CristyCurves

Since I posted this I've met 3 very lovely gentlemen from Quebec, none of them haggled!! Life is so ironic!

Was out last night with a lovely client and didn't kennel one of my dogs, came home to a shredded bag of dog food I forgot to pick up and she peed on my new rug:(

I think I can be now considered an area rug collector. Just bought a new one for my living room:)

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

Clients who cancel because of stupid reasons such as "ohh it slipped my mind" lol, lol,lol !! Dummy, have you not heard of karma!

I respect you and your opinion Steve and thank you for it, but can't agree, sorry. I've seen a few men with what I know was a yeast infection and terminated the visit and yes with money back .But now I think that wasn't right and if it happens again the onus is on them/him. I think they are more common than you are aware. I don't think it's my place to educate a client about HIS health and if he comes to me with "issues" why should I loose and yes of course this should work both ways. When any us start playing with more than one regular partner we have to pay extra close attention to everything about our bodies and any changes that occur. That is a responsibility we can't place on anyone other than ourselves. http://www.yeastinfectionadvisor.com/maleyeastinfection.html

Very good point. Every man wants to feel wanted, desired and not like a paying customer or just another 'john".

I think you just need to be you, find your own style, niche and be genuine or scripted, whatever works and remember you can't please everyone. There will be those who like you regardless, some will adore you and others will move on. We all have our fans but even though, that still won't guarantee a return visit. Because believe me you can give the best service, look great, talk sweet, be genuine, have a great locale that still won't be enough for some. There are types of men that want a regular girl, those who like variety and those who will try you because someone said you are great and some you just can't please. Just do for you that way you won't drive yourself crazy wondering:) Realistically everyone that sees you will form an opinion, good or bad. The most important one is the one you hold of yourself:)

That is obvious but I'm speaking to those things a shower can't solve. If a man has a cheesy penis he may be yeasty, a shower won't fix that, if there is any type of unusual skin irritations, lumps bumps, etc, that don't look familiar a shower won't resolve those either. Basic body odor is another thing, offensive yes but it can be washed off.

As Conquistador and RG pointed out this does work both ways:) To you Sophia I'm sorry you had to deal with a violent person, but they do exist and imo should be blacklisted by all. I think there is a misunderstanding amongst a lot of men who seem to think if there wasn't any sexual activity then we haven't earned our money. As far as none reading the disclaimer, many don't read sites period, part of the problem.

Hi Conquistador, thank you for your comment but I'm not sure what you mean by can't keep her hygiene up? As a provider this is my number one responsibility and concern, this wouldn't happen. I visit my doctor to often and I am completely aware of differences in my scent and anything else. But either sex has the onus of being responsible and maintaining their health and hygiene and knowing they are fit to be intimate imo.

I searched the forums but couldn't find anything so please give your view- If a gentleman has an odor, cheesy penis or something that causes you concern or an inability to be intimate, do you give back his money, half of it, or just ask him to leave keeping all of it? After all this wouldn't become noticeable until after our time has started and some service such as a massage or conversation and massage has been given. I think none should be returned as it's the gentleman's responsibility to maintain and know about his hygiene and health. He has used some of my time which has been allotted just for him and more than likely I've rescheduled something to accommodate it. Am I wrong?

Lol, I think it would be and conveniently most of them have holes in the right places;)

I would like to know:)Thank you, change away and please elaborate...

I hope you don't mind me saying;) since I'm a huge fan and think you are beyond stunning:) I think you'd turn heads in any color, thank you for your reply.

Great thought and thread, I've often wondered this. Interested in seeing the responses.

Most of us are guilty of overlooking and sometimes taking advantage of one another and what it takes for any of us to get through the day, especially in this line of work. I think some men especially, can take for granted, the hardships presented in this business and they are many. Even for those of us who do this on the side, so to speak and for pleasure it can be made difficult and cause us to question from time to time it's worth and if all it takes is really adding to the enjoyment of our lives. When you are a provider who wants to give more than just a quick roll in the hay(which is great and has it's place ) and offer herself as a true girlfriend, it takes a lot of planning, rescheduling, self maintenance, financial costs, confidence, physical strength/stamina, self awareness/strength of character, acceptance beyond the norm, along with all the other activities and must do's it takes to prepare yourself and ones locale. All this while fighting against the "do gooders" of society, catty girls, assholes who like to fill up schedules, waste time sending stupid texts, asking questions that are answered on webpages, cancelling for stupid reasons, cancelling last min, wanting an appt tout suite(because it only takes 5min to do all this!), men who want us to give them weeks of notice as to when we will arrive in their city then they want to give us 10 mins to get ready to see them, lol! Those who want to negotiate even after you tell them NO negotiating, even better those who tell you/me what we should be charging and are worth, yes they are the most loved;) Yes this is what most of us go through every time we open our emails, advertise and answer our phones. It is those men who treat us as if we are just another bus, forgetting that we are actual human beings, with feelings, responsibilities, needs and desires. To them I say take a step back because we ARE someone's daughter, someone's mother, niece, sister, friend, lover, wife, and maybe yours. So next time think before you speak and think even harder before you do-please. Then there are those wonderfully generous gentlemen who for no reason other than because they are gentlemen and thoughtful human beings take a moment of their precious time to send an upbeat note, make a post of thanks, keep their appts and make them ones you want to repeat, over and over, yes those are the men who make all those efforts worth it. The only problem is they are outweighed by the latter:( A thank you or kind word is such a simple thing to do and can give the receiver so much, why not pass one on today:)

Lol, very true:) I always laugh to myself when a gentlemen requests the full lingerie: garter, stockings, corsets. Because it's usually those men who then want it on the floor as soon as you display it;) If only they knew how long it takes to get into that stuff:) It's fun though to appease all tastes:)

Posting this here because there doesn't appear to be a section in Halifax for just discussions. If you are an Eastlink customer beware as there is a fraudulent email circulating asking for info and for you to log into your account because of payment mix ups. I received it last night and called before I fell for it, thankfully. Just thought I'd pass on this alert.

This a is a question concerning lingerie:) Is black sexier? The sexiest color for lingerie, if you think so why? Black is the most requested color I get:)

Thank you Gabriella for your observation and response, but again your is obviously different than mine:) Mine hasn't been like yours and apparently some feel the same as I do. Btw my gf worked and lived in Montreal for 20 years about a decade prior to my start so even then she felt the way I do, recalls similar experiences and still has a similar opinion:) Sadly because of my experiences I can't hold them in the same regard as you. Now perhaps this is due to my lack of "status" or "perfection", lol, but regardless and no matter the reasons it doesn't excuse the fact that the majority of Quebec men that contact me haggle, it's annoying, disrespectful and no excuses should be made for them. I can't compare other men from other provinces/countries or cities because it happens with them so seldom, so seldom it's really not worth a mention. Perhaps men from other countries and other provinces perceive me as having more "status" and think of me as being closer to "perfection" ;)lol. Many men that hobby here and elsewhere can find they're perceived "perfection" far more cheaply than here or Montreal and have, but they don't call and haggle. I have a client that travels globally and I've seen some of the women he's met, many of them like to have their pictures taken and they are unbelievably stunning and what they charge is well, well below our rates. He doesn't ask for lower rate because of it, nor do many others:) But again this is my experience, how I've been treated by them (I can count on one hand the number of French men that haven't haggled in all my sp years) and that's what I'm speaking to. Additional Comments: That's a fair statement but if I may make a comparison-you can by a Jag in England far cheaper than you can here, so if I were to go out to the dealership here I'm not going to ask for their price or believe that they would go that low. My point- just because something costs $$ in one place doesn't mean it's going to cost the same in another, nor should it be expected to. If those guys can find less for more where they are from then when they travel here perhaps they should bring them along:)

Lol, thanks, my oopsy. But why wouldn't you have pm'ed this as you did the other info instead of quoting so my mistake is obvious even after my change. Anyway I stick to my point, and admittedly make assumptions and generalizations, you did know I 'm not perfect;)

Thanks Angela for your opinion and explaining your experience with the lovely gents of "La Belle Province". But obviously yours is not the same as mine, hence this thread:) Most human beings generalize when they experience the same thing with the same persons over and over and over again. Especially when the over and over again is the consistent majority, it becomes very hard not to, good or bad:) As far as "supposed going rates" I think it fair to assume such when most gfe providers are between $$&$$. One could then assume the going rate was just that or there about's :) But then again I suppose we should never assume anything;)

:)Keep the whipped cream and invite a pretty lady over;)

Educate me please-can you block SPECIFIC individuals from visiting profile pages and if so how? If I block it seems to block all and if I put them on my ignore list it just blocks me from seeing their posts . I want to be able to block only those who seem to want to visit me but not allow the same courtesy, so I'd appreciate some help, I've searched but can't find anything. Now remember, you are talking to a computer idiot!