CristyCurves

meeting someone new and feeling the connection, nothing better:)

I'm sorry for you Jenny, but hang in there we all get them. I know that hearing this won't solve the issue but hopefully it will console you a bit. To answer your last question, I believe so. But cancellations happen for a myriad of reasons from the legitimate to the down right felonious and spiteful. I find asking for an email money transfer for pre-bookings helps and have potential clients call an hour or so before meeting to confirm, if they don't call move on. That way there isn't much time wasted. I believe it was Nicholette who recommended this to me and it helps. Remember the good times when the bad arise, that'll make them pass more quickly and know you aren't alone:)

Hopefully you!! lol:icon_lol: if not I'll be having veggies stir fried in lots of garlic and olive oil

I just wanted to clarify she didn't say "all" hobbyists. I will say thank you to Miss Jane for her honesty. It is hard for some to accept or hear of such negativities, but sadly they do exist. To what degree I can't say as I have no statistics. I can say all the while I was running/working for services the majority of my experiences and those relayed to me by the women I worked with were not the most pleasant and were as Miss Jane spoke. The majority of clients then were simply interested in banging the youngest cutest girl for the least amount of $$, those are facts. It wasn't until I joined cerb, now Lyla, that I learned things to be different. I learned that there were respectful gentlemen interested in meeting with genuine women. That one didn't have to be guarded, cold or aloof. We (companions), too could enjoy a date and it could be a fun, respectful and reciprocal engagement. So I slowly began to realize that "clients" were "hobbyists" which are men, like any other men, who just seek occasional fun. It's funny, when you look at something in a positive light it then becomes so. I still occasionally run into an ass or two, but thanks to my better understanding and education of this business I can better deal with and ignore them knowing although they still exist so do the good guys.

Lol, that looks like a weapon! too big for me. I like a smaller model- for vibrator that is;)

Some things that turn me off- name droppers-braggers guys who mention others girls-even worse- their locales poor hygiene bad breathe and those who text when you explicitly request phone calls-it happens so often now I just have to laugh! thank fully I don't experience these often

Sadly I'm not aware of the magic wand, must look for it next time. I'm a fan of the egg/bullet vibrators. Tried other types and always go back to the egg:) Additional Comments: How to engage? Well, we are ladies first and foremost and prefer to be treated as such. This goes for all aspects of this business. Most of us are capable of being passive or aggressive, so how to engage is something you'll want to discuss with your lady of choice. The right way with one may be the wrong way with another. This is why communication is the key, but respectful communication. No explicit talk, rudeness or crudeness is necessary, on or off this board. Respectfulness goes along way in this business for both hobbyist and companion. We all want to be valued after all and not made to feel like a number, piece of meat or anything other than ladies and gentlemen that we are.

Your alarm clock will also work, lol! After you've showered, had a healthy breakfast and completed your day's to do list why not add something special and enjoy a date with me :wink:Cristycurves. As you can see I'm nicely curved, cute and I'm also very accommodating, always fun, unscripted, sincere and absolutely discrete. There is never a dull moment with me:shock: I prefer contact by phone-902-453-6323-by reliable and mature respectful gentlemen only. I'm looking forward to hearing from you * I don't keep set hours so feel comfortable contacting me at your convenience. If I'm unavailable or busy just leave a voicemail and I'll follow the instructions left in it- thank you*

Stockings and a new vibrator

aHH, my place:) Well I like to be comfortable so I'll say a nice hotel room with a bottle of nice wine or bubbly, candle light, sexy music and some good food for after wards. I'm always hungry after a good workout;)

Well he did say that "she" lied about some things, so couldn't he post a warning here? I realize your experience was less than good and that's unfortunate because most responsible and professional companions go out of their way to leave a good impression and keep their word, so don't let one bad apple spoil the barrel:) However if money is precious to you, as you've eluded, then perhaps hobbying may not be for you. Since no one can make a guarantee to anyone that their experience will be good or great, even those of us who try very hard to please. Sometimes, even the most recommended and reviewed companions can disappoint occasionally. Leaving a few with feelings of regret.

I think most post the pics they want seen, so asking for more would be pointless. Some have a private members area on their site where they may post more revealing pics. I won't speak for anyone else but if someone messaged me asking for nude pics I'd ignore the request, after all if I wanted to be seen nude I'd post those pics. I'm not going to send out pics to anyone, especially someone I don't know.

This is a great thread and everyone has made valid points. We all want things to improve, know what is truly going on. Yet we all see what is going on in society slightly different, to be expected, since we all have different interactions with society. I feel society does know what is going on, as well. Not everyone has their head in the sand, believes in the myths and that the negativity's are the majority. However, those negative aspects of the business are what many will use against this profession to convince many it shouldn't be accepted or acceptable and it is those negativities that are always shown in the news or brought to light in discussions which favor this profession. They'd never do stories on "happy companions" or "happy clients", that would defeat their purpose. I feel some in society simply dislike the business because they feel it encourages cheating, and other sexual "no no's, that some are taught to be bad. Until the general opinion of sex changes, until it is accepted as a need, can be marketed, that sharing it is okay and we do it for more reasons that to procreate, and that it is okay to do it with someone you aren't coupled or married to, until then, many will be against this business. I think it is these reasons that many are against it and uncaring towards clients thoughts or needs, more than the issues with it's seedy side. Sex is still a scary subject for many. someday soon I'm hoping it'll be thought of as another biological need, just as eating and sleeping are and just as we all need different foods to maintain our health, many need different forms of sexual gratification, different partners, and at different times and amounts.

paid my power bill-yikes!

I too say we can never hear messages like this one often enough. Thank you WhiteKnight for being thoughtful and posting it. I love how Dove is advertising and empowering women, however, I can't promote their product because they test on animals. Back to the subject at hand-I was raised to be modest, admitting such things as one being beautiful, smart, talented, etc was being vain or boasting. I now realize that isn't the case, there is a difference and although I've never considered myself beautiful, physically, I'd still walk through the beautiful door because I know I'm not average either and that these descriptions represent far more than the physical. The nice thing about getting older is, at least in my case, that my confidence is growing, that, or maybe it's the fact that I am just caring less about what others standards are and what others say:)

I'd like to politely disagree because.... What I like most about myself is my ability to say what is on my mind at any point and to anyone. If I were to say age is just a number, I wouldn't say it if that's not what I meant, at a gain or loss and I'm sure I'm not the only one. I won't kiss anyone's ass nor will I pretend to like something or someone just to make a buck. Doing so never brings positive results. I think honesty in this business, with oneself and with whom you meet, is the only way to go. Sucking up to a particular person, "type" or age group just to get business never results in favorable outcomes, imo and from my experience. I'd rather meet with one I have compatibility and chemistry with rather than 5 I don't.

Clients and companions come in all shapes, sizes and ages. Some will embrace an older gentleman and some won't, that's the truth. Some will embrace a younger gent and some won't, that too is a truth. What I think is important is YOU choose the companion you think is right for you and when you inquire to book an appt with him/her inquire as to whether or not she/he is comfortable meeting with someone mature. I'm sure you'll be welcomed by most. Most of us are more concerned with discretion, hygiene and respectfulness. Meet those criteria and you'll be fine. Remember though, if you do meet someone who isn't comfortable with a man your age, don't take it personally. Everyone has different tastes and is entitled to choose the type of companionship they desire, this works both ways. It's about connecting with someone you'll have fun with, enjoy and Happy hobbying:)

oil change.......for my car:)

Saw this list of actual names that made me laugh maybe you'll get a good laugh reading it as well:) http://blazepress.com/2014/04/25-people-funniest-names-ever/ Bud Light made me roar.

Horse racing dog racing bull fighting hunting I hate all these so called sports others I like...baseball, hockey, skating, running. I was always athletic and excelled at long distant running, softball, swimming and skating but I sucked at volleyball and basketball. I've never tried golfing, not interested, tried tennis, not great at it either.

It was, lol:)

Thank you for elaborating, lol. My questioning this was opened after having discussions with other companions. All who mentioned they couldn't understand why someone would need an agency now with the internet, sites like this one, the ease of setting up ones own website, etc. But as been said to each their own and variety is good. However I think there is change in Atlantic Canada, seems to be fewer.

As someone who has been on both sides (agency and independent) I wonder are agencies doomed to end? I feel it's better to be independent, but perhaps for others there is an appeal and need?

But what you've outlined isn't crap, there in lines the reasons the public perceptions are as they are. There are a lot of clients that don't give a crap, they are there just to get their rocks off and couldn't care a less about the escorts position in life. A lot of the women are in this business because of poverty, drugs, abuse and other negative reasons. Sadly all of these things are true and do shed negativity on the business. There are also many women who have chosen this profession, who are happy to be in it and who are using it as a stepping stone in a positive way. There are also clients who seek out this type of escort and will only interact with responsible and professional women. The negativity of this business is harsh, real and unfortunately always overshadows the positives. As does the theory that a cheating man/women is a bad man/woman, as is the one he/she is cheating with. The fact that a lot of clients are attached also solidifies society's belief that those involved in this business cause the ruin of marriages and other relationships. That many of us are evil seductresses who have no morals or self respect. You would be hard pressed to find anyone in society to openly admit that an escort could actually enhance or help a coupled relationship, or that an escort may be an educated, level headed, productive member of society. These are my beliefs from my experiences in this business. I also believe that until society becomes more "European" towards sex, meaning, more accepting and open about it, the acceptance and opinions towards sex workers and their clients will stay unwanted and negative:(

Stay positive and all will be great, wishing you a very speedy recovery.