CristyCurves

I've erased the thread since I am not sure if discussing the method of determining fees is the same as discussing "price".I sort of thought it was different ,but am bowing out of the thread as I don't want to offend anyone or break any rules,I seem to do that,unintentionally,enough!

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A topic that will spark many different opinions,as some still wear it,believe it's no different than wearing leather,others,like myself,won't,think it's passe,cruel,and different than wearing leather, as most animals skinned for fur are not eaten, as are animals that are used for leather products. Do you think it is a practice that should be of the past?

First may I say Victoria,you are imo,the ideal example of a high class sp.Your web site,your portfolio,image,accent,ect.If I were to better,I would be you!So for any man to have your company I would say he should be honored,very lucky,to expect a menu from someone such as yourself would be akin to expecting a bently to having faux leather. There are as many different types of hobbyists as there are sp's,many hobbyists will expect alot of sp's to offer the same as oneanother ,so when one doesn't they will get offended,or simply move on,it is not fair as we all are different,I for one do discuss some of my activities,but have gone further with some than others because the chemistry was different ,some make sparks fly others don't.More men should realize it's not all about "price".(I have found some hobbyists won't even consider an sp unless she charges150/hourly or less for gfe,I found that shocking!),menus,it is alot about chemistry,or we would all be great actresses,and I for one am not good at being something other than"me".The only way a man will know if we are for him is to experience us as a whole,despite what we will or will not do.So don't despair this has happened to alot of us,the good ones keep us in the business and the others,well they are simply not good enough for you anyway.Stay true to you,as you shine!

I wouldn't have known about it thanks for bringing it to light,scary,creepy,what next!

Congradulations on your achievements,you make me want to go forward and achieve something,not sure just what yet,but something.

Yes I get that and I agree,I was just explaining why I said what I said.But also when we are intimate with one another as adult men and women we all should be aware of all the possibilities of our bodies functions and non functions.that is different than being unclean,and to others that are pouncing on my reply,why respond to my reply,I am entitled to my opinion,reply to his thread.

So can playing without protection,but many do it ,and that is intentional and who said MEN weren't entiltled to their opinion.If this was an issue that had happened more than once or even twice to this individual then I could support a thread,but he was speaking of one incident ,with one sp,thats why the suggestion was made to a pm.Fair is fair,in the same circumstances.

An education does not make or break a person,if someone is testing you they are doing it out of their own insecurity,after all the only people that put others down are the ones that are lacking something within themselves. Their are many very smart,self made people that don't have an education,their are very educated assholes,their are those with high school that can talk they way around,up and down a person with a phd.Never feel inferior,you are you,special,one of a kind and deserving of as much respect as any.

Sorry to hear that,and know the feeling as a couple of hobbyists also have been thoughtless to me and were no shows,did not cancel.So nice of you to give,I to give to homeless and always feel better afterwards,but I also wonder if I am helping or enabling. Poor souls,it's so sad to see another human in that state.

It's been a while now since I have been posting,reading,advertising on this site.I have to say,finally I am starting to "get it".I never read the fine print on anything,so I make alot of mistakes,but I also handle the consequences,as I have done here..But like when in school,when you first come into the playground you look around and see all the "kids",playmates,it takes time before you realize who is friends with who ,who plays fair who cheats,so on and so on.On this site there is a vast array of personalities,some simplistic,like mine,straight forward,playful,some that are favortists,some are very intelligent,fair minded,you get my point,all in all a pretty good variety.But then, why do I get the feeling in alot of my posts there are a few that seem to want to point out my short comings,mistakes,ect.If this site is about fairness,friendliness,"only say nice things",type of place,then why? If one doesn't care for someone or their posts then avoid them,as we all have a right to speak our minds,state our opinions,without condemnation,schooling anothers,or blasting anyone,lets just be nice.Anything I post is never directed at any particular person ,unless they are mentioned,I don't hide behind my words,and we all know by now, I say what is on my mind,without censorship,but also ,without hate ,finger pointing or blame.So like me or not,I do,and if you don't agree with my posts thats fine but please,no ganging up,pointing out my faults,I am aware of all of them,state your opinion,as I am interested in it,but don't condem mine.

Hygiene is one thing, bodily functions are another,we cannot control mother nature, but we all can control our ability to be clean.He was not complaining about unsanitary sp's or odourous females,so it isn't the same ,he was speaking about a subject as meg for fun said we can't always control.Sorry if you thought I was being hostile,wasn't at all ,making a suggestion,isn't that allowed?and hygiene issues happen with more than a few ,this thread was speaking about an incident between one hobbyist and one sp,therefore my suggestion to a pm.Imo,it is you that seems to be "hostile".

Happy birthday rg,don't do anything that I wouldn't do!(so that leaves it wide open),lol,,,,,,,have the best day.

Is family more important than friends,or should we not choose. What if family is not in contact,severely disfunctional? Should we then give up ,throw in the towel,or is family family,to the end? When is a friend not a friend?what is considered crossing the line,should a friend always take a bullet for you,keep your confidences,stand up for you? My personal definition of a friend is someone that is there for me in my times of need,someone that is genuinely concerned for my well being,one who would NEVER divuldge my secrets & only wants the best for me.

How about using "The Best' in threads,such as,"the best bums on cerb",ect,are those people making those claims in their right mind?.After all how can anything be the best,it's like trying to climb a never ending ladder,where is the top?

Interesting,thanks for the information,I guess it's a good thing I'm lazy!!!

That was a good read,good job,thanks.I hope this is better,wasn't thinking!!!!As usual.

Chanel,Manolo Blanik,Jimmy Choo,LV,Prada,Seven For All Mankind,Mercesdes,Apple,Samsung,ect,ect.Do you go for them for the prestige,or the quality,or are you happy to shop at Aldo,Joe Fresh,GM,ect,ect. Some people consider those that have to be "branded" to be snobs,some believe people that have to where only brand names,insecure,others say it's all about class and privilidge,whats your opinion?

Oh no,what am I going to get tipped with now!! LOL,I was joking,I am glad to see them go as I always left them behind when given in change,my father would be mortified,he so strongly believed that "saving your pennies" literally, was important.

Nikki,you were eloquent,informed,articulate,poised,principled,you made all sp's proud,thank you.:bigclap:

Well from what I have read,the buddists meaning of karma is much more than that,more about past lives,it's affect on your present life,and your present life having affects on your future life.Since none of us can change the past,or control how we lived in our previous lives,then neither can we influence karma,so this is how I've understood it,KARMA can also be good or bad.feel free to correct me if I am wrong,thanks

I have been reading up on karma,it's meaning,and find it to be a little confusing,however interesting,and a little disturbing.Do you believe in it ,and what do you think it means.

Well,that is something to think about,might be good for a laugh:butt:,but since I love cleaning,I personally would never hire anyone to clean for me, nude or not.

I found your comment"older sagging middle aged types" to funny,I never look at a man that way,my preferred types are clean,respectful,horny guys that are into me.His looks ,weight,height, hairline,don't matter, as I have never been one to be visually attracted to anyone anyway.Just be nice,clean,reliable,polite,confident and don't gossip about other sp's and I will love you! To answer your other questions,most of my clients are married,or attached,I get alot of young(20 somethings) wanting my services,and tend to turn down alot as I am more comfortable dealing with over 30's,all in all most of my clients seem to be married early 40's.