Royalfun

This a interesting thread. Relationships are part of our daily lives, and we entertain so many different levels with so many people. For instance, when we go regularly to the bank, the bank director or the bank clerk may "know" you and a mutual nice and warm kind of relationship can happen, in a more "personal' way. It's the same with a co-worker where we can develop a very nice and, in a way, a profound relationship that goes over the strict purpose of the job. It may also lead to a personal friendship. It may most of the time end when the job, the purpose is over. Real friendship, the one that goes over a purpose, a job, a reason, is rare and, and in a way, a gift of life. But it is rare. I'm not saying that a friendship between a Sp and a Hobbiest is not possible, but it's a rare thing, and we cannot expect that because we develop a true connection within this hobby that this will lead to real friendship. And the true connection is a crucial part of the relationship between a SP and a hobbiest; without this kind of connection where would be the pleasure to hobby ? And one of the specificity of this hobby is to have a sexual encounters without the commitment between the two persons. So we are in the middle of a paradox; at the same time we want a connection, and we don't want it. I look forward to hear from others, either SPs and hobbiest on this thread.

Nolte, Nick

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Zimbalist Stephanie (Remington Steele)

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