CristyCurves

Oh by the title I thought there was a new sex toy out, lol. But a great subject to bring up, thank you. I always felt soley responsible for giving a man the "time of his life". Causing a bit of stress for myself before each meeting. I especially felt extra pressure to do this when meeting someone new as I thought it would leave a bad mark on my name if I didn't, which I now know isn't fair to myself. I finally realized as you said, that it takes two. No matter how talented one is or how many tricks you have up your sleeve you'll never be able to "create the perfect experience" if the other preson isn't engaged, if the chemistry isn't there, if the mood of either person or both is off, if there is an interuption of any kind,ect,ect,so many things factor into making a wonderful experience,wonderful. It is rather silly to think you can just lay back and expect someone to push all your buttons and make something happen without you "working" as well.

May all your loved ones make you feel extra special today. Enjoy your special day.

It is found everywhere and so addictive. I am one of it's victims. Some may wonder why as I'm already sweet enough! LOL, just kidding. But seriously, lately I have been consuming more and more, which is apparently what you do, you eat it and it causes you to want more. I was shocked to discover my favorite soda-stewarts- is laden with it. A whopping 41 grams-9teaspoons+ in one 12oz-355ml bottle! I've been drinking at least 2 a day, plus all the other products it's hidden in. Canned soups, pasta sauces, salad dressings, ketchup, bread, cereals, the list goes on and on. It really is a poison, feeds cancer, robs our skin of it's youth, creats inflamation in the body-promoting disease, drains your energy, and that list goes on and on. So why would anyone want to eat it? Well because it makes everything taste better. But now, finally, I am publically vowing to give it up, anyone else want to join me or vent about sugar?

I had no more rep points:( all the posts are hilarious, and deserve some, fun thread too.Thanks for the laughs preparation h adult diapers drain plug

I agree with pistol, it makes you unique and appreciate him for loving the whole package. It takes alot of confidence and courage to be different, walk your own path and to wear what isn't often thought to be the "norm". I don't want to offend anyone who is creative enough to add colors such as blue, green, purple, ect but I don't know of any myths pertaining to them. Thanks for bringing it up.:icon_biggrin:

Lets face it every color has it's myths. Blondes" have more fun" and not very bright. Brunettes are the "girl next door" and more exotic. Redheads are "fiesty" and short tempered. But when you see a blonde most are brunettes, reds are sometimes blondes, brunetts are sometimes reds, ect, ect. So is it all in our heads, an esthetic preference or are their truth in some myths? Are you attracted to someone intially because of hair color? Or is it about the total package.

There is such a variety.Boots,over the knee, thigh high,latex, leather, heels, wedges,stilettoes, maryjanes, mules.Flats to sky high. Do you think shoes are an important part of your sp's attire, do they add to the session, and if so what are your favorites and why. I prefer a high heel platform or mule. I think they are hot, naughty looking, add height, obviously,leg length and an aura of sex. Hence the saying "come fuck me shoes"

The only thing that causes me fear is losing a loved one-pet or person-

Happy birthday I hope your day is special, filled with fun, surprises, friends, family and a good boink-enjoy! Remember we don't get older-we get better.

Thanks Notchy, hilarious and made my day. Poor guys but thats what happens when you think with your little head,lol.

So I've read the laws concerning protistution over and over but still fail to get gist of the soliciting end. Are we or are we not soliciting when we place our ads inviting gentlemen to come and enjoy "this and that" ?Also is it a bad idea do you think to have on a web page services provided and rates? Thanks in advance to those who kindly reply:icon_biggrin:

This is a very interesting topic but I would say that you could since I believe morals are what cause some laws to be enacted so generally I would say it is morals that govern "us". But personally I'm a bit of a rebel who doesn't agree with alot of the laws, and I live by my own code of ethics not seeing things as most do this causes me to wonder do I live by neither? This is a question I can't answer,,,hmmm

I appreciate your point and agree about your pedophiles comment. But when a man is going to hobby he needs to know the laws and rules just as we sp's need to. The law concerning protistution in this case considers dealing with a 16 year old exploitive sex, which is illegal and alot feel immoral as most adults feel 16 is a child, I do. Why would any man of maturity, 25 or over as the charged men were, want to be with someone so young? Legally it isn't pedophilia but morally it is, jmo. When an adult deals with a child to many bad things can happen, experience can be used to manipulate a young mind and coherce them into doing things they may not want to do ,are prepared to do or should even consider doing. I think the point of 16 being the age of consent is mute in this case. But I appreciate your point.

Interesting , I've never heard of it, has it ever been here in the east-Halifax at least? As I've never heard it advertised, it is something I'd like to go to, at least once.

Founded to bring awareness to and to help stop bullying. Do you think there has been progress? If not what more do you think can be done to stop it?

:biggrin:Thank you Notchy-it doesn't get better than that. We need to see those types of messages more often to be reminded that society will thrive when people respond to one another that way.

I can only say I'm sorry for your frustration. Irresponsibilty from an sp or a client is never acceptable. To ignore an appointment without a proper cancellation or a reasonable explanation is very unprofessional . Just keep trying we are not all like that. Most sp's value dearly their clients or soon to be clients, without them where would we be.

I think using it is common courtesy. As I feel anyone that takes time to respond to your thread should be thanked and anyone who posts relevant, thoughtful, or thought provoking responses should be given rep points and anyone who posts something poignant, learned, clever,ect should be given a nomination.No matter how you see a post I think the person took the time to either create the thread, respond to a thread so they deserve a response of some sort, wether rep points, thanks or a nomination,jmo.:icon_biggrin:

Yes those types of responses are the most annoying aspect of dealing with a certain type of client. Also when the same type of yahoo compares one sp to another, saying she charges x amount why do you charge x amount. No one is the same nor is anyones services. We all determine our fees based on many factors and it is nobodys right or business to question or criticize them. I had a yahoo come to me a while ago and complain that there was no talent in Nova Scotia and that we all charge to much. To this day I regret not using my mouth as I usually do, putting him in his place. I should have used my foot that day too!

Lobster and prime rib, making surf and turf dinner for a dear friend and my dogs,lol.

Some may think my statement harsh but if you know you are dealing with a 16 yr old you deserve prosecution, thats a child. In my opinion 18 is to young, but thats just me. I know in Canada you are considered an adult at 18 but that is still a teenager, so is 19 . It is alot to expect teens to deal with adults in their 30's,40's, 50's and beyond. Although I realize everyone matures differently I can only think back when I was a teen and I know I wasn't an exception to how immature and unprepared they can be.

All i want is a day with more than 24hrs... where does the time go!

I think threads like this are more important than we even realize as self acceptance is first and formost in becoming a well rounded human being, hence living a healthy productive life. So if you are a parent teach your children messages like this, confidence, acceptance of themselves and others, to love because anything that is loved unconditionally will emit beauty. Share these lessons, messages and thoughts as they can never be told and seen to often. I too am a beliver in the power of the media to convolute the minds of the weak, not unlike a bully who demeans a vulnerable victim and causes them to think they are unfit as they are and need to conform to something "ideal". There is nothing more beautiful than a confident person, it truly is a persons best asset.

It says alot about a persons character when they step up to the plate without needing to . Thank you to those, who after the year and a half plus since I've been here, who have given their advice, offered their assitance and instuction when I am trying to figure out how to post or tripping over my tongue or just sending their kind words you all should know your kindnesses have helped reafirm my faith in people, strengthened my self confidence, made me feel like I belong and they will always be appreciated and remembered:icon_biggrin:

:bigclap:Congradulations to you notch, Phaedrus, Gabriella on reaching 3000.