CristyCurves

To the op of this thread I can understand the point of your post and as someone who knows Saint John well I didn't take it as you were putting the city down. Nor was I insulted by the poster who made the comment comparing it to a scenario from the office. Some people equate a city with their experiences and memories developed in it. If they had a good time it'll be a good city if not it won't be so great. Whats wrong with having different opinions? Some like Saint John some don't. We all should be able to discuss what we like and don't like and be humorous about it as well. Not all humor is funny to some either, but still we should be able to express it-shouldn't we:icon_biggrin:

For all of us who play and work in this field it's always best to stay on top of the laws, to know what is legal and illegal. The laws are easily explained when googled. I believe however if the police have anyone targeted they will get them, using whatever methods are available to them. But a sting is expensive and a big undertaking so they must have received alot of complaints to have warranted this latest one. Were the pictures the cop or just anyone, not sure. However I have heard of actual female officers interviewing at a service and then being hired. Then service then got busted, so as I said they can and will use whatever means to get who they set as their target, within the law. But I wouldn't become paranoid over this. As a hobbyist I think the only things to be concerned about would be dealing with someone underage, someone buying/selling drugs, someone who operates a visible very busy incall-avoid them and you should play without worry.

It is bad behavior fo sure and inappropriate. But I'm surprised it doesn't happen more. When I was a teen I was hit on all the time. I was taken to the outpitient once by my sister because of a bad cut and my sister had to put the doctor in his place as he was hitting on me, I was to naive to realize it. Alot of men think with their other head as he was doing and act stupidly, I think calling the police was over kill . He certainly deserved a scolding, the mother could have done that though.

perfect reason to always use protection

Beauty is certainly complicated, misunderstood and always criticized. It's funny how we are all trained somehow by our outward appearence as to how we perceive the world, others, how we cope with emotions, acceptance, how we judge-if we judge.Good looking people will realize their looks will open doors, average looking people will soon realize they have to be charming, witty, intelligent to open doors and those with intelligence will realize they can open their own doors. Our looks can be a blessing, a curse, certainly they are our first impression and sometimes the last. Lucky are those who have it all, looks, personality, intelligence and wit. But really what is more important? Well I suppose that depends on you. If you go to a bar the best looking girl will be the success there, in university, intelligence would be the important trait as well as personality. Although I'm sure looks will get some extra credits. If you walk into a crowded restuarant without a reservation, looks my win there as well and get you in. Walk into an upscale clothing store, looks will win out there as well. Applying for a new job, yes your credintials, experience will be the importan factors, lets hope, but depending on whos hiring, looks may win out there too. Yes our veneers are fleeting and short lived but certainly important to many. We are trained early on that anything "pretty" is better, nicer, the thing to be. It takes time, living, before most of us realize the shallowness of that. That personality, character and wit go alot further and are far more entertaining than just a glossy exterior.As someone who has never been attracted to goodlooks I still realize their importance and strengths. Lets face it we live in a shallow world, most are seeking beauty in one way or another. They either want it or to be around it so it is nice to see threads like this reminding us that there are some who see beyond it and do realize there is more to a person than their outer shell, especially here.

So many good points have been made, but a comment made concerning competion is one I don't understand. In this business there will always be someone prettier, slimmer, better built, smarter, funnier, more talented than me, you and her. But that doesn't make them competition it just makes them those things. No one can compete with anyone in this business as they'll never have what you have, what I have or what the next girl has and to get that- they-the gentleman has to visit with you, me or her. I can't understand looking at it any other way. Now there are some men who measure our worth by the size of our breasts or the beauty of our faces,ect,ect and they may compare but schmmmoosh to them, thats superficial, opinionated and plain stupid, jmo. If they are going to jump at the first girl that causes their eyes to bulge without doing any further investigations thats their mistake. It does take alot to be an sp but the biggest thing and one that should be first and formost is the sisterhood of it all, women sticking together, wanting to help each other and being supportive.We can all become great, beautiful, talented and in demand sp's if we stick together, advise, educate and promote oneanother. It is that simple.:biggrin:

Thank you for your contributions to this site, I always enjoy reading your posts, congradulations on the milestone.:bigclap:

Thank you for your post and honesty. This is the same issue I had with being a provider. I grew up in a very conservative family but have always wanted to do things that were less than conservative. But really I'm just trying to carve my own path and find my own way of living a happy existence. I worry less about being conventional now and I really don't want to fit in any mold anyway so society's way of thinking and my upbringing aren't the ways to happiness for ME. I now know thats alright, we are all different. The way I live may not be okay for someone else but they'll have to get over that. My goal is to find happiness, comfort, peace of mind and an ability to enable myself to live within my guidelines, not societys, and this profession has given that to me. It has also allowed me to understand men, especially my father better. I used to think that men who cheated were mean, selfish, thoughtless people, my father fooled around alot. Until I started in this profession, meeting and talking to many hobbyists. It became clear to me that needing that "extra" doesn't make a man those things at all it simply gives them a way to let go , to enjoy themselves and alot of times, someone to listen to their secrets that they can't tell anyone else. In fact I love my father more now, as I understand him better and instead of being angry with him for not being faithful to my mother, I empathize with the fact that he pobably felt the way you did, feeling confused, guilty, ect. I wish he were still here so I could tell him it's okay to seek something more. We all do in different ways. After all only when we are complete as a person can we add to anothers life, so live to your rules and be happy:biggrin:

I'm jealous! Thats my favorite breakfast, lol, or fave for any meal.

But what if the lady didn't accept texts, would you then call?

I don't mean to deflate your fantasy as perhaps there may be someone who may entertain your proposal. But I would think doing that would be a very big mistake for the sp. There is no way you could guarantee that you would not use it in a negative way( not saying that you would) other than a contract set up through a lawyer. Use your memory:), it's more discreet to keep things there.

I suspected as such. My issue with leaving my voice on my mesage is if someone you didn't want to know about this business were to call that would be a confimation of the fact. So I have an automated message for my discretion .Thanks for your response.

When calling an sp are you likely to leave a message if you get her voicemail. Does it hinder your decision to leave one if there is no voice, just an automated message?

Do you get hornier as the wether gets nicer and the days longer? I was surprised to find out after reading a study that woman are the ones that apparently become hornier during the spring, more specifically april/may. Apparently our female hormones are affected by light, so with more sunlight/longer days our engines start reving more. Men supposedly peak in august into the fall.Fall being specifically stated as their time. An interesting tidbit I thought. No wonder I'm wanting to work more:biggrin:

Happy birthday, wishing you a day full of fun, happ:biggrin:y memories and special moments

Exactly. When someone is willing to listen to you, to understand and get you that shows they care and appreciate you. We all need to feel that from time to time.

Thanks for your response. I don't think there will ever be a shortage of attention for women from men,lol. A man can apperciate a woman verbally in a nice way, without being condescending, derogatory,and ignorant. But lets hope there will be a shortage of the type of men I'm speaking about. When a man calling a woman "talent, or a piece of ass, machinery, ect, ect in conversation, or when he tells me I'm "his" for the hour is what I'm speaking about, I don't look at that as attention and if it is I'll be happy to do without it, but thats just me:icon_biggrin:. I don't flirt either but if I did I don't think that would encourage or discourage that type of man from thinking of woman the way they do.

Lol, just what my friend told me. But what do you do with the guys you run into in every day life that are like this? You can't turn them off, perhaps tune them out. But they just keep reappearing.

As someone who has made comments about loving a Mr. big I can also attest to loving cocks of all shapes and sizes. Size certainly does not guarantee a good time in bed I can attest to that as well. So to limit yourself is doing yourself a disfavor. Not all men are good at daty, some not at intercourse, no matter their equipment size, but there is always something that can be done that is fun and satisfying, especially when openly communicated between the participants. So no matter what your size go and play with confidence, we'll love you.

I messaged her to say that she was missed here and there were alot of men asking about her but I haven't received a response.

So I have recently fallen prey to the reality shows, particularly the kardashians. I was unerved when Scott -courtneys husband said she wasn't losing weight quick enough after having their second child. He said she was "his piece of machinery" so she should want to get back to her 93lb body. Jesus I wish I had been there! It doesn't happen just in this business-it- being guys who think we are just pieces of asses for their pleasure. What is wrong with these dick wads, yahoo's and ding bats.Where did their mothers go wrong. I know I probabbly shouldn't get so offended as I know they were probably just hit to hard with an idiot stick and don't know any better. I must say since I've been a cerb member I've been lucky and have only met respectful and appreciative gents, however I have, in my personal life, come across a couple of these yahoos. So I guess the point of this thread is to thank the good guys and ask them to reach out to those ding bats, dick wads and yahoos and show them how real men respond to and talk to women.

So sorry to hear this but very thankful you are okay. Glad to hear you'll be back very soon, best wishes.

As a steadfast loner I seldom feel loneliness, or so I think. But I will say when I lost my father I started to have the feeling of being alone. Like my connection to something, anything had been severed. So perhaps I'm fooling myself, maybe this is loneliness.When a loved one passes a part of you leaves with them and the feeling of a "safety net" does as well. Thats the best way I can put it. We all need a reason to live, being loved is the biggest one imo, so if and when you lose that you can begin to question yourself, feel unexpected feelings, all in all it's very nice to have someone, a stranger reach out in understanding by writing threads like this, so thank you Nathalie, please accept my virtual hug. To anyone else that is feeling like they need one heres one for you too:)

That I can no longer eat anything I want and like a pig as it is starting to show, boo hoo. Oh well more of me to love.:biggrin:

You brought up a very good point, thank you, the 3 days, thats exactly what a naturopath told me that it takes about 3 days to rid your system of sugar, to stop the craving. This is day 2 ugg.