CristyCurves

Our dear, special friend and valued cerb member-The Liquor -hasn't received good news. For anyone that would like to leave an open pick me up message or inspirational quote please feel free to leave it here-please don't nominate this post as its purpose is just to lift his spirits and give him a smile:)

Hi Harvey. If I may say:) most are here for business first but also, at least I'll speak for myself, for pleasure as well and to enjoy the company of a nice gentleman. I offer three different types of encounters so I need to know before the fun begins what encounter we are going to enjoy. As they all include different erotic activities. I like to give my gentlemen friends a choice and get the business out of the way in the beginning then there are no misunderstandings leaving us both relaxed and ready to enjoy each other.:)

Hi RG, respectfully I have to correct your last sentence as it's not true and I'm sure it's not exactly what you meant. Many of us that provide a great service won't get reco's this is true but only for the fact that many, many men prefer not to write them. Instead they reward us with a gift/s,tips or a repeat visit/s. The number of reco's one has means that person has met with that number of people who have been willing to give them, not that their service is better or more deserving. I hope yu don't mind me pointing that out. Have a great night:) Additional Comments: No, thank you Angela for your comment:) I always appreciate your input:) I'm not sure who you are speaking for when you say we though:) but I'm sure there are some who might learn something new from this thread, at least I hope:) and I don't think anyone can talk about being kind and thoughtful to much. Nor how hurtful saying negative things can be. After the thread was nominated a few times;)

You are certainly motivated and someone to admire;) I sat in bed all day, lol, and posted on cerb.

She is obviously reacting to something, I hope she'll be okay poor thing. Post how shes doing, if you don't mind, as I'm going to worry.

you can try 1channel, sometimes it works great sometimes it doesn't. I like to use the filenuke links.

Did you know that a product called tantalum is a component of all electronic devices and coltan which is extracted from tantalum is mined in the congo, one of the causes of the slaughter of the lowland gorillas. So will recycling your phone help, maybe not, but if we all recycle, possibly. http://www.pacebutler.com/blog/cell-phone-recycling-and-gorillas-the-hidden-connection/

Thank you:)

You've raised a valid and interesting point-which may lead to some being disappointed. Most providers do provide enough pictures to give a client a clear view of themselves but with hormones raging and when dealing with the fantasies of sex some may set their expectations of what's to come to high, therefore leaving only room for disappointments and letdowns and possibly negative reviews. We all can look at the same picture yet no two sets of eyes will see it the same way:)That could also be said for reading and interpreting directions and services. Thank you for your response:)

Thank you for your response:) I didn't imply there were "sneaky" comments, sorry if you saw it that way. I said, there have been negative comments worded in a way that were acceptable to the board. They weren't sneaky as they were deliberately written and perhaps rightfully so:) but necessary? or valid,? That depends on your point of view:) I don't think anyone should take anyone's comment-positive or negative "to heart" but that's up to them to decide, lol.:) I didn't want to make quotes as I wanted this thread to be a generalization. A cause for thought, not one in which fingers are pointed.:) I apologize if that comment eludes to that. No provider should HAVE to take anything-criticism or otherwise, but a comment or a discussion made in a friendly helpful way may go along way and leave both parties better off, especially when done discreetly and privately. To compare those types of criticisms to restaurant reviews, travel boards etc, however, isn't helpful or reasonable:) as this business is dealing with something completely unique and in its own category. Also and as Areez pointed out ,I realize it's never an easy thing to do, to bring up disappointing issues, experiences, or letdowns with a stranger you've just met, but better done in person then openly posting about it ,imo, I think we are all aware when someone is acting out of good intent, trying to help one improve and not just trying to be negative and be critical:) thank you for your point of view;)

No you did, lol, good one!

Thank you:) not sure what boards they are as I only take part in this forum and one other and this subject has been discussed there. I've always thought that avoiding things isn't the way to go as it never changes anything .It's better, imo, to openly discuss issues in as many venues as possible and maybe:) bring about some positive change:)

With all due respect, it's a point, so not moot:) and negative comments are made here on occasion concerning negative experiences. They are just worded in a way which makes them acceptable to the board. Also this thread is a generalization-hence- it's place in general discussion, which is a place where we can discuss topics that are relevant to this and other boards, if I'm not mistaken:)

Is giving a thumbs down, or outing someone as a "bad" or a "you should pass on this one guys" provider really beneficial? I'm not talking about the obvious, like people who use stolen pictures, those who are( and this you need proof of) a health risk, those who may be dangerous, or for any other reason that may put someone in jeopardy. I'm talking about things that might be better discussed privately with the said provider, such as poor hygiene, lack of enthusiasm, this might have something to do with their partner, poor skill, etc, or things that someone has no control over, such as their attractiveness. Not everyone in the business is good looking and publicly calling them out on this is mean, if their hygiene is poor, perhaps a private discussion would solve the issue. some people are just not sexually gifted, have skills, but again maybe a private conversation might help to motivate one into improving. My point is, we are all human beings, with feelings and different needs. Just writing someone off for reasons that might be improved with help can't really benefit anyone can it? Yes, its a responsibility of those selling their time to be professional, responsible and hold themselves to a particular standard, but they need to know how in order to do this and if they are lacking wouldn't being helpful and discreetly discussing your issues with them be more beneficial and kind? It just feels so harsh to me to just write someone off so easily. Remember this is a person, your negative comments may ruin them, not only financially but emotionally. Each and every individual deserves a chance, and maybe even a few. Each is irreplaceable, we are not buses, soon as one passes another comes along, which is sometimes how those comments make it seem. So perhaps if next time you meet a new provider, or just a different one and things weren't as you hoped, or for any reason other then the fore mentioned, stop and think- is your negative comment you are about to write really going to help anyone?

Spending a night with a new client, and truly having fun:) sometimes taking chances bring delightful surprises. So today I get to spend the day relaxing with my little dog who just keeps improving, another great day:)

Sadly, that happens here as well. Best to ignore any malicious gossip and when looking into seeing a lady do your due diligence by checking her website, reco's, reviews and posts. Then you'll have a sense of her validity, styles of service and other pertinent details. Some just get off on trying to ruin and disparage others reputations, why?, only they know.

I'd say I'm a true loner, to many bad experiences with other people. Yes, some might have been my fault but I'd say I'm a kind and rather a nice person until I am or feel attacked or backed into a corner. My attitude towards people could be better and construed as Debbie downerish as I feel there are more bad than good people , but thankfully and because of people like Jolene I know there are some very good ones:) out there. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFPnwpkGioc&feature=youtube_gdata_player I posted this because it touched me personally and deeply , recently my little dog had cervical surgery so I could relate to the severe pain this pup had to have endured, the patience and expense those kind people had to have and go to in order to heal this little girl. I hope it touches you as well and gives you the sense of goodness in some:)

sorry posted my other thread in wrong area-duhhh

I noticed browsing the web the term impulsist the other day and wondered why its not used more. Hobbyist is always used but on that site they noted a difference between the two. The hobbyist was described as the gentleman who like to pre-plan his rendezvous, the impulsist was the type of gentleman who contacts a provider spur of the moment, when the mood hits. I liked the difference and just wondered why more don't use both terms. Both types are appreciated, needed, knowing the difference might be beneficial for some?:)

Everyone gets toothaches, doesn't make you old:) hope it gets better quick, then you can come romp on my sheets;)

Meet the Millers with Jennifer Aniston was very funny I thought and the Butler was good.

I used to be quite open about this profession and my opinions concerning it. However those I told used it against me so now I keep it between myself and two of my closest friends, I would trust those two people with my life:). They had to know as I didn't think I could be truly close without them knowing everything about me. I believe great friends need to know about one another. But as the old saying goes -if you don't want anyone knowing anything then don't tell ANYONE!

Well, we still get them but are they still needed, used, relevant?. Do you find them convenient, a good source for information or is the internet all we need?

Congrats on your first cerb milestone, may you reach many, many more:)

Congrats Gabriella on reaching the 4000 milestone, always articulate, engaging and entertaining. Keep on posting sexy lady:)