CristyCurves

When I was a child I would always get how cute and tiny I was and a pinch on the cheek, especially form one of my female neighbours. It drove me nuts and left an impression I think of how important ones appearance is. I think whatever a child hears over and over again is going to leave an impression and perhaps even form their opinion on how they see themselves and everyone else. I am a very visual person and I can be overly critical of my own appearance and those who I'm with, almost obsessively so. Whether this is from lessons learned or genetic, who knows. Now when I meet and talk to children I make an effort not to mention their appearance. Most kids are very curious and will ask questions so its easy to get into a conversation without having to mention their obvious cuteness.

I'm surprised that a man would find it hard to get laid as I know a lot of horny women, lol. In my circle most of the women frown upon my lifestyle, they don't approve of escorting:( They do love to talk about and enjoy sex though. Some of my friends are coupled and I always find the male counterparts less likely to talk about and be open about sex. Women imo at least verbally are far more sexual and appear as they'd be easy to "lay" but a man would have to do the pursuing. I as well as some of my female friends would never approach-or pick up a man, we feel that's the mans job. I personally, when out, would prefer if that's all a man wanted from me, would just come out and ask me. I think I may be more male like as I don't require the emotional attachment, perhaps that's why I'm well suited for escorting, but I am a bit different than most:)

We all know you would do the right thing RG- you are a gentleman. Its those who aren't that make this and any other business difficult and frustrating at times. Your point is what we all want -for everyone to do the right thing, my point is simply that no matter your policy make it obvious or you'll have no leg to stand on and even then, with some that won't matter. In the end we both agree-respect and consideration should be heeded by all, but a lot of people simply do as they please:)

Any business you deal with that has a cancellation fee, policy, concerning missed appointments, for whatever reasons have to give notice as I said of their policies. The repercussions of a persons actions, IE: missing the appt. are for them to bear, that's common sense, so long as it was made clear by said business. However no matter the business I would hope all people would be considerate and respectful when they use a particular service. In the end though if someone doesn't have the courtesy to cancel properly I highly doubt-cancellation fee or not-that you'll have any success in collecting one from them or affecting them by wait times ect, these types of people are better just ignored.

I don't believe anything has changed as any doctor can charge a cancellation fee if they so choose and have been for many years. Some charge a fee, some don't:)However they have to make it obvious to their patients of this policy, whether that be in writing or verbally. They also can't submit this fee without giving you notice of it first. There have also been some cases where these fees have been challenged by the patient and the patient has won:) http://www.consumeraffairs.govt.nz/for-consumers/services/contracts

AWW, please don't feel weird, this is a great and discreet place to discuss, reply and view all kinds of people. Most here are non-judgemental, accepting and welcoming to new members and want you to feel comfortable and part of this community. If you view profiles your handle will appear on that persons profile, they may choose to leave a thank you for visitng message on your wall/profile page. If you choose to leave a comment on someone's page keep in mind that comment will be visible to all who visit that profile. If you want to send a message to anyone that you only want for your eyes and theirs send it by a pm. If you want to comment on a thread just hit the reply button. Or if you just want to thank someone for their comment hit the thanks button. It takes a bit to get used to it, when I joined I made mistakes but its through those that you learn. If you have any questions just ask, or post a thread for multiple responses. The main thing is for you to enjoy and feel like you belong, those are my wishes for you:)

I don't send thank you notes, when a gentleman leaves my company I have made it clear that he is welcomed to come back and appreciated, so anything after that I feel is up to him. I appreciate getting a thank you, as it shows that the gentleman liked the time he spent with me and its very thoughtful. As long as he is being truthful;) when he sends it:)

Congrats Cyclo on your forst 100- may you happily post many more

When I joined Cerb, 2yrs ago I had no, absolutely no computer knowledge or tech abilities. I had just gotten my very first computer, I was not wanting to join " the technology age". It took me a little while to learn things, heck I didn't even know the keys, yes a true computer virgin. Nor did I know the etiquette. Being stubborn and one to never fully read anything, especially directions, rules, contracts, ect- a big mistake as I've suffered a few consequences. But that's okay:) I've always been one to accept the punishment of my deed. In saying all that I do still find it hard to get my point across when typing, as this post may illustrate, but I try. I also live a lifestyle that doesn't warrant the need to have the latest new tech gadget, nor do I want it. I prefer to put my money into a nice car, and to help animal shelters and their homeless animals:) What I do find frustrating in the tech age is the need for people to text instead off picking up the phone to talk, I hate that.

The time frame in which someone responds to me isn't so important as I do realize people have other things to do but the fact that they give a response, that is what I consider polite, the acknowledgment. Any messages, all types, texts, emails, pm's voice mails, so long as they are polite and make sense, get a response from me, sometimes not right away, with discretion in mind, if the response is to a client, I use the hour rule, but at least I respond.

You can ask politely, preach and pray that all will follow rules, use common sense, but in the end people do what they want. All one can do is choose the good clients that are discreet and follow your guidelines and ignore the rest. I have learned in this business there are SOME nice clients, SOME who play games, SOME who follow protocol to a T and SOME who just won't follow directions even if they were lead by them on a leash! So my advise would be, treasure the good ones and worry about things you can control:)

Another rhinestone studded collar and leash for my dogs:) beer more red wine:)

As I said in the op, I wasn't speaking about client/sp bookings more about example: Someone pm's you to ask you a question, or just to wish you a nice day, ect, ect, isn't it just courteous to respond. I don't believe in the I'm to busy excuse as I know many who have the busiest lives and they take moments here and there to respond to pm's, emails, ect. As do I. There are days my inbox is flooded, other days I may get 6 or 7 emails, no matter how many I get I respond to all those that are polite. But as Mr.Green said, its pointless to chase anyone or to expect everyone to be polite I suppose, nor should I expect anyone to do something just because I do:)

These terms have no connection to advance donations and just because you prepay doesn't mean you'll be put on a "special" list. All sp's want all their clients to feel special and enjoy a quality encounter, no matter how much is paid and how:) Advance donations may be required by some providers to be assured of a clients seriousness in keeping a booking. Ymmv simply means as Meaghan explained and msog, the same. Each and every lady has their own booking preferences and offers different styles of services and options, best to discuss this with your chosen girl.

So most people are busy, we all have our day to day routines, work schedules, kids, pets, me time, ect, allotted times for this or that. So when you get pm's, emails, texts, voice mails, not referring to sp/client appts, but any others. Do you respond asap, within a certain period of time, to all, only few..... I respond to all my pm's and any other correspondence, so long as they are polite and not silly-rudely silly I mean. I think its only polite to do so. If someone takes the time to reach out to me I thinks its only polite to respond. What's your opinion?

Lexi, you're very creative and naughty! It appears I may be a little vanilla. I do try to let things happen naturally, but enjoy starting a sex romp with some kissing, caressing, then an erotic massage, first with strong hands to relax, then I'll start and tease him with light touches on his inner thighs, around his balls, down his legs, rubbing my nipples up and down his back. Then I'll have him turn over, more kissing, caressing, offering him to suck and nibble on my nipples while my hand explores his body, the rest I'll have to leave for those curious to find out in person;)

Thanks for your contributions and hitting the 2000 mark. I'll look forward to your many more posts:)

Lol, well you did! As did I and for the obvious reason-when anyone says they don't want to live, for what ever reason, I believe in offering help, kind words. Maybe he is playing us but what if he isn't!

I am very grateful when a man brings me anything, his penis is always the best gift though! As far as preferred drinks as its been said, if you would like to bring something ask your lady what she likes. I like to offer all my men a drink, water, milk, coffee, tea, pop, beer, liquor, wine, whatever, I usually have quite a few options. :) to offer.

Thank you for this post I've been wanting to see it too a lot of funny actors in it:)

I don't know if you are being serious or not, your first statements inappropriateness could be a cause of your outlook and unhappiness. I will say if you are being serious, I'm sorry for your pain and hope you will seek out help. There are many willing to help and guide you towards a happier and a more productive life. But you have to want it. You are valuable, life is worth living and no matter how bad things are they can get better, please allow them to.

Those are the best of the best. Robert Mitchum has always been a favorite of mine, something very very sexy about that man. The duke, my fathers favorite, he watched everything he played in. Although I'm not a huge western fan I would say anything with the Duke or Clint in it would be worthwhile:)

I don't think anyone should worry about looking young, this shouldn't be a goal. Being healthy should be and youthful looks will be an off shoot of that. To much emphasis is put on youth, imo, but to each their own. I just want good health, to feel appropriately energized, happy and at peace at all times:)

Your post touched me as I could feel the pain in your writing. I'm so glad you've found some inner peace and made positive changes. The most important thing is how you now feel, so much more important than how you look, looking better is just a bonus. Congratulations and may things just keep getting better for you:)

I log onto cerb, lol, this weekend has been those times, to many bbque's and drinks, falling asleep early, lol. Hopefully sometime soon I'll get back on schedule