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CristyCurves

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  1. Quote-The term support means different things to people at different times. It is not a one size fits all experience. Often a descriptive adjective preceding the word support is required, e.g., emotional support, financial support, physical support, psychological support.-unquote But lets speak to it as it as it relates to this thread and this online community:)Lets assume if you are a supportive member that you'd then give encouragement to all members, offer helpful advice, want to see them gain clients, friends or both, want them to succeed, have fun, have positive experiences, be productive and learn and if need be you'd correct them but in a positive and non-condescending manner, you'd want them to gain knowledge and experience not be embarrassed or to look silly. Many here have formed bonded friendships outside of this forum, beyond their business or hobby life, they are true friends. Many here only know others from their online voices and personas. Are you supportive to both? Do you thank and nominate threads and posts because of their authors, because of your relationship with the author, because they have said something to which you agree, because you feel they added value to this community, because you want to favor someone or do you avoid some altogether? Lets face it it's never easy to agree with someone you may not favor but as Voltaire said I may not agree with your word but I won't disagree with your right to say it, or something like that;) I guess my point is if someone is a supportive member that shouldn't start or end with who you like or dislike, if being supportive means you want a member(sp or hobbyist):) to flourish:)
  2. This weather! When is it going to warm up and be spring!! Mr. Sun please visit us for more than an hour or so:)
  3. I think like anything it's something that you either like or don't. Something you'll find erotic and be turned on by, or something you won't . I too have only tried it a couple of times, the first being unsuccessful, the second barely;) I don't think it'll be something I'll try again, it hurt to much:( To those who enjoy it-enjoy. For those wondering it's at least worth a try. For those not interested, that's fine as well. It's healthy to explore eroticism and to experiment with sex, between consenting adults. If you don't how else will you know what you'll like or dislike and what you are good at and not so great at.
  4. As you may be able to tell from a lot of my pictures I too love black stockings and heels. I feel sexier with them on:)
  5. Seeing the sun peek out and having the day to do as I please:)
  6. People who justify their own ill will, hatred, and judgement lack the courage to question the source of their fear. No one is capable of making you upset without your consent Additional Comments:
  7. Sad to see one of the truly kind , thoughtful and nice people go, but I get it. I'll miss your contributions, wishing you the best.
  8. Okay, and I'll admit it too: you got me - I have no idea whether this is sarcastic or not. I'll also admit I like your audience;)
  9. JoyfulC- That's a perfect example of what some will say and or do to save their own asses and not caring a darn for those they cause trouble for. Sorry you had to experience that, sadly, he's not the only mofo!
  10. But Loneskater with all due respect I wasn't making a point I just stated what I had experienced and how I felt. Not really even an opinion. However I suppose feelings are opinions. If I made a statement I would have said I believe married men are less likely to challenge my feelings as said in my last post, lol. The post that you questioned and disagreed with was simply, once again, just an experience. So disagreeing with it is like saying it didn't happen and I'm not sure how you would know that:)You however were speaking not from an experience but of things you've been told, not quite the same. Still understandable, I hope you don't mind my clarification:)
  11. You are right:) all these scenarios happen or can happen. We are dealing with a sensitive business after all. Pleasure and companionship can sometimes lead us into misinterpretations of feelings of our partner and even of our own. This business of closeness can also create feelings even when we think we are protected from them, married or not. What makes or breaks the ability to continue seeing the same person, or different people is how you handle and understand your feelings. It is never right to take advantage of someone or to lead someone on. I can only speak to what I've experienced and feel, others will speak to their experiences and feelings and so on. I won't live on what ifs, maybes or possibilities. I'll deal with what happens when it happens and hopefully in a mature and respectful way. In saying all this I still, from experience and, as someone who has personally dealt with a stalker for 6yrs, who btw was a single man, feel I'm less likely to be emotionally challenged with married men:)
  12. You should:) She has amazing boobies and I'm sure many other qualities that'll make you or any of the other gents happy men. Any of you who ask about a lady I hope would be generous enough to reco about your experience if worthy so others can also enjoy and so the lady in question can benefit that way everyone wins. Happy hobbying:)
  13. Fortunately for me, when I spend reasonably, I don't have to worry about the financial aspects of this. So as far as what's better for me, when it comes down to repeats and one timers, whoever is the better match for me at the time I book, I'll see. Both are good and enjoyable. But, just because a guy finds a lady attractive doesn't mean he's going to repeat with her. There are plenty that truly enjoy their choice of sp but have only one desire to fulfill and only want one time to do it, never do they repeat with anyone, nor do they collect;)
  14. But yet you have:) as have I. But there is nothing wrong with expressing or highlighting what any of us likes or dislikes. When you like or appreciate , dislike or highlight that isn't a statement that anything else isn't as good, worthy, or acceptable, it simply means it isn't to your taste or at the top of your list, on your mind or your favorite. Nothing wrong with expressing a particular point or point of view with out acknowledging all sides of it or everything else. To many, imo, have a need to want to accept everything, be politically correct and not be expressively honest for fear of offending someone or leaving someone out. I'm not saying this is you, just my observation in general:)
  15. Ahh now it makes sense:) When a man reveals he is married it gives me a sense of security. It tells me he is seeing me for all my intended purposes and more than likely isn't going to let his feelings get involved. However I have also experienced that this isn't always the case, but only on a couple of occasions and perhaps those occasions were a convenient coincidence:) I seem to attract those;)
  16. Whaaa? Delilah this is over my head could you explain:)
  17. They are the part of the female body most often critiqued, sexualized and lusted after. Some will comment to augmented breasts as being fake, some will comment to saggy breasts as being gross. Many of us are so hard on one another and can cause some to want to change, to feel insecure or unworthy. We are made to believe by todays standards and the media that they should be big, round and point to the sun. But in reality they are as different as our faces and age doesn't dictate their perkiness nor does a body type dictate their size-ie: a larger woman will have larger breasts and smaller will have smaller. Natural or augmented all breasts are beautiful, but should we put as much importance on them as we do? After all if a woman were to loose hers, due to illness, accident or however, should she then feel less than a woman? If you go by todays standards and ideals, she might, but there is far more to making a woman feminine, beautiful and worthy than her breasts, especially in many other cultures. I wonder why North Americans base so much importance on them? What's your opinion and do you? Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why? Be honest;) http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php I will add the biggest reason that caused me to want to enlarge mine was to look more like what the media, magazines and advertising depicts as beautiful breasts, along with growing up with a father and brother, male friends and boyfriends, who I often heard talking about breasts and that their opinions were larger was better. Some of my decision was also based on the fact that and for whatever reasons beyond the above, visually, I find that large augmented breasts look more beautiful than smaller or larger natural breasts. It's sad that as women we can be made to feel less than by such unrealistic standards, yet many of us can be.
  18. This is very true and seldom do they admit it's the drugs. I've had similar experiences, however I was to inexperienced to realize the smart thing (which is what you did) I stayed the whole hour and just kept trying:(
  19. The convenient coincidence of having;) Good food great conversation even better sex what a fun day:)
  20. http://www.withoutwax.tv/2012/02/21/what-does-being-sarcastic-say-about-you/ Sometimes we may read things here with an undertone that hints at sarcasm, and quite possibly it is intended as such. I found this interesting read that may help those who feel the need to use it, as it explains why and what sarcasm says about those who need to use it.
  21. I hope it's a great one and that you have many, many, many, many, many-you get the idea;) more. Happy Birthday.
  22. Well you could add that I'm coincidentally and conveniently very attractive to the French:) obviously:) Thanks Gabby for your comment, I do appreciate your always supportive input;)
  23. Lol, no, not so unusual, I find a lot of Quebecquois travelling here on business and who call for company. I'm sure I'm not the only one and actually it would have been 4 but one cancelled:) Another coincidence;) I had 5 appts this weekend and 4 of them cancelled!
  24. Lets face it;) we all want to been seen when looking our best, at least I do. So to the ladies have you ever turned down an appointment because you weren't at your best, ie- an obvious bruise, pimple, having a bad hair day, you just look tired, not your best, or more bloated than usual. The other day I had bookings from a couple of new clients and while getting dressed I noticed a rather substantial bruise in the center of my left buttock. Now in the past I wouldn't have gone, but I thought, it's a bruise, everyone gets them and if that turns him/them off, well sorry but;) .... To the gents would any of this offend you and cause you to be turned off or change your opinion of your regular girl or new girl?
  25. Congratulations for taking the first step and for understanding you should stop. It's been more than a decade since I smoked and unfortunately I can't give any suggestions to "products" because I just decided to stop and never bought them again. I was tired of the stench, to vain to put up with the damage they were doing to my skin, teeth, let alone my over all health. They were a "social activity to me and I never smoked a regular amount daily, some day's a pack, other days a couple here and there, etc. Then I woke up and never touched them again. I supplemented other things for them, green tea, water, gum, a hobby, walking and sometimes probably food. Thinking about smoking now simply grosses me out, holding that opinion of it perhaps also helped. Best of luck to you and however you decide to do take it moment by moment and before you know it it'll be a long forgotten BAD habit.
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