Frank7

For some people, the "choice" of seeing a sex worker is the choice between physical intimity and nothing. Just like the LGBTTIQQ2SA have the "choice" between being with someone they want to be with, being in a "straight relation" or being alone. People don't choose what attracts them, weither it's the gender, the race, physical attributes or mental attributes. Aside from past history of persecution, I don't see the difference. Maybe not now, but it could happen. If the it becomes the law and the next generations are raised to believe "johns" are pervert, sadistic exploitive men, they will grow to hate them. You really think in that kind of world, in 20-30 years, there won't be people that will do vigilante's act against johns? Even in States were homosexuality is/was illegal, some people prefered to beat or kill gay people instead of calling the cops on them.

It really depends on every individual wich kind of love is important (or if it's important at all). The vast majority probably can't live without love though. Just look at all the side effects people have when they aren't loved by there family, have no friend or never been in a romantic relation. Personnaly, i can't live without romantic love. Since i don't have it, it's a constant battle to not be depressed. Medication helps though. On the other hand, even if i'm not very social, i've always had friends and know i can make new ones. So even in the unlikely event that i have none, i wouldn't be to conserned that it would stay that way, and even if it does, i enjoyed friends for a long time. Likewise, i've always had a loving supportive family, so it's not really a need for me. And since i don't plan to have child, i'll probably end up "without" family eventually, but i'm not worried.

If it's temporary loneliness, as in-between relations, sure. If it's because you've always been alone, it won't help the lonely part. Mostly because, unless you're very rich, you won't be able to see an SP as often as you'd want someone. There's a lot of very good reasons to see an SP ( for your first time, to get better at sex, to get confortable with yourself, to try new things, cause you're horny, etc) But loneliness isn't a very good one from experience.

Yeah, probably need a new thread if we want to go in details. Me i love tall women, so i don't care. The same question could be asked to women though. For those who "dislike" man that is shorter, why? Specialy on dating website, you often see women flat out warning they won't date shorter men.

Haha, i lived the same situation except in reverse. I didn't want to lie to my parents about it. They were understanding, but they were really worried for me. Mostly stereotypes, scared that i'd get STD, get robbed, get killed, get arrested, etc.

Congrats, Bianca! Hard to believe you've only been here a year, can't remember a time without you. =)

Have you read the book? Personnaly, i enjoyed reading The Hobbit a lot more then LoTR.

Is there any better reason to seek companionship from an SP then because there's a void, you lack confidence or skill? Those are the ones that need it the most! Just "getting a life" or your answer to know yourself, be happy etc isn't easy and isn't always possible. It's something that take a lot of times and isn't only in your hand. Sometimes you night help to at least survive/hang in there until the problem is cared for. A good parallele would be asking someone depressive to just stop taking pills and be happy. To one day solve your problems and be happy, you might need those pills for stability and motivation on the way up. I'm sure there is some that have a problem, but i don't think trying to shame them or saying they are a sad bunch is the right attitude. You do realize that poor skills with women is also often caused my minor (or major) disabilities? It's also a lot of work to "get" skills with women, especially if you want to be true to yourself and be loved for what you are. Getting confidence takes success, even if it's "artificial" ones. You can't expect to just go outside and try to seduce women, rejection after rejection and while having absolutly no affection and sexual live. Especialy if you're not just aiming to "score" and actually want a serious relation with someone you could love.

Very glad he's doing better. =) At first i though it was depression, and didn't really know how to reply. (it's a very complicated subject when you don't have much informations....) Now that you'd specified it was alcoholism, maybe some other members who've dealt with it will be able to give some advices to help him!

You know, i've been thinking for a while that i should give blood. Even feeling a bit guilty cause i didn't really have time to get informed and get a medical rendez-vous. So thanks Jafo for teaching me i can't! Saved me some time and i'll just have to find other ways to help.

So if i forget to pay the 2nd part, the lady will stay forever? =O Personnaly, out of the 3 ladies i've seen, only one is keeping in contact. She texted me just after the meeting. Then i found out she also do webcam, so i chatted her a bit there. She looked really happy to see me so after that, i PMed her asking if it's okay to chat her up, even if i'm not a paying webcam costumer. So now when she's online, i chat a bit and it's really nice to see she's still doing well and is happy.

Except that piece of paper with the "X" is about a tons of subjects. You have to choose between 4-5 people for someone that will take decisions about all the aspects of your life. Who you vote for doesn't tell anything about a particular subject.

It's an amazing experience! You should definitively try it. It gets off very easy in the shower. If she's offering it, i'm assuming she have protection for the bed and a shower available (possible for some fun together!) There might be reco for the lady's nuru massage if you search.

That i totally aggree. But it's also true for adult women. Nobody should be seen as just a sex object and nobody should be used. That's why IMO, lying to someone just to get him/her in bed is immoral. I was only commenting on attraction. I don't think underaged girls are ready to make a choice like entering sex work and it should still be against the law. There's a big difference between having a personnal sex life for yourselves and doing it as a profession with all the other things to take into account.

That's the problem with democraty. It's just a number's game, no matter how unrelated or ignorant people voting may be. =(