Paolo

Well, I get the point, prevailing here, about expecting to transform into some radically different state of being and identity by sucking a cock once (although there's something kind of interesting if you could, like magic! I suck someone's genitalia once and all the planets realign....awesome! I'd probably transform back forth and sideways on a weekly basis with a fine blend of genders just to try it all out, find the best of all possible worlds, but that's just me). The question the OP asked is maybe interesting on another level too, sort of more uncomfortable perhaps. I wonder if it goes to the tension of being able to explore something, even if it's just once that could be really erotic and sensual, and not leaving the "safe place" many of us guys were taught to be in. Have to stay in that good old straightjacket of heterosexuality or something's going to go horribly wrong, which is too damn bad as a tension that needs to exist. Such a constraint. I mean really, if you're a guy and you want to suck a cock, you should probably just get on with it (safely of course - I did it was great, and wow, I'm still me, I didn't break apart into something awful!), if you don't, well, fine. But things got tangled and its become so bloody subtle as a topic. Should all be much freer for all of us really in a better world. I've noticed there are some on this board who seem genuinely free, and they stand out like heroes really. Maybe there should be a new sexual orientation called "completely undecided", "not willing to decide" or "demo, purely exploratory, I might choose later or might not" no gender-based expectations associated whatsoever. That would be fun I'd say.

Great topic. I have been overwhelmed a few times when it feels like having sex in a single kiss. Memorable life moments those ones.