CristyCurves

But this isn't any business and negotiating in THIS business is frowned upon, considered rude and not wanted. Because a person gets a lot of negotiators doesn't necessarily mean their rates are to high, it simply means they get contacted by a lot of ill mannered, cheap men. I won't say dumb because smart men negotiate as well:)

I've never had a website cause they don't read half of it anyhow, Willow Excellent point!! I am questioning the value of one because even with many gents here more than not ask about details when they contact rather than simply viewing my site, which is clearly posted on my profile and in all of my ads. Makes me wonder but I've learned not to let it bother me and now expect it. Additional Comments: Have peace of mind knowing this happens to all of us:( and far to regularly. But I will say men from cerb and not from cerb are guilty of it. It's just rude imo. If that's all a man is concerned about why does he think anyone will want his business. Most of us want to know more about you than your wallet, shouldn't you want to know more about us than what we charge and this goes beyond having a budget! My biggest turn off is men who can't keep their word. Unreliable clients, clients that state they are 110% interested, 110% certain about their scheduled time and contact after contact assure you of a meeting then cancel the day before or the day of and with the silliest of excuses. So, I used to question, is this done purposely, just because, for a joke or because they couldn't help it but now the reasons are irrelevant. I've come to expect that most men, cerb or not are not going to keep their appt and the reasons aren't important. What is important is my time and how I manage it:) So I now keep a list of those unreliables and simply refuse to see them again. I'm sure that is no loss to them but at least I know who is who :)Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me:)

Everyone does -clients and providers want to be seen in the best light, so we ALL have to realize no one is as described or pictured. As it's impossible to see all in pics and a verbal description is different for everyone. No one minds eye sees the same thing:) Clients are guilty of describing and pushing their best attributes as well and in my experience many over sell themselves. I've met more than a few men that did not match the description they provided me. Some were much older, younger, some that described being muscular were thin and normal, others said to be "carrying a few extra pounds" were obese, some eyes weren't as described, heights different and some who described themselves as business men looked more blue collar. I am accepting of all types and appreciate all looks but an awful lot of men tend to verbally airbrush themselves:( I'm not sure if this would be a simple case of we all see things differently or arrogance of thinking you are more than you are, or perhaps both:) Mind you it is easier for women to enhance their looks giving an impression that we are more than we actually are. Many here wear hair extensions, have had breast enhancements, wear heels, lol,, I've had men tell me I was shorter without them, duhh!!! Obviously when you take off 4-5 inch heels you are going to be 4-5 inches shorter, lol. A lot where makeup and a lot of making out is going to remove that so your girl won't look as "neat" after a playtime, sometimes better, sometimes worse. Some where padded bras, corsets that cinch in waists, some change their hair color. In the end, as it's supposed to be, or so it's said it's supposed to be, we are all attracted to one another beyond the physical, if there has been some conversing and chemistry developed that is;) If someone is going to see someone solely based on a picture and verbal description, solely because of their looks, or one or the other, in most cases be prepared to be disappointed or happily surprised, but never expect what you expect:).

Trying something new, with someone new, so exciting. Can't wait:)

I'm not sure you should be concerned:) since everyone perceives even the obvious differently. Sometimes expectations can be set to high even when the picture is clear, accurate and descriptions are exact, some will read more or less into them. As it's said a picture can paint a thousand words but those words are different to everyone:)

You sound perfect;) perhaps that's the problem. A lot of women like a chase and the guys that need fixing or need to be chased. "Nice guys" are often left because they are nice quite simply, they don't need to be repaired aren't a challenge per say and are complete. Not much of a challenge. Sad perhaps, and makes no sense but some see those arrogant pricks as a challenge and a challenge can be exciting. Although usually it never ends well. Additional Comments: I've learned when dealing with anyone, do because you want to, give because you can and expect nothing and you'll never have to question why or feel used or disappointed:)

Yes you are right because a nice guy allows the woman to cum first;)

My highlight for yesterday was a visit from a perfect gentlemen, 2nd time and even nicer, you a one of cerbs finest gents;) thank you:)

I have never been with a Ts or a woman so personal experience I don't have but an opinion I do:) I say- they are just another provider, and by their looks most of them are as sexy as can be so if there is an attraction between you and her go for it, put your inhibitions aside and just have fun. They are like anyone and want respect, cleanliness, well mannered people to contact them and to interact with. Straight or not I don't think that matters or should be a concern, what matters is you like this person as is and the attraction means you are simply attracted to that person:)

True, true and we all should :) but it happens so much that it's hard not to generalize and so much that I expect to hear it as soon as I hear a French accent, even though I know that a French accent doesn't necessarily mean they are from Quebec. It's a shame, but again, when something happens more often than not it becomes an expectation and I suppose a judgement:(

Now before I open my mouth I want to say that I love Montreal and the Quebecquois and that this isn't a put down but a sincere question and observation and that there are exceptions, but in general it's my experience independently and when I was involved with services, that Quebec men, especially Montreal men never want to pay "the going rate" for an encounter, they seem to expect more for less when here.... why? A typical response I've always gotten was I can get it in Montreal for $$ so... But if that were the only reason then I'd think that the many other well travelled gents that call and can get it for $$ in Thailand, Germany, N.B or where ever would be saying the same thing?

It certainly is a good reminder:) But possibly the reason for lack of posts is simply a lack of N.B. members. Yours is a less populated province, as you know, a couple hundred thousand less even than Nova Scotia , so maybe that's why? But no matter the reason if a gent enjoyed his time with a woman it certainly is beneficial for her, and others, as you mentioned, and if she is open to it, to have a review printed. It's also beneficial for gents to post to give us (sp's) a glimpse into their personality, likes, dislikes, etc and it also may give us a sense of security when they decide to book with us. The more a gent is known here the less concern he'll cause when wanting an encounter. Win win:)

This will be old news for the seasoned hobbyists but since there has been alot of newbies visiting my profile, especially lately, I thought this worth a mention:) I've noticed in a couple of posts men mentioning a lady's incall and whether or not it was a hotel or home so.. This may not seem pertinent or indiscrete to some but please remember ANY details concerning our incalls is for us to publicize not our clients or potential clients. Even the mention of a lady having incall shouldn't be divulged unless she/he is openly advertising or discussing it. Thank you:)

Thank you for that generous compliment:) But sweeter, hotter, more open ? hmmmm. I think you get back what you give and put out. I've met many American gents who I've developed a great relationship with but that's because they've shown me respect, appreciation, understanding, kindness and have given me their trust hence they got back even more. This has also occurred with local gents and gents from other countries and other Canadian cities. This however isn't a regional phenomenon. Treat anyone anywhere this way and you are going to be given similar or reciprocal treatment, generally speaking of course. Also something new or different can always seem better because it's a change from what we are used to:) It could also be that you've developed chemistry with those Canadian hotties you've met and when there is chemistry some of us (sp's) do tend to slacken our rules, cross some boundaries and become more open, in some cases. All I will say is cherish those you've found this with and be open to it from others, anywhere:)

Some of the things that make me feel special when I'm with a man are- compliments, a sincere compliment. A smile, knowing that person is happy to be with me, having something in common, getting a vibe that he is comfortable and relaxed. Knowing that my companionship is appreciated and a thank you, hug or and a kiss before leaving:)

Big move Carrie, all the best and safe travels. May you find comfort, happiness and peace in your new abode:) It has been a pleasure conversing with you lately, you truly are understanding and generous, thank you.

Hi and welcome lots to do and see here on cerb and throughout the Maritimes. Enjoy your stay, travel and all the lovely ladies you meet:)

Me too;) I love a man that loves running his hands all over my legs while I'm wearing a silky pair of pantyhose:)

Out of the blue, sort of:) I liked the name Cristy, and wanted something descriptive to go along with it. So hence curves. I like how they went together. However my spelling is different as most spell it with the H, I thought it was more feminine looking without it:) I like your name Delilah:)

Sad to see this but happy that you are leaving because of good reasons and on your terms. Wishing you all the best:)

Getting a positive supportive message form a very nice guy telling me to ignore another that was acting like an immature ass:)

sorry to hear about that, awful. Be careful of those phone lookup co's most just take your $ and give no results. Used to be private detectives could give you any details about someone just using their phone number but when the privacy laws changed so did their abilities. Sorry I can't give more advice.

Okay and....I'm sensing that you're upset. Are you upset because I missed that, or because I started a new thread similar to yours or that I didn't delete mine and go back and bump yours? ... Is there a rule I'm not aware of that any topic that has been previously discussed or posted about before cannot be again? If a thread is similar to an old OLD one it can only be bumped and not started anew? I wasn't aware of the thread as I stated, apologized and you simply ignored my last question and reposted about it being bumped. Why not just post a story and have fun with it-geez!

Sorry never saw that as it was in 2009. I don't search before I start a thread, perhaps I should:( Not my intent to copy or offend, just to have some fun. Is it not alright to start a new one? :):)

I love my toys, specifically my little vibrator and a dildo. A lot of guys get turned on watching me play with them and I love that. But I'm also happy if a man prefers our toys just to be our bodies, both scenarios are fun.