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CristyCurves

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  1. There are men who look for those with the cheapest rates and they chose from that group. They don't have any specifications they just want a cheap warm body to accommodate their needs. There are those who look for the prettiest girl in their opinion and then look at her rates and if they can afford her they go from there. Then there are those men that seek out the whole package, they want a connection beyond just a service, they check the rate she charges, no questions asked and books his choice. No matter what or how anyone charges the rates are or should be as individual as we are and without comparison. you and I can and should charge as we please for what we please. It's my business to do so. Don't we all set our own guidelines?You cannot compare girls as none of us are alike, ever the big, enhanced blondes!! We suck, fuck and talk different. We walk different, smell different, feel different, taste different and we all deserve what we charge. No one is going to tell me, and I hope you, how to or what to charge. It's my body, I'll put the value on it and if you don't think I'm worth it, hey, move on, I will and be just fine!! But don't, again, don't, compare me to anyone as I'm as individual as they come and so are you:) Any man that does compare quite honestly is an ...! Well, I'll leave that blank;) Until there are rules set and we all agree to them and we all follow them, everyone is going to charge differently and different amounts. Pick your girl and pay what she asks, for what she asks. If you don't like it, then see someone else, it's just that easy:)
  2. I don't like it I love it and every way but none;) Seeing it shoot onto my body, particularly my boobies I find orgasmic:boobies: Seeing the look on a mans face when he is about to blow and that horny in itself is a huge turn on, but what about sex isn't;)
  3. May your day be filled with love, happiness and fun surprises-enjoy and have a very Happy Birthday:)
  4. Bp and the newspaper are sure bets for those types of clients and there has to be a lot of girls booking them or they wouldn't be so plentiful.Like you said, they are surprised when they contact someone who follows a more than reasonable booking process. I can't imagine anyone NOT wanting information from a potential client but in this business nothing is of a surprise anymore. Sadly a lot of the hotel lines come up as a private number when a client uses his hotel phone. So not answering private calls, if you are wanting new clients, could be a loss for some.
  5. I'm not sure how I charge? I'm confused as I charge xx for fs and xx for gfe and xx for pse, all these sessions have boundaries and limits and ymmv. So am I offering a menu, a al carte, or am I charging by the hour? If I were charging just for my time and within that time nothing sexual happened there would be some very unhappy campers, I suspect. My point being, no matter how I charge, it is assumed sexual activities are going to occur. So then aren't we all technically offering a menu of some sort with assumed limits and charging for those as anyone defining themselves as a gfe, gf, ps, pse is defining what they do or won't do? Because these terms, as it's been said over and over only mean what they mean when certain services are included.
  6. Congrats on reaching 500, may you continue to reach many more milestones:)
  7. Thank you Pechka for posting that. Remember there are shelters in all our cities and they all can use volunteers. If you have an hour or more to spare here and there why not go to a shelter near you and walk a dog or play with the cats. It's so rewarding and the animals will soooo appreciate it. But I'll warn you it can become additive as the animals at shelters are so wonderful. If I were only wealthy I could save them all.
  8. No- thank you to you RG:) Thank you for being the gentleman you are, for being friendly, understanding, accepting. I could go on and on. Cerb is lucky you found it. It's a shame we couldn't clone you;) You set an example:)
  9. At least they are showing this freaks picture on the news and stating his name. The bastards that starved and allowed their dog to freeze to death in Preston haven't even been named.
  10. I like apes so I'll say the seahawks:) http://espn.go.com/nfl/playoffs/2013/story/_/id/10379111/utah-ape-predicts-seattle-seahawks-win-super-bowl
  11. Happy new Year. Here's a little about it http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/27/travel/11-things-lny/ http://www.travelchinaguide.com/intro/social_customs/zodiac/
  12. Here is a few for this year: http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/30/showbiz/tv/2014-super-bowl-commercials/ post your favorite super bowl ad mine are the puppy ad and the jaguar ad http://www.cbsnews.com/media/super-bowl-commercials-2014-watch-and-vote-in-our-poll/
  13. Interesting as they start the article off by calling prostitution-rather the worlds oldest profession a crime:(. It is legal!
  14. People are people and you get nosy invasive, intrusive people in all occupations, even in the sp world. When I joined cerb there was a female member that emailed me endlessly asking me question after question about my personal business:( But as some one who has worked in the beauty industry I can attest that customers can be just as nosy:) We all should know when and what is polite to ask and discuss. The best thing to do when you meet someone that is asking to many questions is to politely tell them that you are a private person and would prefer to discuss things that don't pertain to your personal life. You can still be friendly and talk about lots of other subjects. When doing someone's hair, nails, esthetics there is nothing more awkward than silence so finding a balance is the key and sometimes you have to be the one that takes the person in the direction of balance. She is probably a nice person that was just trying to create a rapport, but had no idea how not to cross boundaries and more than likely wasn't even aware that she was. After all, in the Maritimes people ask question after question, especially of strangers. That's my experience anyway:)
  15. Can you? Well we, you ,me, he, she can do whatever we want. Why analyze it, if a friendship begins and you and the other person are enjoying it why not continue? The only boundaries that are going to be set are the ones you both put forth. There won't be any friendship police popping out of the bushes to scold you for doing wrong:)so just go with it or don't. If you want to be compensated for intimacy then so be it, if you don't then don't. Even within the sp/client relationship the only rules followed should again, be the ones the two people involved decide on. It's no one else's business. There is no escort police either and it angers me when some get on their high horses and say this person or that person isn't a "true" gfe, pse, abc, ghi! That's not your business nor mine how another runs his or her business, what they do in it or in their life. The lovely thing about this profession, as it stands, and our personal lives is the freedom we have to conduct them as we see fit and for me I always see fit to break rules;) and push boundaries:)
  16. Good and great sex happens when two people are into one another, civilian or not, paid or not. We all react to energy, good and bad. If you want to get great sex with a woman make her think or be into her and vice versa. Then watch the sparks fly;)
  17. Thank you . As for the ad, I haven't seen it so I can't comment, but it's not nice to run anything over:)
  18. Migraine headaches-anything that controls my activity sucks:(
  19. I love men of all ages. There are great ones that are younger, great ones that are older and in between, and there are assholes in all categories too. I try hard not to let age be my deciding factor when it comes to choosing my clients. The deciding factor would be the initial feel I get from first discussions and contact. Age only becomes a big deal if you make it one.
  20. Thank you:) but that's what people do, express their experiences as what they perceive to be the norm because it is to them/me when that is all they've/me has seen. I too would be interested in seeing the data. I'm just wondering though if either or both of you have worked for a high volume service? As an independent I've never had a man ask me to hook them up with a younger girl, not yet anyways. To clarify I don't think the men I've spoken to in general were necessarily searching for underage but for younger as most men didn't appear to have the knowledge that 18 was the youngest a service would hire, my preference would have been 20+.But I do believe men want younger and the younger the better. It goes along with body types, petite girls, girls that were very tiny 5ft-90-100 lbs always did well no matter their age as men perceived them as more youthful because of their size. You could send an 18yr old girl out that is a normal build 5ft6-7 130-140lbs and men will perceive her to be older, send out a 25 yr old tiny girl and men will think her to be younger. But again that is just my experience and that is all I can speak from.
  21. But Nathalie you are 25. You shouldn't be seeing your business slump as you are still in the category of those considered young:)you'll see the difference when you hit the age that hobbyists feel is mature and although there is a demand for mature providers, to that I can attest, it doesn't compare to the demand for those who are young, lets say under 30;)
  22. What makes them different-the location in which they work. We are all "sex workers" and the perceptions that some have of street workers don't end with them they are applied to all involved in the profession, some don't even think of it as a profession, but as a "fall from grace", a desperate time in ones life, not a choice, and so on. As I said in another article, call us what you will. The differences between workers in the sex industry are their titles, tags, labels, their personalities, styles of work, places they work from, ages, looks, manners of dress, education, rates, etc. None of which make any of us better or worse than one another or entitled to more or less respect. However many of our own like to give the impression that they are deserving of more respect and at higher level by titling themselves as courtesans,imo. But a title is just that:) As far as what society thinks of us, I don't think anything will ever changes it's perception. That sadly, is set in stone :) For me that is fine as I have always had a some what " I don't give a shit attitude " concerning what others think about me and what I do. I have to live with my choices, have peace of mind with what I do and I do and that is what is important to me, not what someone else thinks. I have and will continue to live my way and those that like it-thank you and those that don't-who cares:)
  23. Men! Men with thick cocks Men with thick wallets Men with thick skin Men with soft hearts Men with confidence and modesty Men who know how to treat a woman;) but most important- Men who love dogs/animals:)
  24. Good points, interesting how we all read things differently. But as far as the large demand for underage- I'll say there definitely is. When I was answering phones for escort services, everyday, and almost every other call the typical question would be who is your youngest girl, if I said 18-19 the reply would be no one younger, so.... As far as the terms used and how we refer to one another , it really doesn't bother me, hooker, prostitute, courtesan, sp, comfort woman, whatever, they are only words, titles, not defining of who I am or what I do . Only I can define that and that definition may change per my mood. However I understand the need for diplomacy and keeping it neutral for some:) I didn't read her article as she was putting herself above anyone just describing the difference between the terms. There are many in this business who think escorts are "common" and courtesans are the upper class of the escort world, and prostitutes are the lowest, and usually drug addicted. These are not my opinions but others do define themselves that way, to each their own. Again they all mean the same thing to me. As far as her referring to younger being better, I didn't get that I think she was meaning simply that younger girls are in more demand and to that I agree and again when I was dealing with services, mature women got business but not half the business the 20 somethings got.
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