Frank7

Before coming here, the furthest i've ever gone was kissing a girl, once. And as expected for a first time, i was pretty bad. So thanks to cerb and two ladies, now it feels natural to kiss and i know what sex is like. Not that i get the chance to put it in pratice though. lol

Yellow! Just cause it's my favorite color. But pretty much any colors are good for me. Like jafo, i love girls in sweater, it's so nice to hug. I also love girls in pyjamas.(the cuddly winter ones)

I don't really have an inner geek..... i'm already such an outer geek. =P I love sci-fi, straight-to-tv horror movie and reading. I play video games, read comics, play D&D (and lots of other RPG) and even LARP. Joss Whedon is my master. =D I even fit the stereotype cause i'm usually quiet, was born with glasses( almost lol) and couldn't get a gf to save my life.

Lots of reasons for people to see a SP. Nothing wrong or weird about girls seeing them either. It's not talked about much here, but i think it's mostly because there's zero(?) male provider who advertise. However, it does feel weird(IMO) that a ladie would pay for something she could get for free. It's extremely easy already for girls to have sex with no string attached. Especialy for someone who's as in demand as an SP.

I just bring everything with me like always. I trust the lady i see and she's always with me anyway. =D

One big assumption! The frequent hobbiest have a much higher paying job. =P

When i arrive too early, i just go take a walk around the neihbourghood or i take my cellphone out and pretend to be texting, leaning on a wall. (downtown ottawa, so very public places) I really don't get people not understanding simple things like that.

I wouldn't mind doing some activism for that cause, if someone warned me about events in Gatineau/Ottawa. It's a very important on so many points and i don't really have anything to hide. When i do get a gf, i'm not sure how she'd feel about it though. (i know i'll be quitting the hobby, but maybe she'd be comfortable with the cause/activism)

I'd kill for that service! lol More seriously, i've never had the chance to fall asleep cuddling someone. So i'd probably hire her for 9h-10h. I'm just not rich enough for that atm and if i enjoy it too much, i couldn't go back to being alone. I don't think it's any weirder for her to distance herself from sex worker then a masseur, specialy considering the stigmata with it.

The SP won't have any problems separating sex and romance (and work) I reall doubt many SP falls for their client, and if they do, i'm sure they understand that half of them are probably not interested/taken.

(oups, too big answer for comments) Answer to BownChickaBown: Yeah, an SP can ask me pretty much anything. If she does stumble upon something i do not wish to talk, i'll be honnest (but polite) about it. Would you date me? That's a fantasy that probably won't ever happen. =p

I've been thinking about that and the pussy vs balls a few times. Usually a little joke on facebook about "why call someone a pussy when he's weak? a pussy can take a beating for an hour!" But in that guy's case, a kick in the Nuts is really nothing. =p http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a86cQobU-n4 (check part 1 if you want the maths and intros,)

Only happenned once to me. I answered "according to her profile, no but you can ask her any further questions(posts or PM), as long as you're respectfull she's friendly." Really not my place to spread info about a lady, except via recommandation and i don't get too explicite there. =p

For real dangerous diseases, i'll get the shots. Hep A/B or if you go to another country where there's really different diseases. For flu, i don't bother. It's better to just let your immune systeme fight it off. It will be better prepared for when something big comes along. Same thing for the H1N1 shot. Specialy considering it was released in a hurry. Didn't get the shot. I'm pretty sure i did get H1N1, it was the "worst" flu i had, lasted 2 weeks i think. But it didn't stop me from doing anything i'd normaly do, just went to school like normal. However, if you have a really weak immune systeme (usually elderly or complications from another disease), better to get it. Cause those are the people that can actually die from flu.

Those are just perfect Porthos! You happen to know the models' names?

Thanks for the answers you were willing to give JoyfulC. Really appreciated. =)

Girls that are around my height(i'm 5''8) or taller. =D But that's just preference, height would never be an issue for me if the proportions are to my liking. Likewise, i don't mind if the ladie is more musculated then me. That can be really sexy.

Of course it goes on, someone asked me a question. I'll answer. I find it funny that half the answers said never ever ask that in person, i'd feel threatned. While the other half said to not ask that here but in person they might have answered. Yet some people here talk for everyone else, like if there was only one opinion on the subject. If you think what i asked is rude, it wasn't you i asked. You choosed to come in this post and you choosed to answer a question not directed at you, simple as that.

Actually yes, both ladies i've seen volunteered/answered some personal informations. One of them actually asked first a few personnal questions ans i was happy to see she's interested and answered. She even showed me her real name by error and laughted it off. (not that i'd remember what it was, it was so long ago) I won't say who it was or wich informations they gave, because that's things only them should say. This post really wasn't about "her" it was just to get multiple answers. Personnaly, i don't have a problem with someone asking me any questions. (unless it's just an insult) If it's something too personnal or i don't want to give the answer to that person, i'll just be upfront about not wanting to answer. Communication is important.

I'm kinda curious why it ended, if you don't mind answering. Was it on her side, on your side or did both of you felt ackward after that?

Not sure it gave rep points, but it worked. Thanks Kimberly-Shea! And thanks for the link Phaedrus. I'll get more details about all that.

Stupid question but....how do you comment on a post? It looks like a nominated post, but you can add a sentance or two. Thanks!

Sorry if it sounded offensive. Being an SP, you're more skilled in seducing, that's part of the job. I meant it like asking if a chef in a restaurant still make dinners at home or if a maintenance guy/girl do half of the shores at home or take a break. edit: If i had written the questions in French, i probably would have better worded it. Yes, between co-workers we do ask about sex lives. Not always, but sometimes during a light-hearted friday or when the discusion went close to that topic. Pretty much all the jobs i've been were like that. That's just how guys act. It's more the part where you speculate about what i've done and say i'm threathning that disatisfy me. Specialy since i went for a route that lets anyone not answer without me even knowing. I am fully aware that these women have the right not to answer my questions. However, they also have the right to. Complaining about my open questions is like complaining about a question on an online survey you choosed to fill. Do you tell a restaurant that they shouldn't ask a women's age because it's one of the question in there optional client's appreciation survey?

Because nobody asked before. I just want to know cause i'm curious and would like to know more about your(plurial your) life. From guys post, i get that maybe half of them are in a relation/married, the other half being single at the moment or prefering a swinger's life without beeing in a commited relation. I'm not a journalist or writting a book. I just work in a plant. And no i don't have guilt about seeing SPs who are in relationships or have children. I doubt most of them could hide there job from the SO, so it's consentual fun everyone knows. So yeah, i just posted questions for people to answer IF THEY WANTED TO. But since most people are more interested in starting fights, post closed i guess.

Little correction, i didn't ask the other post. And by my answer, it wasn't really inappropritate. Exactly why i asked here. Nobody have to make cover story to be polite. Those who deems it private can just not reply. At my job, clients or people i work with ask me questions directly all the time and i don't have a problem with that. If they ask something i want to keep private, i'll just tell them that. Additional Comments: Actually, social/dating life questions are some of the most common question asked in public or when you meet someone for the first time. And i really wouldn't see the problem with there being a client's version of this post. If someone doesn't want to answer, skip to the next post. (And really, a bunch of post around here ask about very personal questions, some i wouldn't be able to ask a co-worker or random aquaintance)