CristyCurves

Waking up with someone:) All nighters are fun:)

You are right:) but questioning, commenting on a part of the business that happens shouldn't provoke hurt feelings, or cause sarcastic retorts, or criticisms instead it should provoke us into resolve, possibilities of change and what if's. But, like you've stated, probably still nothing would change as this business allows anyone in it to do as they see fit and that's part of the attraction. For those who look to this as a changing, evolving business, one that has to compete with the "times" then a standard of pricing isn't a far fetched idea. After all if the rates in this business stayed as they did, lets say even 10 yrs ago and everything else has doubled and in some case tripled, does it make good business sense to keep those prices? Just a question:) and one more thing:) why have most sp's and clients come to a consensus concerning types of services offered being a standard, Example a gfe means such and such, a pse means such and such. Yet no one seems to want standards in pricing. Both these are personal, varied yet one seems accepted and the other not?

I would think that a certificate would only change the way you could label yourself, not determine a level of professionalism or quality of service, only you can do that, a certificate can't. I'm not sure what He stands for, can anyone elaborate. But being professional isn't determined by the types of services provided it's determined by how you conduct yourself with your clientele, imo and by your reputation, you'll be and do just fine:)

A birthday cake from the superstore. Not because it was anyone's birthday, but because I was craving thickly iced pound cake and I worked out today then ate half the cake:icon_confused::icon_eek:

I'm not sure why some determined the op was speaking about migrant workers or making judgements, she was just stating the obvious. Some that charge less do, do so to try and take clients, some do it out of necessity, some do it because they know no better and some do it for many other reasons and to those they are entitled. Pricing is personal but, it also can be a tactic.The reasons why some charge more are also many and varied. But, I'm not sure why some of the gents feel they shouldn't have an opinion to offer or why they feel they shouldn't speak on the subject, after all it really is the gents that determine our prices. Yes we set them, for whatever our reasons and choices, but without the gents paying them where would we be? So whether we chose to set them high or low or in between if there are no clients then what difference does it make what we charge. Invariably, what anyone of us does can set a standard if not, then where did all the acronyms( gfe, pse, etc) and what's involved in them come from and start? Some one or a few decided that a girl friend experience involved bbbj, kissing, passion, a non committal date, it caught on and the rest followed and set their pricing based on that type of intimacy. Someone set a standard. Changes start with one and sometimes take time but when enough start then the rest have no choice but to follow. That's business and although many have said companionship is invaluable we all still put a price on it and pay for it. So again, I feel the op had a valid point and shouldn't be criticized for bringing it up or questioning why some are doing it( undercutting).

Cleaner than the rest? No one is going to show anyone health records and realistically after having a clean test the next one might not be and in that time a man might have been with 4-6-10 girls, so how would he know which one was guilty? As Lee Richards said maintain your own health, learn all you need to know and play as safe as you see fit, or don't play at all. Life is full of risks, you'll never be 100% assured of anything other than you're going to die at some point and your taxes are due by end of April yearly;), lol.

Lol, now I want a wienie, a hot dog, I mean. Thanks I'm going to try one:)

Chances are they are undercutting, but as it's been said no one really knows. But undercutting is common, it's a way some draw quick business, quick cash. It's been done by services for ever. A lot of times they'll advertise a low rate to draw in clients then charge x for this x for that and by the end of the service the client has spent as much as he would have with a "normal" priced girl. In the end it's the clients that allow it to go on by frequenting the providers that offer these low prices. But since we can't control what anyone does, it's best to just concentrate on our own business, as frustrating as this issue is. Fair is a theory not a reality, so I'm learning, lol.

What are some things you'd rather not see worn? Things you like to see worn? For me it's a thong on any man Dislikes: socks with sandals, especially knee socks on men acid wash jeans crop tops on those who shouldn't rounded toe shoes Likes: jeans that fit well pencil skirts high heels suits on men hats-especially fedora's

Pick a girl you are attracted to , review her site for her services then contact her:) But fears are going to hold you back from full enjoyment. So educate yourself, and well. There are many sites you can find reliable information about std's and how they can and won't be transmitted. Read up, or have an open frank discussion with your MD. Remember anything you tell your doctor is private and I think it's best when any of us are going to have more than one sexual partner that our doctors know as they are the best ones for health discussions. Nothing is 100% but most responsible and professional sp's take great pride in their health and taking care of their bodies:) I hope you find what you're looking for and that you can relax and thoroughly enjoy it:)

That was so kind and thoughtful:) I hope your kindness is repaid tenfold:) Today I went shoe shopping and broke my no spending spree:( I bought a purse and 2 pairs of shoes then went and bought coffee and donuts for the girls working in the shoe store, people get so surprised when you do little things for them:)

Late but still really funny, thanks for sharing it:)

Sadly, it doesn't sound good, "they want to help people "transition out of prostitution" More like they want to find a way so "people" can't peacefully and happily function within the hobby or profession/lifestyle. What ever the legal changes are I'm not changing:)

Gentlemen do you know what we are talking about or what sizes our cup sizes really represents, or when we describe our beautiful boobs would you prefer us to simply say small, petite, medium, large or very large. What wording would you suggest, or does stating our cup size draw a clear enough picture? Here's a bit of an explanation on sizing- http://lingerie.about.com/od/FitGuide/a/What-Bra-Sizes-Mean.htm

First:) I don't refer to this as a job, to me a job is something that needs to be done or that you have to do. I do this by choice, not out of necessity and now, for enjoyment. When I first started experimenting in the adult industry the reasons were many-from - ' wanting to walk on the wild side" to bunk tradition, because I wanted to push boundaries, etc. None of the reasons were the right ones, until now:) I've tried it all too, dancing, running services, being independent, working for a service/services and through it all I've met catty vindictive girls, assholes, pimps, bullies, fake friends, cowards, the worst of the worst. Yet I stayed and I stay because I know escorting/providing and I have something together;) and that there will be and are good and nasty people everywhere and in every profession, neighbourhood, and lifestyle. Learning how to ignore and deal with the bad and appreciate and celebrate the good is key in living happily as is finding an activity you love and truly enjoy. I love how I feel after I have a successful encounter and how I've made the other person feel. I thrive on that excitement, joy, sensuality and pleasure. Its the good;) I can do this 7 days a week or one. 1 week a month or 4, 6 months out of a year, or 2 and until I choose not to:) I suppose that is why it's good for me, because it's something I don't have to do, it's not a job it's something, an exciting activity I've added to my now very happy life :)

The weather! What a day:) Sunshine, warm temperature, so many people out and about, happy and smiling, so nice:)

My fantasy isn't unusual or uncommon, just fun and I haven't done it in a while. A long session with two compatible, very open and indulgent gentlemen, nothing better than 2 men and me:bddog:

How come assholes own dogs? A bit of a vent so.. Tonight while visiting a hotel I parked in the parking garage. Next to my car was a another car, while getting into my car to leave, an hour later, I noticed a tiny toy yorkie dog in the same car, so worried I called the front desk to alert them that someone had left their dog unattended. The car wasn't registered to the hotel so there was little they could do. I couldn't leave the dog as it looked scared, it kept jumping up looking out the window. 3hrs later the owners came casually walking towards there car, then stopped and started talking to some people, they were carrying a pizza box so I assumed they had gone out to eat and just left their dog alone to wait!!! I interrupted them to politely explain that I had been sitting there to make sure their dog was safe and what I got was a it's not your business, it's not illegal and to go no my way! Fucking idiots, the saddest part was they had to young boys with them so idiots can have kids too.

How come when I try hard I sometimes get mediocre results and when I don't try I get fabulous results?

Nothing:) today, hopefully, will be my second day in a row without spending money and it feels so good:)

Seeing a reco from a cute new client:) Being appreciated is such a nice feeling:)

Thank you to all who replied, you've certainly given me a lot more selections and I will try them all. When I do I'll post my fave out of them. Even though our tastes are all different and subjective it's alawys good to have opinions and selections:)

Wishing you an extra special, super duper fun and happy day. May you share this day with all those you love and care for and may it be filled with lots of happy surprises:)