CristyCurves

I hope my post didn't come across as judgemental. As it was intended to just explain my point of view and how I would react. Why or how someone does something is for them, but I am always curious as to why? But if calling it cheating is deemed judgemental then I guess I am. But you have to call it what it is. That doesn't mean I'm judging you/him or her for doing it, quite honestly I don't care what anyone outside of my circle does. :)After all, if you vow to your spouse /so to only be with them and you aren't then.. If you said you may wander then you're not cheating. Why you do it really doesn't remove or change the action or give the action a different title. We all do what we do for reasons that are our own, and our own business, but again, many of theses actions do have a name, liked or not.:)

I haven't been in a relationship where this has happened but if I were cheated on I wouldn't stay. But that's me. I'm rather "square" and old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I believe in monogamy and that the man should be the bread winner and the woman should stay at home and I believe in complete honesty in a relationship- no exceptions. If I'm not all he needs at any point I don't want to be with him. Women are intuitive and quite frankly we know when something is not right, when you are stepping out. There are some who react, some who don't. Some leave, some put up with it, some want to work through it and forgive. It's devastating because you are turning to someone else for affection, sex, or for whatever you are seeking outside of your relationship. We, want to be the only one and some of us will blame ourselves for being the reason you're stepping out, even though we may not be. Women are often very hard on themselves, blaming their looks, figure or sexual prowess for not being enough, when in fact a lot of times none of these points are ever the reason. I've often asked different men why they seek someone outside of their relationship and the common answer is usually they aren't getting what they need from their spouse or so, for some they just need many, a variety, others like the op, don't know why. But whether these were honest answers or not I'll never know. This is one of the biggest reasons for my discomfort in this business, knowing that I'm enabling a cheating man. But I've been contradictory in a lot of aspects in my life. Perhaps I'm more gray than I realize. No matter what we do, it is a choice, life is short and happiness is fleeting and needed. I say if doing something makes you happy then you need it, do it, and suffer the consequences. I guess what you have to ask yourself is -does this lifestyle make me happier than my spouse/so, or does my spouse/so make me happier. Can I have both, or can I survive, be happy without one or the other, that too is a choice. Best of luck.

A lot of the GENTLEMEN here know how to be a great client but for those who are still figuring it how might I suggest- 1.Be reliable 2.If you want your sp to be honest -be honest as well! 3.Be reliable 4.If you say you are coming back or going to call -COME BACK-OR CALL! There are lots of fish in the sea, if you don't plan a re-visit don't say you are going to. We'll survive and have fun meeting another client! 5. Be reliable 6.Don't gossip about other girls 7.If there was no chemistry, be a gentlemen and realize this, it might have been you, her or both. But to post about that is childish, catty and pointless. Chemistry is special and doesn't always happen, why expect it to and why be disappointed when it doesn't, move on and find it elsewhere. 8. Be reliable 9. Respect us and we'll respect you. Read through our sites, ads, posts. You'll find all necessary information there. We take the time to post it, the least you can do is take the time to read it! 10.Be discreet. Discretion goes both ways! Keep in mind most sp's use aliases, don't ask a neighbour, hotel staff where so&so lives/stays. If you get lost call. If you are going to be late call, if you are early call. Never assume anything. Every detail must be discussed and agreed upon. 11.If you say you are going to write a reco do so. If when you leave you felt that the experience wasn't worthy, what you expected or you just don't write them, why say you are going to? 12. Remember we are human, and even though many of us are experienced that doesn't mean we can perform miracles. If you are a man with issues in the bedroom don't expect that just because we are sp's we know everything about sex or have magic abilities. Setting your expectations to high will only lead to disappointments. 13. Be reliable 14. an added point to #7-If you like me, her, them. Good, great, wonderful. Write a reco, or don't that's your choice. If you didn't shut your mouth, again- this board says- if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. That rule should carry through with clients comments. If a lady just wasn't your taste, speed, look, etc, that doesn't mean she won't be some one else's. So why plant a bad seed? Would you like us to do that to you! 15. Be appreciative. We go to a lot of trouble to make our clients comfortable, happy, satisfied and glad they came! Give us a thank you, hug, smile, tip, something to show that you realize this and do it with honesty-refer back to #4.#11. 16. Enjoy, have fun and be happy!!

There does seem to be a lot of now or never appointment seekers of late. They want it right away, not even giving as you said, 15min to get ready. I can be quick, but just to take a shower takes 15 min so if you want a fresh lady, that is relaxed and prepared give us some notice. It will be worth the wait;) Thanks for the thread Rebecca:)

I've been told of 3 dogs in the past day and a half found frozen, because they were left out and ignored. Nothing makes me angrier and if I could I would do to the owners the exact same. Sadly the neighbourhood where 1 of these dogs was found is notorious for having abused dogs. Many I've seen end up in shelters, some in so much fear they were actually paralyzed, unable to move. People are not human in my eyes that commit such cruelty and I do hope karma, fate or whatever you want to call it comes for them and hits them even harder.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, I'm so sorry for your loss and for you not being able to be near her. But be assured she felt your presence. Feelings are felt no matter if we are near or far from those we love and her spirit will always be with you.

Although I dislike when the term "best" is used as it's unattainable and very subjective. I'll add who's ass I think is worthy of a mention, bubbly, shaped well and definitely feminine. The first is a lady's by the name of Lanalee, I saw her picture in the social group assworship, the whole picture/pose is breathtaking, not to mention her amazing round bottom. Katherine from Halifax should be proud of her remarkable behind, she has a picture taken from a side view that displays a beautiful, perky, perfectly round bottom, and Georgina Sweet needs a mention. Her avatar alone displays one remarkable, toned perky bottom, not to mention her gorgeous creamy skin, be proud ladies;) As a genuine man only lover there are seldom women that turn my head but every now and then I have to make mention of a few I think are deserving of a mention. I hope they don't mind;)

There are a lot of animal lovers here, most have plenty of knowledge and common sense when it comes to their pets and animals, but just in case someone reading this doesn't PLEASE remember if it's to cold for you outside it is for your pet as well. Some can fair better than others-huskies, berners, bernards, etc, but most dogs and cats and other animals, need shelter from these frigid temperatures. So please, if you see an unattended animal out for long periods take action, call a shelter, the police, humane society, someone until it's helped. Nothing can survive being out unsheltered in these unusually cold temperatures, thank you:) and stay warm, visit an sp today;) http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/thunder-bay/animals-left-outside-drives-worried-calls-to-humane-society-1.2481936

I won't book a client without a verifiable phone number, I can only assume most other sp's are the same. I'd suggest getting a hobby phone. But as far as getting calls from sp's, you should only receive calls that you invite, out of the blue calls aren't professional, nor discreet imo. All needed information is here on this site, read through it carefully, ask as many questions as you need and post away. Many here are very unbiased, helpful, and accommodating. Just follow the rules;) some are obvious, some aren't and ignore some who may jump down your throat if you state an unfavorable, yet polite comment. We are all different, and we should be accepted and appreciated for being so, just as some accept and appreciate some for being alike. If you found anything I've said helpful and feel you'd like more help or information feel free to ask:)Happy hobbying:)

All sorts of things trigger memories for me. Food, music, smells. But as this thread addresses, geography/places, do as well. When I visit my home town I always visit places I spent time in growing up. Places I once spent time with friends, where I used to play sports, get into trouble;) hang out at, schools I went to. All these hold dear memories, It's always nice to go back and recall some of the happy times in our lives:)

Hmm.. All the men that are on my friends list, in no particular order and one at a time;)

It has to be one or the other! Head or intercourse and why. I would give up intercourse, I love sucking cock to much to give up head. Although it would be a hard choice as having them both always gives a better ending;) Now what are you really going to give up or start for the New year I'm giving up sugar-again!! and taking up exercise, today anyway;)

I'll echo Taylorforfun and advise you to carefully go through this site and read. You'll be educated, informed and enlightened. To answer your questions directly I'd say Is cl a reliable source, not as reliable as cerb, however a lot who advertise there do so here as well, some under different names. That site seems to be incapable of holding reliable sp's ads though now as they seem to be deleted as soon as they are posted. As it's been said, to verify pictures use tineye.com or google image search. Can you make requests-most certainly. It's always best to be completely open and honest with your chosen sp to avoid misunderstandings and disappointments on both sides. Just always be respectful, polite and tactful. Just because we are in the "sex" business doesn't mean we like vulgarity from our prospective clients. What is the proper etiquette if an sp comes to your home/hotel. I'm not sure what you are asking. But keep in mind you are the host and she your quest. She should be discreet, accommodating and polite. Let her know what you want and expect and she'll do the same. I hope this helps. But what's most important is that you have fun:) So enjoy cerb and all it has to offer and happy hobbying.

Congrats Excaliber for starting the New year with 2000, keep posting and thank you for all your contributions:)

I to thought of such decisions to be of a racist nature and posted so when another provider on another site wouldn't see Indians. But after discussing it I saw it differently. This sp's reasons for choosing not to see black people may be many, and those are her business, after all it is hers, and her choice to see whoever she likes, feels safe with and is attracted to. We may not like what others do but as it's been told to me, we can't control what others do but we can control how we respond and accept others actions:)

Well done RG:) Congrats on hitting a major milestone. You are a true cerb gentlemen and greatly appreciated by me: Happy New Year

Seeing my mom, it's been a couple of months and Christmas with family. I know I'm grown but my attachment to my parents is still as needed and as strong as it was when I was young. I miss my dad terribly, so any moments I get to spend with my mom I cherish dearly. Perhaps had I had children I might feel differently, who knows, but my life certainly changed when my dad died. The thought of losing my mom is almost unbearable, even though I realize it is a part of life. so again, I am excited to see her for Christmas:)

Groceries:) Today it'll be liquor for the Holidays;)

Congratulations Dave on your first cerb milestone, may you reach many more. Happy posting;)

I'm so sorry to see you go. I hope the road you travel on only leads to wonderful places and happiness:)

There are so many..some of my favorite singers for Christmas songs are the late great ones- Bing Crosby-no one can beat that voice for Christmas songs Nat King Cole- amazing-a talent he passed on to his daughter Natalie. Dean Martin-soothing and of course anything by the late great Luther Vandross- a voice that is just breathtaking http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CsIPOzIfVQ

I am looking forward to planning a trip there at some point in the New Year. More likely to be the spring, love the Island:)

Lots of those here I'm sure;)-thanks for the laugh:)

Thanks for your reply:) Perhaps all the pm's I gotten over the past couple of years from men thanking me for helping them "blast off" and launching their missiles were lying:-? and I think it's always best to speak for ourselves not others;) just a suggestion:)

Maybe-maybe not. In Emma's defense, she did say she hoped he was joking. The trouble with a lot of posts online is you can never tell how to take them. But knowing Il Re I'm sure he was joking, he's a good guy:)