loopie
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I think there's a big difference between an unpopular opinion and a forbidden one. You can have freedom of speech. But media outlets are under no obligation to broadcast your opinion. Universities are under no obligation to host you and give you an audience. Other individuals are no obligation to listen to you ramble. A lot of people with unpopular outlooks will try to make it seem as though their freedom of expression is under attack as a method of either avoiding realizing how unpopular their opinion is, or as a method of trying to rally support for their opinion by trying to ride the coat tails of a more popular belief. And people picking their priorities doesn't have anything to do with rights. If popularity is more important to you than asserting your opinion, you will choose not to voice any unpopular opinions you may have. That doesn't mean freedom of speech isn't available to you, you just chose popularity over honesty/integrity, that's all.
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Okay, but what would that involve? How much grovelling would it take for you to believe that they'd "accepted responsibility"? Or is there some other act they could do that would convince you that they had learned their lesson? I think for a lot of people, the answer is that nothing will ever convince them that these guys are trustworthy. And for those people, my question was that since these guys aren't going to jail, what do we(as a society) do with them?
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I have one question for all of you are saying that these guys should never be allowed to be dentists: What profession should they be allowed in? Since the one thing we can all agree on is that these guys haven't broken the law, they aren't criminals and therefore not going to prison. They will remain in society and they have to go somewhere, so where do they go? They will want jobs, you say they can't be dentists, what can they be? Is a possible-rapist cashier acceptable? How about a possible-rapist bus driver? Or a possible-rapist gardener? Do any of those options actually make you feel safer or that your moral outrage is more satisfied? Or have you thought that far ahead? Women are everywhere. If one of these guys is determined to rape a woman, not becoming a dentist isn't going to stop him. As a free citizen he will have the opportunity to find women. I'm sincerely asking this question. I find whenever the media is presenting its villain of the week like this, everybody is quick to say that whatever is being done isn't enough, but it just makes me wonder what they would think is enough.
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I used this agency once and the incall location was a nice condo downtown.
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A lot of the problem is that people who identify as feminists are now very divded on certain issues. Sexuality is one of them. Many of you have already pointed out that it's somewhat baffling that a woman who chooses by her own free will to profit handsomely from her sexuality can be painted as a victim. But there do seem to be plenty of self-proclaimed feminists who feel that any time a woman is sexualized, she is being exploited; that sexuality is implicitly degrading. An even trickier issue is ethics. Feminists want to see women achieve success and prominence in business and politics. However, the ways men achieved so much power in these fields are frequently seen as unethical. So there's a conflict of values. As a feminist, it might make you happy to see a woman as a wealthy CEO of giant company. However, it might offend you that to reach that level of success she had to resort to unethical tactics such as exploiting third world child labour to produce cheaper goods, using environmentally destructive materials and production methods, dishonest adverstising, union busting, bribing politicians, not paying her share of taxes etc.
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I caught 'Whiplash' and thought it was a really solid drama with excellent performances from the two leads. It's about a teenage drummer in a highly competitive arts academy and the intense dynamic between he and his ruthless instructor. I found it a really engaging drama.
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I don't think it's a lack of funds, free time, or sexual freedom that's holding back the sex trade from evolving to have more male escorts serving female clients. I think there are couple main gender indentity mindsets that stand in the way. I think our society still has it deeply ingrained that men pursue women and that's how it works. Men are told to pursue women, and seeing a prostitute is another form of that. A man seeing a female prostitute fits with the traditional gender roles that men have the power of initiation and women have the power rejection. Even women who would be considered "empowered modern women" frequently still prefer the man to take the lead in romance. Their romance and sex fantasies revolve around a man pursuing her, not the other way around. I've known countless women who will never make the first move, even if she fancies a man. And going to see a prositute is making a big first move. I think personal safety is also more of a concern for women. Telling nobody where you're going to be alone with a total stranger goes against the safety precautions women are taught since childhood. Men are always told that they can handle themselves and men don't typically fear violence from women. Also, I think women's insecurities get the way of them having sex more than men. A lot women say that they don't have sex because they don't feel sexy. They're embarssed about how they look naked etc. This doesn't seem to be as big an issue for men. These are just some thoughts. I don't mean to offend anybody and I certainly don't think these stereotypes apply to everybody, but I do feel they are factors in why the sex trade is the way it is.
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I saw Dina and thought she was excellent. She is very beautiful. She has a nice dark Mediterranean look and takes good care of herself. Her personality is more the cool calm professional type. Dina told me she is looking to build a regular clientele, and her professionalism shows. She took time to ask me what I wanted and how I wanted it before we got started, which I appreciate. She did everything I asked, and did it all incredibly well. Dealing with Mirage as an agency was easy. Their telephone operators were friendly and the incall location was nice. Everything went smoothly and I had a great time.
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I saw 'Nightcrawler' last night and really liked it. Jake Gyllenhaal plays a creepy weirdo who gets into the world of independent news footage gathering. He scans police frequencies and goes to sites of crimes and disasters, films them, and sells the footage to local news shows. It doesn't take long before he starts manipulating events to make them more sensational. The movie has a lot of good tense scenes and some dark humour. Gyllenhaal's performance reminded me a lot of DeNiro as Rupert Pupkin in 'The King of Comedy'. He's definitely not a likeable character, so if you require a movie to have a likeable protagonist in order to enjoy it, then stay away from this one. But for everybody else, I would definitely recommend this one.
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I look for this basic information: -rates -availability (when she plans on working) -location (not a specific address, but a part of town is enough) -photos to see if I find her physically attractive -her age (or at least her age group) -how to contact her As for what she writes about her personality and service, I look for women who seem friendly, warm, and down to earth. I like a bit of humour. I'm not usually looking for the wild porn star types or the really raunchy ads, but lots of guys are. But you shouldn't write what you think clients want to hear. You should market yourself honestly. Write about the service you want to provide. Design your ads and website in a way that reflects your personality. There's demand for all types of women and if you market yourself honestly, then you'll attract clients who will enjoy your service. You'll have a better time, they'll have a better time, and your business will grow. That being said, read your clients' recommendations. See how clients describe you in words. Maybe they like something about you that you didn't even realize was attractive. You can incorporate some of that into your advertising. As for photos, again, honesty is the best policy. I generally become distrustful when the only photos an SP has are really dark, grainy, low resolution selfies that are all shot way too close and/or smothered in photoshop filters. Clarity is important. I think some guys dig the glamour of professional photo shoots. I just want a clear idea of who's going to open the door when I go to see her. I like to see a well-lit photo shot from a distance that I can see more than 25% of her body in decent resolution with no effects. Hope this helps! -
I really liked 'Her', too. Most people I talk to absolutely hated it, though. I guess it's one of those very divisive films.
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Jessy Celeste would probably fit your bill. She's in her 30's, toned physique, and is quite versatile in offering different services including fetish stuff. She works very often, so it shouldn't be hard finding a time to see her. I've seen her many times and think she's great. She is very well-reviewed here on CERB. Her rates are excellent. I'd recommend her.
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The hobby and your relationship?
loopie replied to whiteman's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I got into this lifestyle after being single for several years. I don't really feel this lifestyle is anything life a relationship, so I don't see it as a substitute for one. I get different things from this lifestyle than I do from a relationship. It's probably because I always try to date women with whom I feel a true friendship. Good looks and sex appeal aren't very important to me when dating, I am thinking about longer term compatability. I'm looking for a companion. When looking for an SP, I am thinking far shorter term and with my dick. It's a sex fantasy. We're not going to live together, raise kids together, or even talk for more than a few minutes. I am looking for someone with whom I am sexually compatable. -
Side Effect of Hobbying
loopie replied to toklat77's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I've never had trouble being monogamous and only partake in this lifestyle when I am totally single. As soon as I become interested in somebody romantically, I generally lose interest in hobbying. -
Oh my God....amazing! -
Would you reveal your private info?
loopie replied to Maddie's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
If your priority is just keeping your two lives seperate, have you considered escorting in another city than where you normally work your day job and live? -
I don't understand this perception that LE doesn't already investigate crimes related to the sex trade. They do. LE does have squads devoted to human trafficking, prostitution, and underage exploitation. The police already do place officers undercover as streetwalking prostitutes. The police already do scan prostitution ads on the internet and investigate cases where they suspect underage exploitation. The RCMP does commit resources to fighting human trafficking. Yes, LE has limits to their resources and will continue to have limits to their resources. But having limited resources isn't the same as having no resources at all. Yes, LE does not bust everybody who breaks existing laws, but they do make arrests.
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Any recommendations for a complete beginner?
loopie replied to jcolehart's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I can't tell you what you find attractive, so I won't recommend a specific SP. But, once you do find an SP that tickles your fancy, I would advise you to be upfront with her. Send her a personal message in which you introduce yourself. Let her know that you are both new to this lifestyle and new to sex. Also, read the 'New To This Section' here on CERB to get an idea of the basic protocols of this lifestyle. -
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I've never used them, but they used to advertise here on CERB all the time. They would put daily postings of which SP's were working, then they stopped for some reason. There were many glowing reviews of the women there. If you search the CERB recommendation area you can find them. And on other sites, their SP's still seem to get good reviews. So I would be willing to trust them, but I can't speak from experience.
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I'd rather be in a relationship, but alas, I am single.
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Well, if you're happy with the women you're meeting through a certain agency, then I see no reason why you shouldn't continue to use that agency. If you are worried about bait 'n switch scams, there are a number of warning signs you can watch out for. Here is the link to a site called The Cowboy's Diary, which documents scams. http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/ The man who maintains this site is a member here, too. Take a look at the site and it will give you a good idea of things to watch out for when shopping for an SP on sites like BP. If you encounter a bait 'n switch, just turn around and walk away. You owe scammers like that nothing.
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how often do you hobby? and.....
loopie replied to clearlycanadian7583's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
It goes in waves for me. Sometimes I will go a few months without seeing an SP for no particular reason other than I just don't feel like it. Other times I will hobby several times in a month. -
I think there's an appreciative way to tell your partner they can stop now without going into the theatrics of phoney ecstasy. You can let them know that they have made you as happy as they're going to make you this time without moaning and wailing.
