loopie

Yes, I have had friends with benefits, and I still have sex with some of my former sweethearts with no expectation that we are getting back together. I don't have any problems with it. It's a good time. I fully endorse this product.

I'm glad we can all agree on Shakira as the sexiest. I probably would've put Beyonce at #2. I'm also happy to see Pink on there. I really dig tomboys. Britney just doesn't do anything for me, I'm not really into the cheerleadery types, but I get that that is a big fantasy for most guys. And I mostly find Katy Perry annoying. But as far as these types of lists go, I'd say that's a good one. As far as old school hot music chicks, I'll go with Joan Jett. I also rubbed a few out to Samantha Fox back in the day.

What do you sex trade workers consider your goal for this industry and what do you consider to be the biggest obstacle in getting there?

I can't tell whether this is Lady Gaga or not.

I think the important thing is that the SP feels comfortable and respected as a professional. If you happen to be a great lover, that's a bonus.

Bjork

I also consider the terms 'prostitute' or 'sex trade worker' to be neutral and I generally expect the media to use neutral terms instead of slang or euphamisms. And even though I am a client/consumer in the sex trade, I never think of the term 'service provider' in a sexual context other than when I am on this site. Honestly, if a buddy of mine told me had a service provider coming over to his place, I would assume he was having a telephone line installed or something.

Even though I have been in this hobby for over a year, I am always going to be a somewhat reserved person. I think walking into a room fully naked is a bit much for me. Plus, there's frequently a bit of talk before getting physical and I would feel weird sitting there buck naked trying to have a casual get-to-know-you chitchat. I guess I'm just so used to people asking me what I do for a living first and then seeing my dong as opposed to the other way around. So, if I take a shower at an SP's place, I will exit the shower with the towel around the waist.

Thank you all for your advice on how to exit the shower. I appreciate it.

So far in my experiences with SPs, I have always been able to shower immediately before leaving to go meet her. So I've never showered at an SP's incall. I have a question about exiting the shower: What is the best/standard way to do this? Should I put my clothes back on? Or come out with the towel tied around my waist? Or come out full naked?