CristyCurves

Wow,it is amazing how one can twist things,so if I don't understand something ,I am judging? and who said I couldn't turn on or off my emotions? Hmmm,interesting and, yes I am stating my opinion about my relationship,how I don't kiss and how I can't do this and be in a relationship,thats what the thread addressed,how some may change when in a relationship.It asked for my opinion as much as it asked for yours,which you gave,as you said, frankly, who asked for it,lol.I put man in quotations because I said my man as oppposed to my woman as some partner with the same sex,(and there is nothing wrong with that)I, with a man,so funny, as I said, how some can read more into something than is meant.To address your comment about how much sex you can have,good,great,thats you and?Why is it alright for you to say how much you can or cannot have,and you got offended when I did,I'm not offended or really care about your comment,as I said we are all different ,I said what I said,you read into it something negative,mean when thats not what was being said at all ,then you go and state your own opinion,which by the way is not friendly,positive or any more relavent than mine,but thats alright,hmmm, but it does seem rather hypocritical though,I mean you condemn me for being judgemental,rather condescending, and you turn around and respond to me that exact way. So I'll send you a big hug, because you should'nt get so upset over someones opinion especially when it is misinterpreted .

Thanks,I did have that on my web page but removed it because of the men that said I wasn't ,oh well ,those who have seen me know my service is great and what is involved ,so however some identify is fine.

Well when someone picks apart a post section by section its hard not to take it personally ,also it doesn't appear that the other responses are just differences,but criticisms of how I act with my clients,I am not the subject of this thread,its about how we may treat our clients when we are in a personal relationship.The other respondents felt since we provide"a fantasy" there should be no change,well I as I said that isn't how I am, and as in alot of threads if you are not part of the popular vote you will get what I percieve to be criticized,not "discussed",perhaps being honest isn't a good thing.jmo.

I have been accused of not providing a gfe service because I don't offer bbbj,so there are some men who consider bbbj part of the gfe service.I am simply not willing to take the risks and,the more a man uses a condom the less they feel like they have one on,so I have been told.

depending on your provider and if you have another phone with you you may be able to get them to forward your work number to your other phone,hope this helps,sorry for you I've done that to ,it's pissy!

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I am addressing your comment since it was directed at my response,it is alright that you can't understand,but what I was expressing was in relation to how I again, interact with my clients,there is no right or wrong protocol,or am I missing something.I,when being sexual with my clients "let go" if the chemistry is right an orgasm will occur,that is a good thing isn't it,I assume men want and like this,if the chemistry is not there then I will do my best to make his time very fulfilling and satisfying,since I am not a great actress and assume most gentlemen want us too be ourselves,thats what occurs.Of course my main concern is the client and his orgasm,conversation,or whatever fulfillment he is looking for,I am never looking to fall in love,fulfill my needs or become emotionally involved with them,neither am I looking to put on any pretences,why some are finding that offencesive I don't get.Who said I can't separate love from fantasy,because I can't be "involved" and see clients?Some can some can't ,I can't,if I am in a relationship,and perhaps I am selfish(not a blanket statement),but I want to keep all my sexual energy,fantasizing and whatever else for my man,why is that so hard for some to except?I provide all my clients with an experience,fantasy,great conversation,and I am professional and if I get to have orgasms doing so thats a bonus,if you ,or others have to fake them in your encounters thats your business,most men ,or perhaps my clients are different,as part of their experience they want to please their provider before they are pleased,since I want all my clients to be happy I oblidge,again if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't,who said anything about love or romance?But I will keep in mind how we as sp's are supposed to behave,what about our rates is there a protocol for those to?I mean really it seems that some are trying to suggest how to act with clients, I would never suggest to anyone how or what they should do with their clients ,nor would I ever criticize what they offer to their clients,thats simply not my business.

oh boom boom you are so naughty,lol

Good luck to you hun,and thanks for making me laugh in your posts and in the email you had sent a while back,I'm sure you will accomplish whatever you put your mind to ,all the best,Cristy.:icon_mrgreen:

aww, big hug to you chanel,as a huge dog lover I can certainly relate to your pain,thinkikg of you my dear,stay strong,Cristy

Keep in mind the said persons age,really, when any of us were that young I'm sure we made a flurry of mistakes!I agree to out someone negatively in this forum is not necessary,if your encounter was unsatisfactory discuss it with the said provider,then move on.This site is a recommendation board,not a review board as it says at the top of the page.I think some forget how some young,very young people do not act or respond the way more mature people do,they see the world through different eyes.I say give her a break,and again remember her age.

Offputting?Sorry expressing how I interact with my clients and not understaning others interactions is offensive?I wasn't judging anyone,I DID SAY WHAT I DON"T OR CAN"T DO I CAN"T UNDERSTAND!!!THEREFORE COULDN"T DO. In order to be non judgemental do you have to conform?Only agree with the popular vote?I never make comments to win points but to express my feelings,never have I passed judgement on anyone,I find saying that offputting!

Emily,with all due respect,this isn't an argument,a right or wrong action,simply a description of how I feel ,if I didn't explain myself clearly as far as "old fashioned" went,sorry,but why be so offended,we all are different,as I said,for myself to be able to be with more than one man and be "real"(by that I mean to actually get turned on) I simply cannot be in a relationship,some people consider that "old fashioned",my beliefs about how we should dress in church might be considered "old fashioned",but yes,yet I can be a service provider!!Old fashioned,new fashioned,whatever,we all are different,express our views differently and understand and see things differently,and rightfully so,what you can do and how you see things is different to how I do and see things ,and also to others,I wasn't criticizing anyone,just explaining my point of view,isn't that the point of each thread,to effect responses and different view points?

Well emily it is different because THEY are the one that is coupled,which doesn't affect me,they will have to deal with how many people they can interact with,I was speaking about myself and personallly if I am to be "real" with my clients I cannot be in a relationship,WE all are different,and can't I be old fashioned in some ways and not in others?I wasn't aware that being"old fashioned" in a relationship meant you were "old fashioned" concerning every other aspect of your life.

Well I'm sure I'll get blasted for my opinion in this thread,but it is just that, my opinion and, I'm just being honest.I don't know how someone can do this and maintain a personal relationship,since this business involves sex,how can one person become that aroused?I mean if you are intimate with your partner,then meet with another gentleman or two or three that day I don't understand how one can become genuinely aroused with each man.Perhaps my labido is lower than most(however I don't think so) or are some just great actressess?I mean most profess to offer genuine intimate encounters,passionately kissing ect,I just don't get it and I also wonder,as we do when we don't understand things,how one could allow their partner to "sleep around".I am sure I am not the only one ,but when I am a "couple " neither of us will be with another,perhaps I am old fashioned.I simply don't understand a "man" wanting his partner to be with orther men,but to each their own.So to address the kissing not being the same,I personally don't kiss on my dates as I am one who finds this act to involve emotions,not just physical gratification,and emotions are not something I can turn off or on ,they are either there or not,I have to genuinely,emotionaly care for someone to want to deep french kiss them.

I have been lucky lately, the last couple of times I was pulled over I was let go with a warning,I have to be careful as I am a fast driver and most officers aren't that forgiving.

I don't think this is a new thing as I can remember going to my friends church (a catholic church),when I was younger, and was surprised at how casually dressed most of the congregation was.I am anglican,on sundays we had to dress to impress,this seemed to be more important than the sermons.However dressing scantily is a no no in my opinion,it's disrespectful in any church setting.

Thank you for saying that,yes with the multitude of personalities and beliefs,everyone plays nice and is respectful of one anothers opinions,posts and responses,but then again it is a forum where the motto is if you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all, and bad behavior is penalized here.

again she moaned,she asked

super,super sexy,good choice!

Well, I will again say Streisand and Redford,the two of them in the way we were,just magic.

When your neighbour finds out you are an sp then thinks all of the cities crimes and criminals will now be coming to her door,,,,,,,duhhhhh

she quivered,moaned,I want

They say you can tell alittle about a person by the color or colors they like. WHITE:symbolic of purity,innocence and naivete,white has strong connotations to youth and purity.If you are an older person with a preference towards white it may be because you desire perfection and impossible ideals,maybe an attempt to recapture your youth and freshness.It may also symbolize a desire for simplicity. RED:the color of strength,health and vitality.Red is often the color chosen by someone outgoing,aggressive,vigorous, and impulsive,or someone who would like to be.It goes with an ambitious nature,but those who choose it can be abrupt at times.Determined to get all they can out of life,quick to judge people and take sides.Red people are usually optimistic and can't stand monotony,they are restless and not at all introspective.unaware of their own shortcomings.Quiet people that are drawn to red may feel the need for warmth,strength and the life giving qualities of the color.Red is chosen by people with uncomplicated natures,with a zest for life. PINK:embodies the gentler qualities of red,symbolizing love,affection without passion.Women who prefer pink tend to be material and desire protection,special treatment and a sheltered life.Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure,perhaps wanting to appear delicate and fragile.Pink people tend to be charming,gentle,and a trifle indefinite. GREEN:the color or harmony and balance.It symbolizes hope,renewal and peace,and is usually liked by the gentle and sincere.Greens are usually frank,community-minded people,farily sociable but prefering peace at any cost.They may be exploited by others,are usually refined,civilized and reputable. YELLOW:the color of happiness,wisdom,and imagination.Yellow is choosen by the mentally adverturous,searching for novelty and self-fulfillment.Yellows have a sunny,shrewd personality,with a good business head and a strong sense of humor.It is the color of intellectuality. BLUE:soft,soothing,compassionate and caring.Blue is the color of deliberation and introspection,conservatism and duty.Blues like to be admired for their steady character and wisdom.They are faithful,but are often worriers with somewhat inflexible beliefs and can be to cautious,and suspicious of flamboyant behavior. BROWN:this person has stamina and patience,tending to be solid and substansial,concientious,dependable,steady and conservative.Browns may be inarticulate and tactless but they love responsibilty and are reliable and kindly.If you chose brown,watch out for a tendency to be obstinate and inflexible. BLACK:dignified and impressive without being showy.Black lovers want to give the appearence of mystery,but their preference may also indicate a suppression of desires and wordly aims suggesting hidden depths and inner longings.

Do you think the type of sex you like to have says anything about your character,personality? Example:If you are into rough,hard sex,does that mean you are cold,standoffish?or if you are a passionate,sensual lover,does it mean you are soft and kind,ect,ect?What is your opinion.