CristyCurves

Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, may it be as much fun as all your posts;)

Sorry for your "unlucky" night. For the past few months I've been up at 5-7am so not wanting or not being around for clients at 10pm or later is reasonable, imho. A spur of the moment appt , especially after 10 pm, is a shot in the dark. Perhaps pre-booking might solve your issue:) Better luck next time;)

Congrats on reaching this cerb milestone, and thank you for your contributions.

I think it's great. whatever they have to do to get through to some that cat over population needs attention and to spay and neuter your pets-cats and dogs. thanks RG for the post:)

Happy Birthday, may your day be filled with love, happiness and lots of fun surprises. Enjoy your special day:)

That is so rude uncalled for and thoughtless. I hope he has a good excuse and an even better apology!

Based on a true story-Friutvale Station-heartbreaking , but a good movie

The gifts I have received most often were wine, perfume, chocolate, lingerie and donations to animal charities. The donations to animal charities are my favorite and will proudly admit wanting more of. After all the more you give allows more animals to be helped and homed :)

I hope my response gives you some insight. I have a client who loves to have sex with me while watching male porn(man on man).The first time I met and experienced this with him I did ask him questions as it made me wonder, he just loves having sex with women and watching male porn. He did say he's never been with a man so... I have to say watching it turns me on as well. I love watching men have sex with one another, worshiping their parts, after all I love their parts as well. But I also get hot watching women with women, however I have no sexual desires toward women. I just think it's hot watching people became aroused and enjoying each other whether it be man/man, women/ women, man/women. People need not worry about labels, what is right or wrong(between adults) who's with who. They should just embrace pleasure and go with it. I hope my answer helps.

Masi Contasera, I had this wine with a client a week or so ago and had to have it again it was so delicious, it's now my favorite, so I picked up a bottle to share with a special client coming today:)

WHY? oh why don't men read websites follow direction/instructions pre-book more often-there are so many last minutes text things other than "hey" send out penis pictures WHY? -and this only pertains to a few- Please realize that breasts aren't charmin toilet tissue, squeezing them isn't comfortable or pleasurable, for me at least. Kiss them, suck them, caress them, even a little nipple pinch is okay but don't knead need like they are loaves of bread! Thank you:)

My dinner/meet and greet rate is for things such as mentioned above, movies, site seeing, walks, hang out times, etc.

Spanish without a doubt, but that's just my opinion.

When I started out on cerb I mentioned to a few clients that if they wanted to write a reco I'd be fine with it, lol. I didn't realize that it was in bad taste to do such a thing! Live and learn;) I think they are as important as they are not. By that I mean, I think there are as many gentlemen that pay attention to them, choose because of them, as not. Imo a return visit from a client is a better reward.

As a provider I meet with all types of gentlemen. Short, tall, big, small, scarred, amputees, young, mid age and senior. What they all had in common was- they were gentlemen and treated me well. That is all as a provider I expect and want. A mans appearance is the last thing I care about. Your attitude, hygiene and willingness to have some fun are paramount. So put your negative feelings aside and contact who you would like to meet. Any sp will happily show you how to relax, and enjoy her. You deserve it:)

So you visit a number of profiles and see a lot of girls you'd like to meet. On some of these profiles you post that you'll be in touch, want to meet. Yet you don't:( Were your posts sincere, were you just being polite? Are you always honest when you post? Or are you like a kid in a candy store with a big sweet tooth and just get caught up;)

I take better care now choosing with whom I'll meet so I could see myself going out to dinner with many of my clients and have with some;). I've made a few mistakes-meeting with some who I shouldn't have as we just weren't compatible. But as far as pursuing any of them, NO. It wouldn't happen I'm just not interested in anything beyond this. However there have been some that I think about but those thoughts are just that I hope they will return again and again;)

So many of you intimate that you choose a lady for things other than looks so... If your favorite companion was to increase in size 15 to lets say 20+ lbs would your attraction change?

When I came to cerb I had just recently left a very bad relationship and prior to that I had been involved with running escort services. Not good times:( The people I'd dealt with then were deceitful, cruel, troublemakers. So my attitude wasn't the best. What I've learned since then is that men can be so wonderful, fun and exciting and so can some of the women in this business. That this business is fun and way better as an indie, not everyone has an agenda and you can get paid for sex and truly enjoy it-that's not a bad thing ;) I have also learned I have way more inner strength than even I realized:)

Today I received a thank you from someone I did a favor for. This person never shows gratitude, nor any emotion actually. So today I learned perhaps she is not as I had suspected:)

To define sexy is hard for me as I don't think of it as being any one particular "thing", a look, something someone wears, smells, traits, sounds, etc. It's a mix of a lot. It just is, someone can't be sexy because of this or that, they just are. Some have it some don't. I believe it's "something" you are born with. What I find completely unsexy are those who continuously try impress upon others how "real" or "genuine" or "sexy" or "amazing" they are. If they were it would show without having to point it out;) Being sexy for those who are is natural, comes easily and is obvious. You don't have to shout it from the roof tops:)

How much value do put on what another hobbyist or sp has to say about another provider? Would it impact your decision to see/ or not see her? Do you base decisions in other aspects of your life as well on others opinions, comments?

I'm not sure what the average is, but I've been in and out of this business a number of times over the years. Why, because I can. I am the type that lives day to day with out much future planning and that's how I like it. When I get bored, get into a relationship, or for any other reason I quit and move on. But it and myself are obviously very compatible as I keep coming back. My re-entry this time, since joining cerb will be 3 yrs in June. Personally I don't find it a tough business and to maintain any type of success in it , like anything you just have to like it. Additional Comments: You assume correctly. I do this part time and rather sporadically, by appointment and not by any set schedule. I'm lucky as I don't need my providing income to sustain myself, it's income is "extra" money. So if and when there is none I'm fine:)

Nicole remember you are your own boss and you can react as you see fit. How you run your business is up to you and you alone and what you accept is also up to you. Don't let anyone intimidate you or make you feel you have to do something you don't want to. Lowballing is frowned upon and rude. If it were me I wouldn't respond at all. I'd simply move on to another client. Men of cerb know better or should know better. If you have your rates posted clearly then he has NO right to question your rates or to lowball. If you want to respond tell him you don't appreciate his rudeness and if he doesn't like or can't afford your rates to move on! Best of luck.

Not touchy at all;) Everyone has an opinion and there is a reason for every action. If I think I did something to deserve it then I'll accept it, try and rectify it then move on. If not I'll ignore it and the arse that wrote it. Realistically, anytime someone brings up my name for good or bad reasons they are advertising for me:) but as far as being worried or bothered by criticism - not at all. The only opinions that truly matter to me are from those I love- my dogs, lol!! and they think I'm perfect;)