moral objections she might also have. If the relationship is pretty much in the dumpster anyway, all it does is crystallize it for both of you and somebody has to acknowledge it.

Very hard to imagine why you would not be welcome back considering the meaningful experience you shared with the lady. Perhaps she was fearful of becoming too attracted to you too which complicates things for both parties when that happens in the pooning world. To pine for an experience you had is less painful by far than to pine for one you want and will likely never have.

I think most providers would prefer their number remain in your phone for quick access to them. Even if someone finds the phone or just the number, there is nothing to tell them it's an SP's number anyway.