CristyCurves

Thank you Charles, very kind of you. Even in his darkest days he keeps his humor, so amazing. Hug him for me please. A stranger in the beginning, a friend in the end never did you turn away never did you bend even in your darkest days you'd reach out to say something nice, something funny in your own special way you typify a gentle man, you humble me so even amidst adversity and against a callous foe with humor as your weapon you gallantly fought never withering to pity or a depressing thought stay strong, be brave, I'm here for you friend forever, always and to the end.

I see what you are getting at but you can't compare the two. All inclusive can be subjective and different. I don't think ladies change their meaning of this when times get tough, yes it'll differ from person to person but not because of the economy.

Nothing can bring a smile to my face any quicker than a dog, they are pure joy in a hairy package:) Soulfully speaking, being loved is the real meaning of happiness for me and I'm sure for many. When you know you are truly loved by someone then it's hard not to be happy. Laughter as well, I was at the gym yesterday and a couple of girls were laughing hysterically at something on their phone, the laughter was contagious, it made me happy. It is easy to find, smile, say something nice to someone, or do someone a favor. I guarantee in those you'll find happiness:) Or eat something yummy, food brings me happiness, lots of food:)

I believe it's a censored word, I think you can use youthfuller, lol, doesn't sound right but it was being replaced with the other word at one point.

I'm sorry to disagree. It's known throughout the business that negotiating is frowned upon and disliked. Although I agree with your reasoning, this business is a luxury, not a necessity and unique to others. So, respectfully, if anyone can't afford it then do without until they can. If some are offering specials then take advantage of those specials. We list our rates for a reason, and that reason is because that is what we've determined we need to meet our costs of doing business, anyone asking for less makes us feel that they think we aren't worthy, or other negative thoughts. So even if asked politely, I still think it rude.

I think we all get bits and spurts of all types of client issues. The site you mentioned has always served me well so I don't think it is to blame. Nor do I think there is any rhyme or reason for it. Some people are just born negotiators and even when they know better they'll still haggle. I'd suggest putting "no Negotiating" in your ads, if you haven't already, but those same guys probably wouldn't read it, lol. Hang in there, it'll pass:)

I used to feel as you do Amelia until I started meeting with some younger men-20-30, then my opinion changed. I think we all have to treat each potential client/business person as an individual and not a number, persay. There are younger guys that have more maturity than many older and vice versa.There are two many exceptions to the rule, so I've experienced. Just yesterday I had a fantastic meeting with a 25yr old, he was as respectable, mature and nice as anyone could hope, so... We all have preferences and different tastes but sometimes looking beyond them can bring lovely surprises:)

May your day be sweet and filled with all you love, have a great big piece of cake for me:) Happy Birthday

I will echo RHR's remarks and add every woman you contact will have different booking protocols and safety requirements, it's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with. We all just want to feel secure with whom we are meeting, client and business person.

The grand Budapest hotel was great, nice change from many A few I've seen lately and thought were good was "A walk among the Tombstones" I'm generally not a big Liam fan but the plot was good I thought One I'd avoid was the Gambler- The wedding Ringer-I thought was cute, not great but watchable I'm still surprised no one has mentioned Selma-very good

I can relate to wanting relief from psoriasis, I have family members who suffer with it. I hope it helps, here's a link to some other meds/info for it http://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/psoriasis/features/advances

Nutiva is the one I've been using as well, it's easy to find at grocery stores, the reg sized bottle that is:) Great for your hair as well.

Meeting new clients, some men are so nice, so sexy:)

Some more LuLu Lemon, I'm addicted:)

I'm naming two- Nicolette- because I find her to be respectful to all, thoughtful, gives very good advice and radiates sincerity, kindness, femininity and beauty. Emily J- can they get any cuter! She is resourceful, intelligent and a very giving member to this community and profession. We are all lucky to have her. She has always been forthright with me, kind, genuine and thoughtful. Thank you Emily for being you.

I miss writing my ads like I used to -(had to edit because the word I wanted to use was changed):( my mind is dirtier than it is creative perhaps. I especially miss the ad I used to post about a p---s inspection time:) I enjoy the ads Miss Emily j writes, her titles are fun, clever and attention getting. She is someone to be admired when it comes to all aspects of this business though:)

So sorry for you, your daughter and family's loss. You were very thoughtful to have someone come by. I can certainly relate, I like your daughter, am what some would consider an animal fanatic. I have two senior dogs which I adore and the thought of losing them is really beyond my comprehension, yet a reality, I too will have to face one day. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Don't allow worry and stress to disrupt your life. As Nicolette said stay positive and positive things will come. Ignore any emails that cause red flags, trust your gut, always. Any emails or calls, texts, etc, that ask of anything forward or illegal are best ignored and deleted. Those things I don't attribute to being baited, more to, just idiots with to much time on their hands.

Thanks for your reply and understanding. Most have missed the point of this thread, it's not a rant, nor was I complaining. I clearly stated that I would just like to understand why these things occur and reoccur. Many have mentioned in different threads that they have experienced these things so I thought I'd query some as to why? Guess that's was a bad idea, lol. I guess people simply behave badly because that's just business:) RG-I suppose I would have mentioned the obvious -that women also can behave badly-but since I only interact with men, that's who I spoke about, but thanks for making us aware:) Additional Comments: How is it unfair? We shouldn't discuss behaviors? So it's wrong to ask questions? To want to know why some do what they do? Why assume you are being lumped together unless you're feeling guilty about something, lol. As far as being thankful and grateful to the good guys, I personally show my appreciation to them in person and through pm. The nice times we share are a personal thing so I think it appropriate to thank them personally. DB why do you feel that respectful behavior need thanking or kudos, it is how people are supposed to behave, after all. Quite honestly DB your post could be read as a complaint, you are after all complaining to the nature of my thread but I guess that's human nature.

I'm putting on my big girl pants, had to I've gained a couple of pounds, lol. and of course it's not personal as it happens to a lot of us, not just me. But I won't accept that "it's just business" as an explanation for any of it. I think that's a cop out. Again I am aware that it happens to others that's the point of this thread. It happens too often and to, to many. Adults need to grow up and act like responsible adults. But I think as long as many just brush off the behaviors then it will continue:( Thanks for your input.

Uh ooh! I hope not Henry:)

Thanks:) my perspective is fine, not frustrated, curious:) "you" was meant generally, not about "me". I guess I could have worded it better perhaps, but I thought most would have realized that because many of us do experience this and sometimes often. So asking why is relevant and just because we all deal with "crap" doesn't make it acceptable or excusable, or that anyone is lacking patients. Sometimes asking why can be a resolve:)

Good for you for going to the gym, lol, I'm usually to lazy, or maybe bored;) I'm a pretty content person, overall so I don't get bored all that often. I can find excitement in most anything even in doing nothing at all, but when those times do arise I eat and eat and eat and eat:) Additional Comments: lol,spit out my tea!!!

I'm a believer that there is a reason for every action and every reaction and my curious mind is always asking why and wanting an authentic explanation. Some of us just need to know. The explanation can't be as simple as because some guys are nice guys and some aren't because some nice guys do these things and some not so nice don't so...why then? Why do some guys say they are going to call you and don't? Why do some guys pm you for a date, requesting a time, particular day, etc, etc, then you never hear from them again.....why? Why do some guys pm saying I'd like to see you, it's time, or can I see you, or we should see each other again... then nothing.....why? Why do guys set up a date, confirm a date, call for locale details/directions, then nothing......why? Why do some guys tell you how much they enjoyed you, that they loved their date and then request permission to post a reco but then nothing.....why? Why do some guys tell you "you are the best date I've ever had" then you see they've met others before and after you, posted their accolades about them, but nothing about you......why? Why do some guys post what I consider to be immature statements such as "my mother told me if I have nothing nice to say then" when they know saying such can ruin a woman's business. Why would't they explain? If the companion caused him to be fearful, unsafe, bait n switched, mislead, stole or anything else that could cause detriment to others or the community then it should be explained, for everyone's safety. Anything else could be subjective and perhaps improved upon with some advice or kindness. Why would anyone want to ruin anyone? Why does a guy that knows better, then call and negotiate your rates, ask if you have any specials or discounts(when you have none posted or advertised) or time slots other than the ones listed on your site or in your ads....why? Why would a guy discuss your locale with another woman....why? Why does a guy call you when you expressly post, advertise and holler to the gods-texts only, or why does he text when you boldly emphasize-calls only, or why does he call when you explain pm's only-WHY!!!! Why does a guy who has a preference for something-a guy who tells you after the meeting is over- not make that clear before meeting ...why? Why does a guy who knows that he's paying for your time then ask, "so what do you offer"...why? Why does a guy call, pm, or text you saying he's read all of your site, understands your booking requirements (one of which is requiring giving a name and phone number) says he wants to book with you but DOESN'T want to give his real name or phone number....why? Why does a guy want to meet with you if he doesn't trust you enough to give you his details? I'm sure I've omitted some, and these questions I'm sure have been asked and re-asked. Even so, could someone please take a moment and explain why? There has to be better reasons than lack of courtesy, common sense or knowledge-doesn't there?