CristyCurves

Congrats on your first 500, looking forward to many more:)

Congrats from me as well, keep them coming :)

I can't say I've done anything during a session that I hadn't done in my personal life but this profession has allowed me more sexual freedom. By that I mean I can have as much or as little with as many men as I choose and get paid doing it, I love that, what a way to live, lol:)

Congrats ! Keep them coming your contributions are appreciated:)

I guess I'm wondering if having them listed would have any legal ramifications as I do find now, listing anything doesn't give a guarantee its going to be read, lol. In all my ads I ask explicitly for a client to please FULLY read my web page prior to contacting me and what do you think, 90% of them don't! They just dial my number then become surprised when I redirect them to my page. Perhaps viewing a web page is a hassle?? Not sure why so many don't take the minute to do so:(

Is having complete details concerning services, meaning listing what is involved in fs/gfe or pse and fees listed on ones web site a plus or negative, what is your opinion and why.

I'm not sure if I'm understanding your question correctly, if you are asking if I would encourage after business companionship with a client, I would say no. There is an old saying in this business that goes " men pay us to leave" and I'm happy for this! I love the men I interact with, some have been better than others, that's the way it goes, but when the time is up so is the connection. I still think it was all great and would want to do it again, see them again, but in a paid relationship only. I love my freedom, my "no responsibility" type lifestyle. I don't need anything complicating it:) If you are asking does encouraging a connection create more chemistry I'd also say no . Either there is chemistry or there isn't. We all play out our sessions differently, I'm not a good actress so what you see is what you get, if its there its there if it isn't it isn't. I won't pretend to be or to do anything to create an illusion of any type of relationship.

Congrats on reaching the big 500, may we be lucky and get to enjoy many more of your posts, thanks for your contributions:)

I wasn't aware of this, I'd be interested in knowing as well, perhaps mod could verify so we'd know for sure:)

Its commonplace to here negative stories and aspects of our line of work, escorting/providing. What it can do to "womanhood", how we are homewreckers, that its demoralizing, sinful, the cause of other crimes, blah, blah, blah! So I wanted to state some positive! This business has allowed me to become independent, completely so.:) Its greatly increased my self esteem. Actually, believe it or not its caused me to be more careful about my eating habits. Having to be naked often, causes me to eat less and more carefully than I would if I knew I'd never have to expose myself:) It allows me to be completely uninhibited, has taught me a lot about my own body and sex. I've also learned a lot of very positive things about men and their bodies;). It satiates my high drive, causes me to exercise more than I would normally. As an introvert I probably wouldn't have met the amount of really great people I've met had I chosen another line of work. I am a much more confident and carefree person because of this business. Probably more empathetic as well:) Yes there have been some rough times and some minor bumps but that would happen in any line of work I suspect. All in all my choice to provide has been a beneficial and a happy and positive experience :)

I understand we all have choices here when it comes to how we set up our profile pages and who we allow to view them. But if I allow you to peek at mine shouldn't I be allowed to peek at yours?:) I find it annoying when I go to thank someone who's visited my page only to see they've blocked me from doing so. Now I get that's its your right and I could do the same but its also any ones right to state their opinion here, which is what I'm doing, fair is fair:) or is it? What do you think:)

I called out someone who advertised this on another site quite a while ago as I thought is was racist to deny a particular race but most responded that it wasn't, it was personal taste. This girl said she was not physically attracted to darker skinned people and was not being racist and it was her right to deny any one she wasn't attracted to. Many also supported her and agreed because of the nature of this business, the intimacy involved , physical attraction was important, obviously. Well those responses left me confused and a little swayed, perhaps I was wrong? Now I'm not sure. Of course we all have a right to see who we choose as do our clients I mean many men make it clear they will not see females with bust enhancements, particular hair colors, ect, ect. Although these traits don't imply racism but do unfairly deny some really great people meeting one another. Completely eliminating anyone because of some physical trait wether it be skin color, hair color, size ect just shortens your list and as I said eliminates some really great people but who am I to judge, we all do have the right to choose:)

Thank you RG and I can answer your question honestly, when men have emailed me with explicit details but also with complete info about themselves, I've responded. Professionalism +dirty details is sexy, imo. They caught my interest and made me want to see them, however if I just got an email form a random anonymous man with a bunch of explicit talk I would just ignore it. I like sessions where I can talk, get to know the man as well, it makes all the rest that much more exciting;) Additional Comments: Well thank you! I think we would have a lot of fun, take a trip then I could take you for a long, slow ride;) My suggestion to anyone writing ads, let your personality shine through, if you are a dirty talker and love it, say it;) if you are romantic, display it. If you are other or both don't be shy give it all a try:)

Thanks for your response and I don't want to interrupt this thread as the topic is worthy but what I found offensive was the "oh well" basically another one bites the dust attitude. That's just how I read it and yes abuses can cause our physical looks to suffer but just imagine her suffering that is going on the inside. I just felt that her lack of looks is the cause for your distance from her, as possibly if the beauty were still there and the addiction active the sense I get is that you may still want to be around her. Which I find sad. Again if I'm reading more into this than there is I apologize.

Now that's a whole lot of words,:) keep them coming as we appreciate all you have to say and contribute to cerb:)

Holly crap it worked! I don't know what is different as I've tried to download it many times using that same link but it would never let me finish, it would stop and say I needed to turn off internet explorer. A big thanks:) But about spice comments you are right none of the images are displaying on that site now, so its not just my computer:), thanks for looking into that, perhaps there is something going on with the site.

If your wording in this isn't meant as I'm taking it then I'll apologize for what I have to say, but I find your statement so blaze that it caught me off guard and offended me. She was worthy at her 10 position but know that she is a "shadow" oh well! Surely at the beginning this person must have displayed some evidence of her addition or did her beauty just blind you? I find with some men, and not necessarily you, if a girl is a rocket any other negativities about her will be overlooked and possibly fed, when the beauty is gone well so is the mans desire to be around her, she's used up so time to move on to the next. I see you have tried to help as you said you drove her to a rehab clinic and dealing with addicts is a long difficult struggle but never just an oh well. It is very sad to see anyone fall into despair, drugs or other harmful behaviors but these people are still worthy, beautiful and valuable just in need of help, support and understanding. I think client sp relationships are best kept at the professional level, but that's just my personal opinion .

Thanks for your response but the sites I'm speaking of are set up to allow coping of their graphics . Some of which I had posted on my web page but now are no longer visible. I wonder if it could have anything to do with my adobe flash which I erased by mistake and can't seem to download as I need to shut down internet explorer to do this and I don't know how.:(

Anyone want to give me any clues as to what I may have done to eliminate my ability to copy and paste graphics or pics from sites such as spice comments and other comment/graphic sites. Any help would be appreciated.

But this I don't get. If you are dealing with a reputable sp/ma then you already know "real" info about her, that is if you've done your research. She or he will have divulged all pertinent details concerning themselves and their locale upon confirming the appointment so why the reluctance in giving a last name? I just don't understand how any sp/ma could confirm a clients validity with just a first name, references aside. Again I understand a mans concerns when it comes to his discretion but that is what professional sp's are out to protect the most after of course their own safety. Any sp/ma that would divulge clients details would be quickly outed and ruined imo.

I think in this day and age anyone without a nest egg should rethink their ways of saving/spending. I have always put some aside but have been lucky to have been left some money as well, the financial future of relying on pensions, ect and so on is no longer a good idea, having a secure nest egg is. As far as recklessly using my spending money well that's a different story, lol. But I don't think reading books or other ways are going to change this as I feel old habits to hard to break and frugality wasn't passed on to me:(

I don't think any of this would change anything, there are men who will never divulge their identity, they are to afraid of being found out by their so's and no one will ever be able to convince them that some sites are more secure than others, this is my experience. There are those men who will trust you enough to give their details but will never join any sites for other reasons and then there are those who don't care who knows them or how much of their info is out there. My point is although it sounds like a great idea I don't think it would increase safety for us or create a more secure environment for clients as there will always be divided groups who choose to hobby in their own comfort zones, no matter the guarantees of anything. As far as cerb being a positive place, compared to some sites I'd say it was but truthfully speaking and from experience some will make comments here cleverly worded that can equal a negative review and "good" members on one site just go to another to perform their dirty work making it similar just a little more polite than those other sites, jmo. Lets face it if someone wants to damage someone no matter what site they belong to, no matter the rules and requirements or what details they have divulged of themselves they will, these are ruthless people who will stop at nothing. I now base little importance on reviews or recommendations, as I've met so many men who also say this and have no desire in writing any for anyone nor do they read any. But for those who like writing them and for those who rely on them I'm sure any ways of proving their validity would be appreciated. But nothing is foolproof nor is anything completely secure, lets face it anyone can find out who anyone is in this day and age if they really wanted to. There are trails to everything. I think the only true protectors for us all is our intuition, common sense and reading between the lines.

I think my list would be endless as my spending habits have always been reckless and impulsive but c'est la vie.I'm not in debt or suffering so:) Stupidest thing in the past couple of years tha tI've bought, my car, two door, never again! Next time I'm going to be practical and not just go for looks, lol! I love how you always word things Jabba :), and can most certainly relate to vet bills, ugh, but always worth it:)

Thank you Meghan for this thread as I didn't know about the border issues. Good to know as I've considered being a driver/transporter for some of the rescue groups who bring dogs in from the states. I'd like to be completely open about this lifestyle as I certainly am not ashamed of it but I have people in my life that I love and know would be hurt to know I'm doing this, sadly enough, and don't want to involve them so I keep some anonymity. There are some smart asses out there who'll say you must be ugly if you don't show your face but one can't live on others opinions or expectations. We all have to do what we are comfortable with and I am comfortable showing my naked body, anyways, by the time I finish with this it'll probably be unrecognizable anyways, lol!!

thanks for your always straight to the point insightful first 100 posts, I will look forward to reading many more-Congrats:)