CristyCurves

Congrats on your first 100, I look forward to your next 100:)

I think guys notice as they pick us, for all our glory. Weather that be for our looks, attributes, clothing, or lack of, ect, ect. But I'm sure every guy notices something different, some may notice individual details, some a whole package. Alot of how they view us may be determined by the females in their lives. I'm a glam gal, love all that goes with it, I wake up natural, live in my world natural, but if I'm going to be sexy for someone I want the whole package, nails, hair, makeup, lingerie,high heels, all these things make me feel sexier and more prepared to want to be intimate and its fun to get all "dolled" up. It is about a total package and a total package as I see it involves glam. But to each their own. I think where things become blurred for guys is in the thinking that natural is just that no makeup, uncomplicated hair, ect, as some pictures depict in magazines, but what they don't know is a lot of these so called natural "looking" girls have spent more time in hair and makeup than a lot of the glam girls. All in all it doesn't matter what someone else notices or likes as we all have to portray ourselves as we see fit and are comfortable with, guys noticing our efforts is a bonus:)

Its about morals, old fashioned beliefs that society hangs onto that causes many to form negative opinions about this business, which are hypocritical and self-serving. I mean its alright and accepted for a man to go out and sleep with umpteen women, he's a stud, but if a women were to accept many lovers paid or not we are sluts, heathens, outcasts. Am I ashamed because I sleep with multiple partners, perhaps, I'd like to think I'm not but I don't share my profession with many so some may say I am. I have always been one to seek a lifestyle outside the norm so I'm not surprised that I ended up doing this and if I were to be very honest I was one of those little girls who told her friends that I was going to be either an actress or a prostitute. I laugh when I think about it, I was in grade 6, as I wouldn't have even known what a prostitute was, other than it probably drew gasps and horrified looks when the subject was brought up, making it something I wanted to be, lol. Even then I must have wanted to shock people, to be different:) No matter the reasons why many of us decide to do it, which are varied, many, and for a lot of us not understood, we do and do it with pride and we deserve respect, appreciation and the realization that its time to consider this as just another business, different than most but still a business and one that should be appreciated and respected. It allows it operators to be creative, caring, loving, responsible, tax paying citizens and in a lot of cases nicer individuals than you'd find employed elsewhere. But this occupation involves sex, so it will always cause some to wrinkle their brow and to squirm in their seats, but they do when sex is brought up in their personal lives, lol, so what do you expect! There are judgemental prudes everywhere and they will always exist, especially in government! :)

For me its any accent really I think they are all sexy in their own way but if I had to pick one it would be Spanish. Those people are so sexy, their dark features and olive skin then the accent, my oh my!

Wishing you a day full of fun and happy surprises, have a great birthday:)

Interesting, I would have never thought of that. As I always thought it were just women who had the need to be desired, I still have a lot to learn, it seems:) But I can certainly relate as this is why I like the man to lead, that and the fact that I find a strong, dominant man sexy:)

I'm not referring to bdsm, I'm wondering if most hobbyists like to give up control of the session to the sp by allowing her to take the lead, to be the one who initiates the sex and so on, to be the more aggressive one. Its my conclusion that most hobbyists want the sp to take the lead, what are your thoughts :)

Migraines, can't seem to shake this one, :(

Ohh I knew they were shit disturbers, lol.

We all do it, lol, but kind of an inappropriate time to say the least. If I was the one who had farted I would have laughed and apologized profusely, I would have felt awful. Had I been on the receiving end of the fart I would had voiced my objections loudly. But hey, things happen:)

I love a man that wears cologne, but anytime I ask a guy what he is wearing most can't remember the name, so I can't give any examples of my faves:)

Peachy I just think you are the dearest sweetest person . Anyone that reads your posts will know that, it resonates through them. In saying that we all have comfort levels with everything involving this business and I much like yourself prefer to interact with this community online or in person, one on one. I'm not a social person, very much a loner and make no apologies for being so :)

Again I agree, being professional can entail a lot, not specifically just keeping track of time. Most importantly being a professional means taking good care of your clients needs, respecting his privacy and discretion, representing yourself in a good light, having a clean and comfortable locale, being well dressed and groomed, having good ads, an online presence/webpage, ect, ect.But most importantly being a professional to me means you care about who you see and how they feel when they leave, its not just about making them feel good when they are with you its also important that they feel good for having met you, to me that's a sign of a professional sp:)

Chatter I could care less about, I can't control that and no matter what one does it goes on anyways, 2nd time expectations well that would be between me and that person, so again how we interact will be as natural and unacted as the first time, maybe with more of the same, perhaps less, or something totally different. The point of my post was to make it clear that I find it more comfortable to just be in the moment and not constrained by rules and boundaries and the ways of others. To be true to myself, that's all that matters , its my revelation.Anyone I meet will understand what happens here and now may never again happen, or it may come close or it may be completely different, however it happens it will be natural, me and in the moment. :)

Happy birthday and may you have many many more:)

With each new client and the longer I'm in this the more I realize I don't follow the norm, if there is such a thing. I mean we all advertise time limits, types of services, and we all tend to follow the protocol of these or do we? As I have begun to realize that for me this is hard to do, every client I meet is different, obviously, so then are my actions and reactions. Sometimes I run over my time, sometimes I may cross some of my own boundaries, sometimes I may give more service than what was paid for, after all it is my choice isn't it? I mean if I advertise a massage and a manual release and I decide to give the guy head, isn't that my choice and okay, if I'm paid for an hour and it runs into 2 isn't that my choice and that's okay. That doesn't make me less of a professional, or does it? They are my boundaries, my rules so if I decide to cross them isn't that my right? Shouldn't each service be as individual as each client? After all I'm not in this to prove anything,to garner recos, or to impress anyone, I'm in it to have a little fun, excitement and probably many other reasons that I don't even understand, either way I am me and professional or not that's what you get:)

Congrats Serena I always like reading your posts, love your honesty and of course because you are a pit lover that helps too:)

I find this thread interesting and confusing. As I thought there was a difference between sp/client relationships and so relationships but after reading a lot of the posts, maybe not. For me most of my relationships will never garner 100% honesty as I'm always guarded and believe that most people have agendas, everyone wants something and I never know what a persons intentions are clients, so's or friends, even after many meetings. So in order for me to be completely honest with anyone I'd have to completely trust them and that probably will never happen, some may find that sad but I think I'm realistic and believe if you don't want someone to know something then you don't tell anyone as most will gossip and repeat secrets. The great thing I find in a client/sp relationship is the not knowing, I find it easier to be intimate/sexual with men I know little about, as it intrigues and excites me, the mystery of it all and the realization that this meeting may be the last. Now not all meetings are good or exciting as we don't always have chemistry, or attraction but that's to be expected, you can't please everyone, but is there honesty then, usually not, especially from clients as they try hard to be gentlemen and will still, lol, say they will call or see you again, or that you were wonderful or great, so honesty in that sense isn't there. As far as discretion I always give it, I would never share some ones personal details but I don't necessarily expect it. I hope for it but I don't know if I believe clients are as capable of being discreet because I think if an sp wanted to know something from a client she could get him to divulge, men think with their penises. So I don't think clients are always discreet, so anything I say or do with a client is only what I wouldn't care about being made public. For anyone that is able to find and develop any kind of a relationship weather it be client/sp or with an so I hope they cherish and nurture it as it is very special, takes time and time is irreplaceable so are great relationships:)

Probably a Gong Show, as I am inappropriate, sometimes intentionally and sometimes unintentionally, entertaining to some and I think funny:)

Holy crap! That's a pile, lol, congrats to our truly sweet cerb gent.

Good for you:) congrats, I look forward to your next 100

Meeting with a new client and finding out not only that he is kind, fun and smart but extremely generous, he gave a donation to an animal shelter on my behalf, + a gift+ a tip+ chocolates+ liquor, how could I not smile:)

I think its best to never assume anything about a service and who provides it as we are all different but here is a link to what cerb has posted concerning these terms. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=10214

People, human beings, they make me go hmmmm....

Congrats an your first 500, will look forward to reading the next 500:)