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I send them a bill for the video rental. Then it's off to small claims court where everybody hollers my name like Norm on Cheers.

With so many redhead lovers on this board I am surprised to find no discussion for this lovely-looking lady, Marijka: I noticed her some time ago and have kept her in mind as somebody I would like to meet. However I am a bit hesitant because her ads all insist that you communicate through texting, which I don't really like because I have a hard time getting a feel for a girl's personality through texting. And there are no recos for her. I was wondering if any of our resident redhead lovers had been with her and if he would care to share about her? Thanks

Lately I have been fantisizing about being an interior decorator and getting to do cool concept rooms and lounges for themed hotels like you would find in those artsy hotels in Denmark or in themed casino hotels in Las Vegas. So if any of you who dream of openning a B&B want themed rooms, gimme call. I would just love to come up with neat rooms, make them, look at them for a few minutes, take a photo, and then move on. That would be awesome.

The song is autobiographical from Slean. According to her, she was involved with a married man who strung her along but then ultimately broke it off with her and stayed with his wife. I love Sarah Slean. I've seen her several times. The last time was a few months ago at the NAC. I was sitting like 10 feet away from her. She sang to me making really intense eye contact and I blushed like a little girl.

I'm sure you will enjoy your research. But now that I think of it, I was with one large-breasted SP who did not specify that she was all natural. All the other large-breasted SPs I have been with have all claimed to be all natural by saying so in their adds. I realize implants come in all sizes and that there are women with average or even small breasts that are implants. It just seems to be the larger breasted SPs who make a point of stating in their ads whether they are natural or enhanced. Like I said, it is to my knowledge that I have never been with a women with breasts implants. If I have been with a woman with breasts implants, then I couldn't tell the difference.

Your little travel memoir was very written. Thank you for sharing. My family is from Germany and I go back there a fair bit. Your account of things seems to match what most people say about how most of the sex trade workers in Germany and Austria usually aren't Germans or Austrians, they're mostly Eastern European. I will be in Hamburg later this year, which is supposed to have the biggest red light district in Germany. I'm not sure if I will indulge in the sex trade while on vacation this time or not. Usually when I'm on holiday I'm busy and tired from doing regular tourist stuff and visiting people. But we'll see.

I've been in this hobby since August 2011, so not very long. I've seen about 12 different women. All the women I've seen who had bigger breasts have made a point of stating that their breasts were natural. You are correct that there is no shortage of women with enhanced breasts in this hobby, I just haven't got around to seeing any of them yet.

This is something I actually want to try in this hobby. To my knowledge, I've never felt an enhanced breasts before. At some point in this hobby I would like to be with a woman with enhanced breasts just to know what they feel like etc.

I always clean up before a rendezvous (shower, brush teeth, trim nails). I used to ask SPs if they had a preference when it came to cleanshaven versus peachfuzz, but they never expressed any preference so I usually go with my peachfuzz because it helps me look older than 12, and there's always the chance the SP's a big Miami Vice fan. I met one lady who had a little station set up in the loo and she asked that all her clients rinse with mouthwash and Purell their hands. I was happy to oblige; and I was impressed by how much she valued her health and cleanliness.

I know most SPs aren't like the bad experience I described. The situation I described was really the only one truly lousy experience I've had in this hobby. The thing is, I don't want to have an experience like that again, so it's just something I now know to ask about when looking to meet an SP. And like I said, I think I will mostly stick to meeting SPs in hotels to avoid such a situation happening again. In hotels both the SP and I seem to feel safe and comfortable. So they're pretty ideal. Plus I live downtown and so there's a good selection of SPs who work out of hotels within walking distance of my home. I would never expect an SP to do anything that made her feel unsafe or uncomfortable, and on the flip side I also won't do anything that makes me feel unsafe or uncomfortable. So if an SP and I can't reach an arrangement where we both feel safe and comfortable, then there's no hard feelings (no pun intended) it's just not meant to be.

The worst experience I've had with an SP was because of the incall, not the girl herself. Her incall was her apartment, which was a decent enough apartment, but the problem being she shared with a roomie. The roomie was there in the next room watching some annoying sitcom really loud and laughing. At the ad breaks the roomie would turn down the sitcom and I think she was eavesdropping on the SP and I. Then the roomie started moving furniture or something. The SP's telephone also rang no less than 15 times in 40 minutes with an annoying ringtone. I realized I just wasn't going to get into it with all these distractions and this feeling that I was being listened to through the door, so I left very early. And of course, the roomie made sure to be hovering around in the corridor as I left so she could get a look at me. So after that experience, I now try to see SPs who work in hotels. Hotels all have everything I need to feel comfortable and are generally clean. If an SP told me her incall was a private residence I would make sure that we would be alone in the residence together. And I would prefer that SPs put their telephones on silent mode during our time together. Other than that, some SPs I've been with have made an effort with mood lighting and music, and I appreciate those touches.

I am a happy guy who has lived a great life full of fun and good times. I honestly don't think I've suffered a day in my life. I wish other people the good fortune I've experienced. I try to spread good cheer and make life fun and interesting for those around me, except that there aren't that many people around me. I live alone and work alone. I mostly get my work by email. Sometimes I worry that I am becoming socially inept by lack of human contact. I go multiple days without actually saying anything to anybody and sometimes getting the part of my brain that communicates verbally going again takes a moment. But I do what I want. I travel a lot, make an effort to learn new things, take courses, excercise, go to the cinema at least weekly, go to lots of concerts, swim, and eat well. Life's a joy and I'm only getting started.

I've woken up to 'Shine On You Crazy Diamond' by Pink Floyd for about 6 years now. I seriously thought I would have changed the CD or at least the track in my CD alarm clock by now, but I seem to be happy with it. I am in a perpetual good mood, so maybe starting you day with that song is key to happiness.

Quebec City

I would like to make my own chess set.

There's that topless bicycle pack that come around in Ottawa every summer. To me, women hunched over the handlebars bicycling isn't so much sexy as it is funny. So I just laugh at the novelty of it. It sorta looks like something out of Monty Python.

You're a lovely lady, Cleo. And you make this a better place to be. Congrats.

Since starting in this hobby, this is something I've wondered about. If I was just at the grocery store or whatever and saw an SP that I recognized from this website but had never been with, I definitely wouldn't do anything. It would just be one of those "small world" moments. I figured if I ran into an SP I had been with, I would let her initiate any greeting or smalltalk or whatever because, as you ladies have said, you don't share this side of your life with everybody and I wouldn't want to potentially embarass an SP in front of her friends and family by putting her in a position where she would have to explain how she knows me and why I'm calling her by her professional name.

I relate most to Winnie the Pooh. A nice easygoing guy who likes to eat and nap but always gets the job done.

I do wonder about this. Every time I start thinking of myself as a wealthy guy I read something like this and it makes me realize just how not in the 1% I am. I remember reading about that American politician, Eliot Spitzer, dropping tens of thousands of dollars on prostitutes in a year and I wondered just how a married guy making a public servant's wage managed to make 50K disappear without his wife noticing. "Oh, that 50 thousand dollars? I, um, bought a couple of rounds for the guys when we watched the game the other night." No disrespect to the services you ladies provide, but I ever find myself paying 50K for one night's entertainment it better include firing my own Death Star and dessert.

I do think it's important to have social programs that help people leave abusive situations. I agree with the program these police officers were implementing. The police in this reporting were not anti-sex trade, they were anti-abuse, and so am I. However I don't like how it lumped the sex trade and abusive situations together like they were inseperable. You can work in the sex trade without being abused, extorted and controlled. You can also be abused, extorted and controlled in a million other ways outside of the sex trade. I'm sure the world is full of abusive men who do nothing all day and live off of their girlfriends/wives who are waitresses, lawyers, bureacrats, and any other profession you can name. So it definitely muddled the issues. And of course, I really disagreed with that Natsha Falle who ran the program for women exiting the sex trade. Saying that all johns have no respect for women is such an absurd blanket statement that it doesn't even deserve a rebuttle.

Kate Winslet is my answer to most questions.

Honestly, I don't envy women in this department at all. If women hollered at me in the street or oogled my package in long creepy leers I would hate it. The most direct a woman can be without intimidating me is to just be friendly and smiley etc. I realize this is a bit strange coming from somebody who participates in hobby where I have sex with a woman less than five minutes after meeting her, but I actually like to take things slow and get to know each other. If a woman came at me with some really sexual pickup line, it would just make me uncomfortable.

People resent prostitution because it forces them to confront the illogical, outdated, petty, and repressed attitudes they have about sex, love, family, and relationships. So rather than confront or examine their own ideas, they just bash whatever challenges those beliefs. There is no logical arguement against prostitution.