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    I think Luxie makes a key distinction. Not being sexually attracted to people of a certain ethnicity doesn't make you racist. I don't think people can force themselves to become attracted to somebody they don't find attractive. Race is just another physical characteristic. If somebody tells me they're only attracted to one race, I don't see that as being any different from only liking one body type or one hair colour. But if you can't accept that other people will form mixed-race couples, then yes, you are a racist (and you might be redneck). I also agree with Luxie that it is rude to hang up on anybody. If you call an escort and ask her about herself and she doesn't sound like what you want, you should just politely say "Thanks, but you're just not what I'm looking for." and end the call.
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    There's lots of women who get better looking with age (well, up to a point). I always fancied Kate Winslet, and found she actually got even better looking in with time. Same goes for Juliette Binoche, she was cute when she was freshfaced and in her 20s, but she's really more stunning in her 40s.
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    I really love car movies and driving video games even though I don't like cars or driving in real life and hope to never even own one. I saw DRIVE on Friday and it is a really good crime movie about a getaway car driver. It is both thrilling and romantic in a Michael Mann type of way. It seems somewhat inspired by the old Walter Hill film THE DRIVER which starred Ryan O'Neil. If you haven't seen that overlooked classic, you should definately check it out. I think the car chase in RONIN is still the king of the mountain.
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    Barbarella, she ain't queen of the galaxy for nothin'.
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    No, I don't have any bitter feelings towards any of my exes. In fact, I get along well with all of them. My question: Would you be willing to sign up for three years of "Quantum Leap"ing where every month you would be placed in a new person's body but retain your own mind? You would have no control over who's body you would be placed in next. The only thing you would gain from your host's mind would be language, for example, if you were placed in the body of a Japanese man, you would instantly be fluent in Japanese.
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    Kissing is the best. I think I like it more than anything, and I like it almost every way and everywhere you can do it. My favorites are to kiss a woman's mouth (obviously), neck, and breasts. Sucking the bottom lip a bit is really nice. The only thing that doesn't really interest me is feet. I've never been a foot guy. I know some dudes love sucking toes and kissing feet, I just don't get it. Kissing has so many different levels. It can be soft and sweet or strong and masterful. I could just kiss forever. I think it really is the best way to judge chemistry with someone. If you kiss well together, nothing else should be a problem. Well....I mean in terms of physical chemistry. I'm not saying if you kiss well together you'll have an easy time planning a household budget and raising kids or whatever.
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    I like smart women who are calm, relaxed, and content. I find women more attractive when they look natural and comfortable. The less makeup the better. And I actually prefer short tomboyish haircuts, but almost every guy I know likes long hair on a woman. And no need for outfits that you can't even move in. Something comfortable but feminine is the best. Ideally, I like to spend time together outside. Even if it's just going for a walk, it's nice to just be outside together. It's nice to warm up to each other by holding hands, putting your arm around each other as you go for a walk, exchanging glances and light kisses, and then get more intimate when you come back home. The more foreplay the better. I love all kissing. Kissing a woman's neck and breasts is really nice. Sucking her bottom lip. Even just rubbing my face against her neck or the side of her face. I love soft skin. Feeling her thighs and bum with my hands is great. Embracing is good too. I love feeling a woman's hands on my back pulling me into her. Eye contact is always a great. I like it when a woman smiles at me with genuine warmth.
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    I like tattoos on women when they cover most of their bodies and look like some Erro painting or a Where's Waldo book. It feels like a complete work of art, or maybe I just admire the commitment. Either way, I like that totally inked look. For example, I find this very attractive: I am less attracted to a few small symbols scattered about the body. Like when a girl will have a small zodiac sign on her ankle and then maybe a small Canadian leaf on her upper shoulder and that's it. Sometimes it can look like a half-empty stickerbook. At best, that look is more of a neutral for me. On guys, I dunno. Some guys can look cool with them. I would likely not get one myself because I never really like to have symbols or messages on me. I never wore t-shirts with messages and don't even like wearing clothes with obvious logos. It's just not how I express myself. The funny thing being I wanted to learn tattooing and do it on the side because I'm pretty good with visual arts and would like to paint on other people. But I figured nobody would want to get a tattoo from a guy who didn't have any himself.
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    I always wanted to be able to sing well. I walk around singing all the time even though I am dreadful. I wouldn't want to actually be a professional singer and perform on stage or anything, I'd just like to sound nice when I'm riding my bike around on a summer's day singing some song to myself.
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    I went through this too when I was in my mid-twenties. I found a lot of my friends' mentality just switched as soon as they became married couples. They instantly became destructively possessive of each other. A lot of my male friends' wives would stop them from ever hanging out with single guys. I think the idea was that us single guys would encourage bad behaviour or make them long for their bachelor days. In my case that's pretty ridiculous because it's not like I'm some party animal who constantly goes on crazy strip club benders or something. I just go to the movies and go for bike rides 'n stuff. And a lot of my female friends' husbands didn't like some dude hanging around their wife because they think he's trying to get in her pants. My best friend is a woman and she lies to her husband when she goes for a pint with me. It's so silly. At work and with my friends, I constantly get people trying to diagnose what's "wrong" with me because I'm still single. Sometimes it's with a flattering tone, as if to say they think I'm a "good catch", but other times it's with this tone that they're almost suspiscious that I have something deeply wrong with me and it's insulting. If I met a great woman with whom I had a good rapport, common interests, goals, and outlook, I would have no trouble committing to her, but I'm not going to settle for a bad relationship.
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    My favorite visual artist is Erro. I actually took a trip to his homeland of Iceland to see the gallery where they house most of his works. It's really trippy stuff with great detail.
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    I actually never thought about the whole world of escorts or sex trade workers until I read this book called 'Paying For It: A Comic-Strip Memoir About Being a John' by Chester Brown. I read it because I like the cartoonist's other books, but it turned me on to this whole world. I really recommend this book. He goes through what a lot of you guys have mentioned in your posts. He details his final relationship with a real girlfriend and then his thought process as he becomes comfortable with idea of paying a professional and then the nervousness of meeting that first girl. He is open about his lifestyle with his friends, many of whom judge him for it. He has many debates with the people in his life and the book becomes a pretty good analysis of our concepts of romantic love and sex. Anyway, it was this book that got me to try this, and I am very glad I did. I guess I was in the same boat as many of you. I'd love to find true love. It would be great to find someone with whom I have a great rapport and fall in love, build a life together etc. But I kinda doubt that is going to happen for me. I'm a shy person, and with age it doesn't really get easier to meet new people. I also have standards. I have lots of friends who get into or stay in bad relationships simply to be with someone and it just seems so dishonest and miserable. I'm not like that. So being with escorts is an excellent way for me to experience intimacy and affection in a way that I find more honest.
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    A lot of artists I like had finished their careers or slowed down by the time music videos became a big deal. I often wonder what kind of videos would've accompanied their songs. David Bowie's video for 'I'm Afraid of Americans' was pretty cool and it made me wonder what he would've done with the artform if it had been around during his real heyday. Same goes for Pink Floyd. I know they made that movie of The Wall, but I wonder what individually crafted videos would've been like for their songs. Same with The Beatles, who had their Yellow Submarine movie, I wonder what their music videos for their songs would've been like. As for artists who really did awesome things with music videos, I would say Bjork is the queen of the mountain. A lot of her videos are directed by Michel Goundry who has done some really cool things with film as well. He directed Eternal Sunshine On The Spotless Mind and Where The Wild Things Are. Bjork: http://youtu.be/d8x3kIhRUks http://youtu.be/CrYI70aMC_c http://youtu.be/8DcDmfGL-w0
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    Rachelle Bed 2purple w
    You look so soft and inviting.
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    getting everything squeaky clean
    Wow, nice shot of you body.
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    just waiting for you

    loopie commented on JodyWild's gallery image in Converted Albums

    just waiting for you
    I doubt you have to wait very long.:icon_wink:
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    loopie commented on Kennidikummings's gallery image in Converted Albums

    Really nice. Deep sexy stare.
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    loopie commented on Kennidikummings's gallery image in Converted Albums

    Now that's nice. Very classy.
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