Frank7

http://lifestyle.ca.msn.com/beauty-fashion/fashion/american-apparels-new-mannequins-feature-70s-style-pubes What do you think? I know it will be paradise for me if the trend really catch up. =D

Very important! Hope there is more then just 100 that end up signing it.

Unless you have your SO's permission, then yes it's cheating. That's the definition of the word. Is it ok to cheat and in what circonstances, that's something you have to answer for yourself. Like moj0llama, i'd suggest honnesty. Check with her if she's okay with it.

As other have said, it depends for everyone. If fully shaven, it takes me a good month to get it back. Then, i can trim it once every 2-3 weeks and it stays good. It's so cold outside, for now i'm waiting though. =P Anyway i'm on call and working, so i won't be seeing anyone.

The "new to this" section of the forum. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=207 There's a bunch of stickied threads and you can ask questions if you still have some after.

My way of seeing it (so a girl saying that to a guy in my experience) it's BS. They aren't interested period, but in refusing to tell it straight, they cause more hope and pain. Eventually, you catch the secret meaning, but when it's the first times you asked someone out, it's not obvious. I really don't understand the logic if someone really meant that (s)he don't want to risk the Relationship. A lover is so much more then just a friend. In general, most people have multiple friends but just one lover at the time. A lover is much more rare and precious. If someone really valued friendship more then love, they probably would live with their best friend and start a familly with them. (yes, two guys or two girls who aren't interested in each others sexualy) So in your case, i don't know. Maybe you know she's not gf material for you or maybe you really are scared of getting closer to someone. Only you will know. Either way, maybe just go on a few dates to see how it goes, but being honnest that you aren't sure you like her -that way-.

With the prostitution laws down, that kind of business might come back. Seems he was harassed about having a brothel and that's why he closed. Now people shouldn't bug him and clients won't mistake that for more if you can be upfront about your sex-related business.

I've tried it and it was a really hot session. But most of the time, i'm not capable of performing that well and it's just extra work for me (and the lady) to try a 2nd SOG. If no MSOG means you get kicked out as soon as you came, that would be a deal breaker. If we can stay and cuddle/relax for the rest of the session, i have to problem with no MSOG.

Unless i already tried to get with her (romantically or sexually) and got rejected, i'd go for it. I'd tell her first in the introductory email though. Then it's her choice if she wants to see me. While some say it would have happenned if it was meant to be, there's a lot of reason why it wouldn't necessarily. If she was in a couple or had other priorities at the moment. Or maybe cause she didn't think you were interested. Some ladies said you shouldn't but a few others did see old friends and it worked well. As long as you ask politly and respect her decision, there's nothing wrong with asking. P.S. One of my friend became a burlesque performer and part time stripper to cover her expenses. I had a huge crush on her and asked her out a few times. In that situation, i never went to see her (i never went to a strip club anyway) because i wouldn't want to make her uncomfortable. Maybe she wouldn't mind, i never asked. On the other hand, she knows i check her burlesque pics (string + nipple pasties) on Facebook and seems okay with it (she likes my comments!)

I finaly had the chance to see Bianca Jaguar two weeks ago! She catched my eyes a few months ago, but i was always on call when she was in town. But now i got Lucky. She responded quickly after i answered her booking form and she was very excited to meet me. I meet her at the hotel and she answered wearing a nice top and skirt. We talked a bit to know each others and she quickly made me comfortable. Then we started kissing (she's an amazing kisser!) and making out. I'll leave the details secret, but let me say, when i was between her legs, performing DATY, I was in paradise. She's an amazing lady, with a beautyfull muscular body. Her legs are exceptional! And she have better stamina then a guy half her age, haha. Her skin is soft and warm, you'll love to cuddle with her. She loves her job and i could see she wanted to make the date perfect for me. Wich it was. I had a wonderful time that i'll always remember. I highly recommend seeing her next time she's in town, specialy if like me, you never had the chance to sleep with a sexy MILF before.

What the lady ask for will varies a lot. Some asked nothing, others will want a reference from another SP/MA. For some the cerb handle and seeing your history is enough, or having work infos. Most of them are "or". So one of the multiple infos will be enough for them.

I answered yes, but i'm not totally sure. Before i probably would have paid for that kind of service. However, now i get it when booking with a MA/SP. I also have 2-3 friends i can cuddle with. It's still pretty recent, but it would remove the need to pay for it. A similar service i saw was a "sleep buddie". A girl who sleep overnight with someone for money. If the price was right, i'd definitively try it. I've never had the chance to fall asleep in a girl's arms and wake up next to her.

I was more or less in the same situation. At 22 i got my first kiss after dating a girl for 3 months (but it was mostly a last chance test to see if she could fall for me). So at 23, after being tiring of waiting, i went to see an SP. While i wasn't the "wait till marriage" type, i'm a romantic and i really wanted my first time to be with a girl i love. After lots of failure, i was willing to settle for a one-night or a fuck-buddie but i wasn't able to find it. My first time wasn't that good. Mostly because i was so nervous and there was no chemistry between me and the SP i choosed. She was really friendly, made me as comfortable as she could, but there was something missing. However i'm very glad i did it and got the burden away. If i had known the futur, i would have done it quicker. If you're like me, you probably won't get much confidence from the "success" cause there isn't really a success. You didn't really seduce her in the traditionnal way. On the other hand, you'll get a lot more confidence about sex! You won't be scared of being a bad kisser, you'll have done your newbie mistakes (if you were to make some) and you'll finaly know what sex is. That was a very big stress for me, not knowing how i'll react to having sex, if i'll know what to do, being scared of cumming too quickly( ended up having the opposite problem lol), etc. When i did it, i didn't tell the SP i was a virgin. I didn't want her treating me any differently. I did end telling her in the middle, during a break we took. Still not sure if it would have been better to tell her first or not. It's up to you to decide. Either way, i strongly suggest at least telling her at the end. To avoid worrying her that she did something bad because you were nervous (or if you have any problems) Hope this help, and if you have further questions, don't hesitate.

Stay for sure, if i ever have the chance. (can't overstay on a provider!) The other day, i watched a movie cuddled on a sexy lady friend and we stayed cozy together talking for a while after. Even though there was no kissing, sex, etc it made me just as happy as one of my pay-date here. The effection and closeness is what's so important for me.

The same problem seems to be there in monogamy too. If you don't know what you like or can't communicate what you want, you won't be happy. In fact, if your needs and desires shift, wouldn't it be better to not be monogamous? Easier to find someone with your new like then hope for your present partner to do a 180 shift. By that logic, it can be said that the spouse probably have a well founded reason why she loses interest in sex. I'm with loopie that it's where communication is important and they should try to solve this together.

Even if a provider was against married hobbist, it would be hard to know for sure. If you talk about that with her again, i suggest making a link with other type of "sellers". The guy who sell liquor at the LCBO don't know if the client will drink and drive after the party. As for the OP, i think it really depends on the "type" of single. Single as in no-string attached but still go on dates, have one night, etc. I think most people would be okay with you having that kind of life. Most people tend to assume that single people are in the second category. Really single. No dates and no sex. It pretty hard to have a fullfilling life when it's the case. And there is people in that situation. For the first kind, i think it's your world as much as for couple and you won't have problems being happy. The second kind however, it's truely a world for couples. Every single movie, book, news seem to be talking about couples or sex. Whenever you go outside for a walk or do activities, you see couples. Or cute guy/girl that you'd like to date. It's almost impossible to not feel lonely in that situation.

If you promise to someone you won't do something then do it anyway, that's pretty much the textbook definition of cheating. Especialy true when it's with a religious marriage where you take a public oath to being faithfull. Doing an activity without your spouse is not the same thing as doing an activity you know she doesn't want you to do and lying about it. Monogamy and polygamy are both natural. And both are good (as long as both sex are free to be polygamous). If we check at the animals closer to humans, Gibbons are monogamous, while bonobos are polygamous. The stigma isn't so much about not being monogamous. It's about the lying that some do by pretending to be monogamous, but seeing others in secret. The younger générations are willing to explore with and without their partners.... but usually it must be aggreed by both parties before it happen.

Not sure if i believe in Heaven. But dogs definitively have emotions! Maybe a month ago i've read an article about scientist experimenting with dogs. They used trainned dogs that could stay still to check their brainwaves via MRI. When they were put in the presence of their owners ( visual or just the scent), the part of the brain that house emotion for humans, had activity. Was a nice read and hopefully they'll do more test to validate all that. =)

Yeah, a lot of the younger generations seems to be more open about sex. A lot don't mind having fuckbuddies, trying 3-some or even being in open relationship. But even them seems to get mad if they are cheated on. The few times I've heard of it in my circles, the couple ended up breaking. I don't think monogamy is unnatural, just like I don't think polygamy is. It depends on the person and what they are comfortable with. I just think people should be open about their choice and shouldn't date/marry if it isn't compatible. Just like someone who strongly want a child shouldn't be with someone who strongly doesn't want any.

Part of the stigma is that client are cheaters. The secrety is kinda comfirming it. In reality, there's two stigma there. The affair/cheating and the seeing providers. The first part in general isn't accepted, be it with providers or civilians. The second part, is already starting to destigmatize. (the articles about disabled people who see escorts, most people are okay with it for exemple.) To destigmatize the part about seeing clients, we'd have to prove that the majority do it by choice and that we'd love to see more severe laws against traffickers and abusive pimps. Then it would be a case of the different types of clients. But as long as affair/cheating isn't accepted, some of the clients will always be stigmatized. If the affair/cheating part becomes destigmatized (by convincing the majority of people that it isn't immoral to do), then a big part of the stigma from seeing escort would also leave.

Read an article about this in the Montréal Journal today. http://tvanouvelles.ca/lcn/infos/regional/montreal/archives/2013/11/20131106-055121.html For the non-french, it basically say that the average age to become a prostitute is 14, that she's never meet a confident college student who does this to pay her study, etc. (While i know there's some difference between prostitution, escorting and MA, the article pretty much speak about them all.) It's not the first time i hear politician or feminist group say similar thing, that nobody would ever do sex work if they had the choice, that it's sexiest and degrading to women, etc. Do you ever write or challenge those people/agency? I'm mostly asking providers, since a "john" wouldn't have much effect to them. Either from those who are open about what they do, or anonymously?

As for the initial question, yes i count "only" oral in that number and yes i count my paid dates in that number too. What's the best number? Higher or lower? It depends on the person. Some will say 1 is the perfect number, others want to bone the most people possible and break some world record. The number of different person you'd had sex with doesn't mean a thing in term of if you're a good lover or not. Someone who's only slept with one person 1000 times still have more experience then someone who's slept with 10 girls, but only once with each. Likewise, someone can sleep with a lot of people but only care about his pleasure, while the other is a devoted lover and make sure his Partner have fun, even if he's not experienced. I don't think there's a particular number that would make me say "no, i don't want to date her". In any case, 1 or 100, i'll probably want a test before going fully without protection, just like i don't expect her to accept BBFS without my result first. However Stevemcqueen makes a good point, maybe there's a patern. I think how (s)he got the number and why is important. (Tried to write that genderless but it's so hard, i ended up returning to default guy point of view. What i said works for both gender, anything that goes for a guy goes for a girl too.) edit: Got curious about the record and ended up there. A link with some math. http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/the-most-sexual-partners-in-history-2394373.html

A lot of people outside of cerb manage to find someone to fulfill there sexual desires and emotionnal needs. I don't see how you came to the conclusion that it can only be bought. Even those that offer it for a donation (MA and SP) also give it for free in there personnal life.

Learned a lot of the ladies here and the misconceptions. (though that was before my first jump) Now i know what sex is! I'm comfortable kissing a ladie. I'm less shy and able to ask random girls for there numbers without having to know them for months first. Fullfilled a few fantasy too. ;)

and I've masturbated so much to those video clips when i was a teenager.:icon_redface: