Hornet

"Humiliate" !? :) Would never do that, whether in person or through an email. That sounds too personal. :) What I wanted to say is that if the lady was advertising on a forum where negative feedbacks are common, she would be mentaly ready to take some critiziam as part of a process. If I approach her directly, not knowing that others had a chance to express their disliking, there is a chance that she might not be "ready" and take it too personally. But, I might be wrong. Some people might have other oppinions/experiences, which I respect. Cheers, H. Posted via Mobile Device

If the board allowed negative feedback, she would probably got used to it and not take it personally as it would be part of the process. Also from my experience, some people don't know how to react when criticized by others in person. They would rather read it, and digest it before decided to be offended or not. :) H. Posted via Mobile Device

Definatelly you are not naive, but highly professional. I just don't want to deal with potential negative consequences if she doesn't take constuctive criticism well. :) The last thing I want to happen is that a sexy lady approaches me somewhere when having dinner with friends and asks when I'll stop by for another "session". :) I would rather avoid that kind fo risk .. :) Posted via Mobile Device

The comment about the negative comments was in a different context. If the board allowed posting negative comments, I would be glad to share my experience with others. But as per the board policy, this is not the place for that so I don't have a choice but to keep it to myself. You have to follow the rules :) Posted via Mobile Device

Love your professionalism Meg, and wish more SPs are like you. But, there is a high risk involved here for the clients. If the lady in question runs a "bad" business like the one described, most likely she doesn't really care what the client thinks about her business. This means that she will probably be offended by my suggestions/comments. This might motivate her to do some nasty things. :) And as you know in this type of business discretion is an important thing. :) H. Posted via Mobile Device

I never said I will reveal her identity. I'll keep it to myself. As I said, I'm a nice guy. :) Posted via Mobile Device

Well, some of us gents don't want to offend the ladies, especially knowing that not everybody knows how to run a sustainable business. :) In this case I decided to stay but never come back. I might be wrong but I think many of gents here would do the same. Or maybe I am just too nice :) H. Posted via Mobile Device

There are many examples of sucesfull reviews/boards where positive and negative comments are allowed. If 90% of reviews are positive, probably the 10% are very subjective or just bashing. But, that's another story. Not the focus of this thread. :) I just wanted to mention that the Reco's didn't help me in this case, which does't mean that the board is not useful :) At least the pics and schedules are handy :) H. Posted via Mobile Device

Not sure who you were aiming at with this reply. I just mentioned that you were one of the lucky ones. Nothing wrong with that. And cheer up!, it's Friday :) Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: No offense but you sound very subjective with your last statement: "Positive is usually true while negative is subjective" :) What if the service is really bad? I am sure that you would agreed that that lady with smelly feet, or charging full rates when having a period is not really a characteristic of a good service. :) H. Posted via Mobile Device

I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients. Actually I find this "editing-concept" quite misleading as the negative ones get removed by the Mod very quickly. I am very diligent when it comes to choosing the right SP but I didn't find the Reco's useful in two "nightmare" cases that I mentioned. And yes, we can choose not to go back, but you still waisted your money by trusting Reco's showing only one side of the story. I wish there was a board more tailored to clients' needs then to SPs'. But I understand, many of SPs are the actual sponsors of this forum, so they make the rules :) Well, at least we can let SP know what we, the clients, like or don't which was the purpose of this thread. Hornet Cheers, Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments:

I guess I wasn't as lucky as you :) Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Hi, Recently had few encounters where I was turned off by the location where an SP was offering her services. Apartment was a real mess, washroom not very clean, room was too bright as the curtains were covering the outside light only partially, not to mention a case where I had to share a towel previously used by the SP. And those were SPs that charge over $XXXhr. Don't know about the rest of you guys, but these are big turn-offs for me. Curios to hear what other turn-offs you might have experienced in the past. :) (No names of SPs please!) The list might help some ladies to make us, clients, even happier. :) Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Thank you for your recommendation. Will definitely consider Manuella. Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Hi poolasaurus, You are probably right. There might not be many truly safe SPs around Ottawa. But I think the same applies to bigger cities like MTL, TO or Van. It seems that the high demand for DFK, DATY and BBBJ (GF experience in general) are encouraging SPs to include those services in their "menu". I guess there are not many clients who are as risk aversed as myself. I might not have a choice but to stick to the art of sensual massage with reputable MAs, which is not such a bad thing. :) Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

You can't go wrong with this place. Check the Reco's: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40225 Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Hi frosty, Thanks for sharing the news with us. I believe it's very important that we are all aware of the STIs and how they are transmitted, so we can better protect ourselves. Here is a handy STI chart which identifies different levels of risks associated with different types of sexual activities. Gonorrhoea (GC), which is referred to in your article, is there as well. http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/ Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Thank you Fortunateone, I love your analogy. You hit it right on the head. :) Thanks for recommendations. The search continues ...:) Cheers, Hornet

Hi Chanel, Thanks for your inputs. I agree with you 100%. I hope all SPs have the same approach and thinking as you, but I am sure there are some, less-careful ones out there. I came across this interesting chart that might be helpful to understand the risks involved (for those who are not sure). I found it quite informative. It's prepared by a professional health nurse from Vancouver who provides answers to sex-related questions to members of perb.ca, which is similar to cerb.ca but for Pacific-Prairie region. http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/ Cheers, Hornet

Lol! :) Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for your comment RG. It's true that there is no such thing as a 100% safe sex in this kind of business and I wasn't dreaming about it. :) But, there is a way of minimizing that risk significantly. For me that would be if the SP was never engaged in an unprotected sex with any client, not just me. If she did have unprotected sex with some of the clients before, that increases the risk for me even if I insist on using protection during our encounter. In other words, the risk is even lower if both parties have been practicing safe sex all the time, not only one of them. :) Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for clarification PP. Cheers, Hornet

Thanks for recommendation PP. Much appreciated. I just find this to be more effective approach then going through hundreds of recommendations, if the gents are willing to share their knowledge of course. I know that I wouldn't mind sharing my experience if someone asks for a help. Also, SPs might be interested in identifying themselves. Cheers, hornet

Hi there, I've been enjoying sensual massages so far, but I am also considering exploring the pleasures of SP services. But, since I am very conscious of STDs I would like to focus my attention on SPs that offer ONLY "safe" GFE to ALL of their customer, as safe it can be. :) So, no BBBJ, DATY, DFK, unprotected sex and other types of direct contact during the play. I would appreciate your recommendation. Thank you, Hornet

Thanks. Will check the Sun. I hope she still uses the same name. Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device