CristyCurves

You charge what you need to, that's up to you. Pressure from anyone should be ignored, if some guy is telling you your rate is to high tell him he is to cheap, tit for tat. Your rates are no ones business but your own! An sp has to factor in the costs of operating-examples-costs of upkeep on in-call locale, out-call transport fees, upkeep on car, taxes, clothing, lingerie, makeup, shoes, lotions, ect, ect and what she feels her "labour " is worth, then calculate an amount that will gain her a profit. If someone doesn't like that they are free to move on. I have never based my rates on anything other than what I have mentioned above, stick to your guns, :) all the best.

As an avid dog worshipper, as I more than love them, its hard to pick just one, but since pits are my very favorite breed I will say petey, from the little rascals, a 1930s series. Then it would be that Dogue de bourdeaux from the Tom hanks movie Turner and Hooch

I'm a bad mom, I've allowed one of my dogs to gain a whopping 4 lbs-that's like 50 to you or I. Because of this her knees have gotten worse and I'm pretty sure she'll need surgery, finding out tomorrow, poor thing.

I love to go for long walks/ hikes, so with the warmer weather I can get out for more of them. People are just happier it seems in sunny warmer weather, the streets are busier, lots of activity everywhere, it makes me feel more alive:)

Happy birthday Boom Boom. I hope your day was filled with joy :) I apologize boomer if the date is wrong I just finished reading the rest of this post and the last birthday wishes were 09/26-27/12 so I'm not sure if its an error bringing this post up today, or maybe you get two birthdays, lol. Either way have a great one:)

I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you for sharing.

Sorry got to this so late, wishing you a belated very Happy Birthday, may all your wishes and happy surprises come true:)

Yes he is a new Hobbiest, but alas we have a NEW TO THIS SECTION on a whole range of topics and subjects as well as etiquette. Posting a thread asking ladies what we think of BBBJ's? lets see here, if we don't like them we wont offer them. And who gives the best - that is like beauty - in the eye of the beholder....There is NO correct answer to this as this answer will vary depending on the person. I was in no way giving a public scolding, but if you can figure out how to make a post, you can also take an hour prior to posting anything and get knowledgeable in regards to things. While you make not take offence to the questions asked some of us do...And like yourself we have he right to post our opinions and thoughts as well. Emily, I just felt your response could have been friendlier, as this one could have been, jmo:). There are actually a couple of lines in this post that come across as sarcastic. Not trying to be argumentative just helpful and courteous, as I said he is new and as a newbie we should want him to feel comfortable posting not stupid for asking a question. The new to this section doesn't discuss questions pertaining to bbbjs or their appropriateness, so appropriate or not its allowed and yes so is your opinion, my opinion, his opinion and so on.:) I didn't suggest other wise. I simply thought the question could have been responded to in a friendlier, more welcoming way, even though I do appreciate that you took the time to post:). But to my main point which seems to be missed -why is it okay to ask who gives the best bj or the ultimate bj and no one takes offence to that? In fact that thread is thanked many times, lol. In the link I provided in my initial post, that whole thread discusses bjs and who is the best, so again is the offence because of a bbbj or the question itself, I still am not getting why one is okay and the other isn't. :) Thank you

Again I agree that the "best of" threads are unfair and subjective but my point again is that those who are referring to this being an inappropriate question are some of those who thanked and seemingly appreciated the best bj / ultimate bj thread, to me this is inappropriate and hypocritical. Can you like one and not the other, I suppose, as you can like what you choose but I just find it unfair. Yet again, just my point of view:) Also this is a new member, someone who isn't a seasoned hobbyist so perhaps it might have been nice to pm him as to appropriate questions instead of a somewhat public scolding. We all want new members to feel free to come here to enjoy and post. :) In his defense, if I were a newbie and I looked around this site and saw other posts saying this person is the best at, or is great at and many thanking them and ads outlining their talents and what they love, why would I think asking a question about the same subject inappropriate? Thanks for your input I hope you appreciate mine:)

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=118136 This thread on bj's received great enthusiasm, many thanks from sp's and no lectures how is this one different? He was asking a question just as the other thread did, I'm confused at the difference.

Well Tracie, your eyes definitely have it! As your avatar depicts. I close my eyes in order to concentrate on the feeling of the orgasm, although leading up to it I'm very visual and like to watch everything. Men have asked me many times to look up at them while giving them head, so I think a lot of men like the eye contact, is it a turn on for me, not really. I need to concentrate on one thing at a time, lol, so a lot of the time without thinking I might close mine . At the time its not something I think of, actually its hard to think in the throws of an orgasm, I just concentrate on the mind blowing experience and actually if I saw my own facial expressions I'd probably howl with laughter.

Congrats sweet man, you are a wonderful addition to this great community, wishing you wellness and much happiness. I look forward to your future contributions:)

While my mother doesn't drink, and would be mortified at the thought, she would agree to the sentiments of this sign, lol. Thanks OD for another good laugh.

May your day be extra special, Happy Birthday, and may you have many, many more:)

You should put a link to her ad. This is definitely a scam or a setup of some sort, why would someone leave anyone cash at anyplace other than her hand or on a table at her locale, why would she ask you to? It doesn't make sense, so you are right too be suspicious!

Well you could have a toads head and the body of a cow, I could care less. What I do like is a well dressed person, something very sexy about a well dressed person, and someone who exudes confidence, kindness and understanding- a well rounded person, someone who has their shit together is what I find the most attractive, looks fade, body's expand and shrink, our outer shell is just that a shell, what it houses is what I find most important. :)

Now now! Lol, What did we do again? :) Why is it all the foods I love are all the foods that are so bad for me:( Can't they make healthy junk food?-healthy junk food, now there's a blonde statement!

First and foremost, my mothers, it soothes me, its so soft and feminine. Loved my fathers as well, I try to replay it in my head over and over again. As to the famous ones, I'm a big fan of the older movies and always loved Henry Fonda's, also his daughter Jane Fonda, her voice is also wonderful. I'll also echo the sentiments of the others-Clint Eastwood, so sexy James Earle Jones, so strong and masculine Christopher Walken, just different, in a good way and of course- Cary Grant anyone with a Spanish accent-one of the sexiest-so I think:)

I think unless you know these ladies, have dealt with them before I wouldn't give them an email transfer, after all if you did then they have your money and all you have is their word that they'll meet with you at point a at such and such a time. I hate to suggest that you shouldn't trust anyone but on bp's you just never know.

Wishing you a special and a very happy birthday, welcome to cerb, enjoy:)

You are right Shannon there are many wonderful and generous cerb gents here. I have had the pleasure of receiving wine, cake, money, recos and compliments but the nicest gifts I've received are from the men who have generously and graciously donated to an animal shelter on my behalf, to them I am extra thankful:). However what ever the gentleman decides to give as a thank you I greatly appreciate, but never expect.

Wishing you a special and a very happy day

I come from a family full of redheads, love them. They are few and far between. I am another who says embrace what god gave you as you are original, exotic and rare! Yeah for red:)

I agree with your statement Meagan, the problem with stray cats is people think they are disposable and don't need to spay or neuter them, especially males. But unaltered male cats roam around impregnating the stray females and the cycle continues. They say there is a colony of over a thousand strays living in point pleasant park/Halifax alone. When are people going to take responsibility for their stupidity and recklessness? I believe to make a difference the laws have to change, people have to be punished more severely for cruelty and for being irresponsible owners, but then the politicians would have to do some work!!