CristyCurves

Lol, that's hilarious Empty, you've listed a couple I've done more than once, the blender and the juice in the cupboard. I've never changed a channel with my phone though, to funny!!

We all have our moments and we can blame them on a myriad of reasons, carelessness, in a hurry, stress, simply not paying attention, etc. What have you done lately that you'd call stupid:) my latest was pulling the mirror off my car backing out of a car wash, lol.

Car repairs:( coming out of the do it yourself car wash I was neglectful and the hose rapped around my mirror:( when I backed out-BANG- off it came leaving a nice dent, broken mirror and some nice scratches, all fixed now and thankfully looks shiny and new again:)

You are right, we are all different and attracted and turned on by different things. I think the key is to not be offended or to offend when one or the other points out their preferences. Phrasing our likes and dislikes is very important as we all should be sensitive and understanding when pointing them out:)

There are some who aren't good at making choices on their own and this goes on in all aspects of their lives. Then there are those who just need to be assured, to hear reassuring comments or perhaps it's just a subject that is popular and fun to discuss for some. Hearing someone tell you so and so is this or that can be titillating it seems:)

Congrats Chantal for reaching this milestone, and thank you for your always happy and positive approach:)

I don't think it's cerb etiquette for the lady's to contact the client;) good luck in your search:)

They are chasing after their twenty something co-ed hard bodied boys, lol;)

Thank you for your response and explanation, but let me use your analogy, from your previous post, when again you suggested a lady work 6 hrs at a lower rate bringing in more clients hence more money. Well how about a client who openly admits some rates are above his budget, work 6 hrs more, or better yet get a second or third job so he could hobby more;):) Perhaps the misunderstanding of some clients towards why we charge what we charge and their expectations is part of the reason there isn't more of a variety of women here. However it is my belief that Halifax has a lot of wonderful ladies and a great variety for its size:)

My post is not intended to insult you either and I can understand why anyone would want to save money BUT we are talking about a very sensitive subject and a business unlike any and a business that from one to another NO one can compare, nor should they want to. So to say because one charges $$ the other should and because it costs $$ in one city it should here. It sounds like you are the type who picks are a girl based more on her rates than any other criteria, so this posts leads me to believe. Which I find sad as many ladies that charge beyond the rate which you think is "fair" are made to feel as though, as you said, they are charging to much. Your last sentence I find well I'll just say funny!! If I charge less I'll get more business? NO! Back when I first dabbled in this business, back when the rate was 1/2 of what I now charge, I was told I had one of the best bodies out there, by men and women, and my service was very good as well. Back then men were still complaining and surmising as to how we should go about getting more business etc. So my point is-no matter what a lady has, no matter the quality of her service, no matter her location, or year, there will be someone complaining about how, where, when or why we should charge what we do, see this amount of clients, do things this way or that way, and it's always said by someone who isn't in the business, by a man, by someone who doesn't get that many of us are giving you a piece of ourselves, a very personal, honed, proudly offered, experience, well taken care of piece of ourselves. This " piece" isn't to be taken lightly nor should it's cost or value as it goes well beyond the dollar and it is and always will be incomparable, well at least to those who seek out a lady for more than just her hourly rate;)

Congratulations on hitting this milestone, keep on posting you are a valued member:)

Having a spa day-facial, mani, pedi massage and hair, :) Now I'll be all fresh for some naughty weekend fun;)

I went to see 12 years a slave last night- have tissues with you. Very well done and great acting. I'd highly recommend:)

Have you ever come onto the general discussion forum and continually read posts that you find so well done, articulate, concise and very politely put? I have and have messaged to thank the op. But in this case and of course this is just my opinion, but this person- MIGHTY PEN-(A well suited name) :) does just that EVERY time he posts. Never is there a note of bias, favoritism towards another member, insincerity, meanness, but rather, a sense of understanding, a willingness of acceptance and a very kind way of accepting and explaining another's point of view. So the point of this post-well- I think people like him need to be thanked, openly and often so.... Mighty Pen, you make this forum more pleasurable, more interesting and so much more inviting for me and for that I thank you:):)

Apparently they are not just pests! But medicinal additives and cosmetic ingredients. http://www.theworldofchinese.com/2013/10/riding-the-roach-coach-gravy-train/

I appreciate your opinion and thank you for your post but if one believes in anything it is never silly, especially and, if it brings you happiness and comfort:)

Midnight-massage is a beautiful full figured lady. I wouldn't consider her fat-but full figured and I'm not sure what a fat fetish is but she certainly has great reco's and is someone worth meeting. Best of luck.

I think your list is perfectly reasonable and sadly, needed. I have experienced these things with clients and like you am very willing to work with anyone who gives me their word, an apology and shows that they are willing to be reliable, respectful and to follow my booking protocol and rules. After all we-sp's- are willing to give you our time, share with you our bodies, minds and talents. Asking for reliability, respect and compliance isn't to much-is it?

Thank you Emma for posting that- very touching. Hugs to them.

If that is your dog, you are very lucky. He/she has a face I could just eat up!!

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=533004 Miquelon posted the best picture in the funny pictures thread. It was concerning an argument between the Catholic church and Presbyterian churches. So do they? I have relatives who are fanatical religious people and they are always telling me that animals don't have souls. My retort is then perhaps that's why I like them better, lol and if that is what's required for entry into heaven well I've concluded I don't want to go. I don't want to be somewhere that has no other beings other than human. Nope if there are no dogs it's not a place for me. So I guess I can go on sinning without remorse, lol!!!

That's a interesting point and has me wondering if only singles hobbied and provided would the profession be more accepted? A rather conservative, very well educated woman I know made the point that the problem she has with service providers is that they provide for married men. That is her issue with the profession, as she stated, she could care less what others sell or do with their bodies. What bothers her is those who mingle with attached people. A bit silly perhaps, but something to ponder. As I do feel that in even the most conservative society's most don't care what we do sexually( between adults that is) it's who we do it with that is concerning to them .

I found this to be a very interesting read and conclusion, perhaps you will too. It concerns sexuality, whether or not its innate. http://isites.harvard.edu/icb/icb.do?keyword=k78405&pageid=icb.page414413

As a single unattached woman I've often heard throughout my single years, why aren't you married, why don't you have a boyfriend. Then comes the other question are you gay, lol. I guess if a girl is single some assume she might be gay?? I never understood that conclusion as gay men and women date, marry and couple. Anyway, it does appear that even today it's expected that we are all supposed to be coupled. Being single seems to leave the impression with some that the single person is somehow lost, not marriage material, incapable of finding a mate?? Whatever happened to choices, and that being single is a chosen position for many:)

It happens a lot! I get the impression that when a gentleman tells another they do think they are doing the sp a favor, not a malicious deed or spreading gossip. BUT like others have said ask first, our information is only for US-the owners- to share and to share where and with whom WE choose. Because a gent is a cerb member doesn't make him more trustworthy, reliable, discreet or more likely to follow the rules. There are good and bad clients on all sites:( Nor does an online friendship allow you to truly know anyone. So as i'ts been said ONLY pass on information AFTER you have been given permission to or simply write a reco, then everyone can see that this is a lady you think highly of and think others should experience:)