CristyCurves

Hate and Jealousy!! Need I say more? Anyone who sends anonymous anything to anyone is a coward and a useless bully. I've experienced receiving things like that umpteem times and laugh when I see them, you do the same.

Firstly, might I say I'm sorry you experienced that, awkward! Also I'm sad for the girl. I don't know the statistics but I'm sure there are as many in this vocation who do it out of need and desperation as there are those who've chosen it for the right reasons. When meeting with a client conversations shouldn't linger into places that will cause upset for either party, it's supposed to be enjoyable and professionalism is expected to where we don't cross obvious boundaries. However even the most professional and upbeat of sp's may find themselves riding hard times and slip up, no excuse, but we are all human, make mistakes, discuss the wrong things sometimes, with the wrong people and read people wrong sometimes. If this was a manipulation on her part, shame on her, and that you may never know. I'm a forthright, blunt, straight forward person, if I ever breach the professional lines when with a client I'd hope he'd set me straight, as I would him. I've made my mistakes but don't dwell on them, I simply move on and try to learn from them, but sometimes they do have to be pointed out;) I think it's always best to just move on, from this one as well:) Some sp's are willing to help one another and others aren't. In all the years I've had dealings with sp's and out of all the sp's Ive personally met, there have only been 2 who I'd consider nice people. Sadly one of those girls is now dead, the other, my best friend, lives in another province. So if the sp you had dealt with needed help I would suggest she look outside the profession for it and if she does I hope she gets it. This work isn't for everyone, especially those who come into it with personal troubles, insecurities or who simply are grasping at straws to make ends meet, those, it'll eat alive. In the end I guess you did what you felt you should, you walked away. Perhaps if that was your gut instinct that's what should always be followed. I'll end by saying in this lifestyle like any never expect to much that way you'll never be disappointed and treat every visit as it is, a new and exciting experience. Not all will play out as you expect but keep in mind you have as much control to the outcome of your experience as does the person your with :) and I believe there is something to be learned from everything we do and encounter. Sometimes the lesson just isn't obvious, sometimes it is. All the best:)

Thank you everyone and I RE. I like a tomato sauce that is tangy and sweet with lots of veggies. When I make one I like to add spinach, peppers, onions, mushrooms, garlic, onions, celery, tomatoes. But I haven't mastered a flavor that is anything to talk about yet.

Although tempting, will a pretty please do?

Thank you for taking the time to respond. After getting a virus and having to have my computer cleaned or whatever they do all my issues vanished. Everything is now fine, but I'll take into consideration your tips if needed in the future:) thank you

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Leave it to you Jabba;) to start a thread like this:) My worst was years ago, thankfully. He was 20+ years my senior and had me convinced that he was the best I could do. He was smart. manipulative,forever condescending, educated-mba, yes, he was a major big asshole! I had been with him nearly 2 years before we became engaged:icon_cry:, why, I'll never know, but thankfully that's as far as it went. He came from a great family, well to do, intelligent nice people but apparently some of the family genes weren't passed down. The relationship was turbulent as he had lied about everything. I was lead to believe he had his own business, turns out he was living of his mother and had lied about most of his past. The sex was amazing but that was it. When I left, moved out, it took me another 6 years to evict him permanently from my life. That took lawyers, police and well... Yes MikeM I can understand your appreciation for loving being single, there is nothing better:)

Get your mind out of the gutter;) I'm about to talk about pasta sauce! Does anyone have any tried and true tasty recipes? I've googled and tried a few but they are all missing something and as a pasta freek I'd love to find that perfect sauce for my noodles:) Any advice would be appreciated:)

Congrats Metalsmith on reaching your first post milestone, may we see many more:)

Perhaps a term that's overused, "nice people/person". He's a nice guy, she's a nice girl, they're nice people. We all know someone we call a nice person, or someone who calls themselves that. But do they deserve that title? Can nice people be selectively nice? I mean, can they do mean or bad things sometimes, say mean or rude things sometimes and still be nice people? Or, are nice people nice to everyone? Should they be ? If someone is "nice" shouldn't they be expected to always be nice? :icon_confused: What's your opinion?:)

I'm glad she was there for you in your time of need and that you are alright. Tracie is very thoughtful towards everyone here. She doesn't pick favorites and goes above and beyond imo to make sure everyone is appreciated for their efforts, it's nice that you took the time to thank her, she deserves many:)

We all have our reasons for doing what we do, say, why we thank and nominate posts and who we see. For me thanking a post, especially one who has responded to my thread, is a show of politeness and thankfulness to them for taking the time to participate and to respond to my thoughts and opinions, also for adding their own. When I nominate a post or thread it's because what that person has stated is relevant, important and poignant to me.

I've had 3 dogs, all small breeds and the smaller breeds tend to have anal gland issues. This should be taken seriously , in some cases, especially with those with glands that have to be drained often, these glands may need surgery. When they become full they become very uncomfortable for the animal and can cause it to be very difficult to have bowel movements and if not properly cared for can burst, causing even more serious problems. Chances are if your pets have filled up this quickly and he is still scooting or rubbing his anus he's trying to empty them. Animals will ,scoot, rub, lick, continuously until they are emptied. Please have this looked at as steroids are never the best option and with continued use can lead to other problems. Sometimes for a couple of days after being emptied the glands can be itchy for them, but longer than that they've probably filled again. Some feel different foods can help, or even be the cause, but that's controversial. I am just offering this advise from my own experiences with this problem, your vets advise is always the best, good luck. I hate to think of any animal suffering any discomfort.

Animals, especially our pets, are very wise, perceptive, intuitive and creative. They know which of our buttons to press and press them to get what they want when they want it, lol. He is very handsome btw:)

YES!! Ever since her surgery and recovery, which I feel she completed late November-early December, my little min pin has been a pain. The love of my life but she has become the biggest sook, and even more woosy like than she was before. Yes she went through a lot, herniated disc surgery in her neck. She had one disc removed and two fenerated, but I did too. Mommy needs a break! It becomes overwhelming when your dog has to be constantly with you, on, or near you. Lol, sadly I know I helped create this as I hate to leave her alone and never will, especially when I travel. Those little doggy eyes certainly can be controlling.

Thinking of you Redline at this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I think Fortunateone explained it best. For any client to pick any sp based on the titles she or he places on themselves is silly, imo. I think many of us may be high and low volume depending on the day, time of year or needs. Show me a sp who claims to be low volume that'll refuse a number of clients in one day, especially if she's gone through a dry period for a long time and needs to make rent, bills, or extra money for something. Some who claim to never offer specials, at these times also will cave and do so, but, perhaps in a way that doesn't appear to be a special, but offer another 'option" or instead of hourly only appts, offer1/2 hour appointments. We all do what we have to do in times of need or slow times, and that's the business of the sp. So because of this I think it pointless to choose based on High, low, exclusive, or any other title. Choose based on personality, looks, posts, rapport, intelligence, or something else that is constant and really more important:)

This is her profile, she is a member here and seems to be a real sweetheart, look her up and have fun;) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=93646

Being able to relax, watch a good movie cuddling with my fur babies:)

I think it's sweet, thoughtful, and I say give them. I understand the reasons why some have said not to but, if it were me receiving them, you'd get a big hug and kiss;)

I can't say since I don't follow it but maybe this link will help some decide. http://bleacherreport.com/articles/1908669-nfl-playoff-bracket-2014-complete-schedule-and-odds-for-every-team To all who watch it enjoy:) and may your favorite team win;)

I agree with Carriemoon, I don't think particular training is needed but certainly patience, understanding and an ability to listen is. I've met with men with different disabilities and had no issues with any of them. They were all lovely gentlemen and we worked together to achieve a fun and satisfying encounter.

Wow, you talk even more than I do ! Congrats on this milestone and thank you for all your contributions to this site:)

Holy smokes I do talk a lot!! I realize I'm not everyone's cup of tea, so I thank those who took the time to respond and to you Tracie for starting the thread., a big hug. Your thoughtfulness and care in watching out for everyone's milestones is so kind, selfless and just plain nice:) Thank you:)

Congratulations Nicholette on reaching this big milestone. Thank you for your contributions and insight:)