Royalfun

Very well said, OD. I can't see how "Temporary love" would be less than eternal love. Love is love, and even if it's in a moment, it is something that becomes eternal, in the sense that nothing can erase that. In my own experience, living the present is all that matters; even if you are deeply in love with your SO, or in an encounter with a Lady, the relationship has to be lived in the present; the past remains the past, and tomorrow does not exist... yet. The three values you have mentioned should be the bases of any relationship. IMHO, this hobby would be meaningless for me if these values were not there. And I consider, when it is shared with a SP, that it is a real gift of life, a precious one that has to be cherished like a treasure.