CristyCurves

Congrats Summer on your cerb milestone and especially for your latest thread-well done!!

I am a straight forward person and I like those who I deal with to be the same. No one has to be crude but tip toeing through the tulips about questions, do's and don'ts is silly. Just ask! Most of us can tell when a question is being asked out of sincerity and for learnedness and when one is being used for perversion or a guy just being a pig. Having knowledge of both parties boundaries, likes and dislikes, do's and don'ts will only imo lead to a more successful and enjoyable time and I think very helpful. There can still be mystery after all, especially with a new client , his looks, characteristics, smell, abilities are all going to be things to look forward to and unknown until you meet, even with a known client a session can be like you've never met-new again. They are what we- client and sp- make them after all;) Additional Comments: Tell your friend fear not. Did you know that sometimes an sp can feel intimidated and not good enough as well. We too are human;) but also very caring and I'll speak for myself - I'd rather have you walk away feeling better as a man because I made you feel better mentally about yourself rather than you walking away thinking damn she gave great head! I know what it's like to feel insecure, uncomfortable and unsure. Pleasuring someone is easy making someone feel confident, secure and comfortable takes genuine care and concern. All clients should know their comfort in all aspects is the goal of an sp. We aren't here to judge we want to get to know YOU and make you feel glad you came;)

Finishing a long call with a new client and wondering where the time went:) chemistry is an amazing thing;)

[quote About the only good memory I have from the Maritimes, well my last two times to the Maritimes RG You'll have to come back RG there are lots of ladies here that would love to create great memories for you other than just it's great restaurants;)

I think it's best to be honest. I never ignore anyone if they're polite and I answer all inquiries from those who again have been polite and haven't caused any issues. I'm not great at being diplomatic so however I'd word it I'd let them know we aren't a good match and perhaps suggest another lady who they might be better suited for.

Say it sister! But I don't think they are rare:(

With some it's exciting every time, others it's time to move on. Chemistry doesn't happen with every guy. Nor does excitement. In saying this though, there have been some men I love to be with for more than just the sex, they are just fun to talk to, comforting and their aura is enjoyable. I get excited to see them. Others its excitement of what they're going to do with me sexually, some it's all of the above and then there are those who are probably better matches for others ;) If it's exciting the first time, it's bound to be the next....

Dirty, embarrassed and ashamed. I felt I had let down my family and myself by doing this, even though it was out of rebellion towards them I had begun in this profession, one of the reasons anyways. Boy have things changed:)Now, it's I can't wait to do it again;)

LDBF123-my words describe only me-everyone is different. The only person who knows how your girl feels is your girl. If you've asked her if she loves you and she hasn't replied, perhaps she is still undecided, if she answers no well then time to move on. But ask, and accept her answer. Love is wonderful, it can happen with anyone in any vocation. If you have to move on fear not it will happen when and where it's supposed to, most likely when you're not looking. Hugs

Happy Birthday:) May it be filled with lots of love, fun and happy surprises:)

That's a good question. I believe in order to forgive oneself you have to love yourself 100%, although I'm learning to I still have a ways to go. I've made many mistakes and in this world there are some who are right there waiting for them to happen, who will sometimes cause them, who take great pleasure in watching you err, fall or fail and they will make the most of those situations. To come out of that, to forgive yourself, a person needs support. I've not always had that. But I do now know some wonderful, intelligent people who are teaching me, guiding me and showing me how to . So, it hasn't been easy but perhaps in time I will forgive and love myself completely, because I know I'm worth it;)

I love this thread:) I don't need to shield myself from emotional attachment as it just isn't possible. I'm not sure why or how, it's just the way it is. I do this because I love having sex with strange men, lol, men that I don't know well I mean;) If I became emotionally attached that would stop and so would my desire. I guess that's why I can honestly do this without acting, being unscripted. I have had men that I prefer over others, that have been very hot encounters but the excitement of meeting a "new" man is just as hot.

First-thank you Summer such a great thread:) I got into escorting because I wanted to do what some had accused me of doing,(which I wasn't at the time) because it was said to be wrong/taboo( I am a rebel) and I also wanted a quick way to earn some quick cash-at that time. Now I do it because it's fun, I truly enjoy the freedoms it has allowed me, the confidence it has taught me, the inner strength I have gained from it's ups and downs and I like dating without commitment and having great sex often;) It's also a good source of extra income. Win win.

The fireside and upstairs at Saltys are two I love as well. I love the atmosphere at the fireside and the wait staff are great:) Dining at night upstairs at Saltys is very romantic, great view, good food and wonderful service.

Halifax has it's share of great restaurants, where would you recommend going? fine dining casual fare take out Where ever you've had your best dining experience I'd love to hear about it. As a foodie I'm always looking for new places to try and to share with my clients-thanks:)

I'm not 100% sure but Sierra might. She is definitely a hottie:) Best to find the girl that you are attracted to the most then view her website for details/services, or privately pm her for a discreet conversation about her services provided. This is a service that not all advertise openly so sometimes a little research can get you what you are seeking:) Happy hunting in Greece;)

I haven't been in it for a while -the past few months- and the last time I was it appeared they were doing some renovations. But I would say the rooms were spacious, all different sizes, and yes nice. They have large bathrooms, well appointed and beds that you can change the comfort settings on. My faves here are the Marriott Harbourfront and the Prince George. Not specifically for their rooms but for their amenities and locale. When travelling I used to be very selective about the chains I'd choose, or which boutique hotels I'd stay at. Until I stayed at an economy motel. My experience was so positive and the room so nice, well appointed and clean that I've changed my snobby ways. I've seen bed bugs and dirty carpets, ripped furnishings, etc in 5 star hotels and the opposite in 2- 3 star. So now I pick the hotel/motel more for it's location an amenities than it's stars:)

I'm not sure of the answers to your questions but as for men being pigs for loving them, no! I can understand, even though I'm not sexually attracted to women their breasts/bodies are beautiful, in all forms. I obviously love breasts, as I increased mine and still want more of them-just how much more is the question;) Titties are beautiful, just remember to honor the nipples because without them titties would be pointless:):)

So true, so true. There is nothing better than unconditional love, especially a dogs. Reading this thread made me cry, I'm so very bonded to all dogs and the thought that people deliberately harm and mistreat these amazing creatures crushes my heart. But knowing that there are also good owners and many who live to help them is what gives me peace:) Great thread thank you for it:)

Wishing you a fun filled, exciting and happy day. May all your wishes be granted-Happy Birthday:)

lol, good to know;) I also used to have a preference-but for men that were gifted with height. However, after meeting so many sexy men of ALL heights I've decided no matter if I have to look up or down if he's a gentleman I'm going to enjoy him and have fun:)

I know I'm not always great at explaining myself or putting into a thread my intent. So let me try again- We have a warnings section, in this section we can post about bait and switch, robbery, set ups or other things that will put a hobbyist at risk, we ALL can read this-hobbyists and sp's. Why in this section can't an sp write about a hobbyist that set her up, stole her money, got physical, became threatening or other dangerous behavior? Shouldn't other hobbyists know about these men as well? If that man is ONLY spoken about in the sp area only the sps in that area will know and that info is to stay there, so how do you warn the rest of the community about such a danger? I too wouldn't want cerb to turn into a bash fest and can't for see how it would change if my suggestion were allowed. Unless some believe sp's are more apt to lie about hobbyists then vice versa?

LOL, me too. I always wear heels when providing and they are usually 3-4 inches so I appear to be 6ft-6ft1 and I'm always told ohh you are so tall! Either way I'm tall. But isn't everything about this business to an extent exaggerated? I mean with makeup, hair dye, hair extensions, wigs, nails extensions, eyelashes, tans, body modifications, lingerie, it's all fantasy,, I mean I don't wake up in my heels, mascara, lip gloss, flat ironed hair, sexy lingerie and in candle light with soft music playing-lol!!

I am aware of the sp only area. My point of this thread and discussion is to understand why some can only be spoken about in private areas and others openly? I am not speaking about reviews either. This is about everyone knowing who is harmful and who isn't, man or women. I think if an sp or a hobbyist is "dangerous" then they should be posted about but not privately. If a hobbyist is discussed in the sp area only and he is a danger, that info IS SUPPOSED to remain there so how will others know? and shouldn't everyone know, hobbysists and sp's alike? After all a bad hobbyist is no more tolerated amongst hobbyists as he would be amongst sp's but how would any know if they can only be discussed in a closed forum? Just trying to understand.