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I don't think it would be particularily safe to just use that and stop using condom completely. However, it will be great to have a quicker and simpler way to test. Atm, you need to go to a clinic and it takes a few weeks. (or less but it's more expensives and aimed for sex workers i've heard?) Also, it will be awesome for things that don't work so well with protection, like DATY.

Love the last part and how they state something very obvious but often overlooked. If you don't want to be monogamous, don't marry!

Post them in the french group ivy. =D

Not exactly what you asked, but answering to the title. I don't think clients will ever be completly destimatized, because of the secret. Even when sex works become fully legal, a lot of clients still won't come out. That will be seen as shame or as them knowing that what they do is wrong. For your actual question, i'm not exactly sure what i'd want you to say. I'm more or less open about being a client and so far i didn't get any negativity about it. People mostly asked why and some a little concern for my safety, but that's it. My friends asked some questions about the ladies too. I guess people ask providers about clients and clients about providers. Not in the person's face. =/

I've also heard that most of them are scams, so never tried. =( Probably not much people on cerb who tried them, being married they wouldn't risk the exposure.

The same could be said for women though, key word being appreciation. A lot of women either only like tall muscular guys or don't care at all about appearance. Would be nice if those with different tastes were vocal about it.

I'd have to disaggree with the link. Men are also very objectified to sell. It's just that most women prefer not to see the guy naked ( or that's what they say at least.) A lot of ads use perfect looking guy in a suit/uniform or shirtless to sell. As for who's part of the problems, i don't think you are cristy. You dress sexily to attract men, either in your personnal life or for your job. It's using sex, but for a sexual-related goal, so it's not really a problem. The problem is when sex is seen as the only thing a women is worth. Mostly it comes from men who view women that way. And another part of the problem is when women use sexuality for everything. i.e. Sleeping with a teacher for better grades or your boss for a promotion.

You say that or "I'll make sure to die after you, so you don't have to be left alone." But very well said and pretty much like how i see love. Hopefully, i'll find it someday.

Started at 23, i'm now 25. So far, about 10-12 dates, with one SP and one MA.

If the cussing is just her way of talking, not because she has anger management issues, i don't mind. Cooks like a pro, that's great! Drink like a fish, i wouldn't date an alcolic. Personnaly i never drink and i don't understand the need people have to get drunk. Fights like a man, hell yeah! Nothing's sexier then a stronger girl who can kick some ass (Gina Carano anyone?). Fucks like a pornstar... personnaly, i prefer it soft and GFE-like. That could be a bit of problem.

Very important! Saddly, here it's hard to know. Not every SP are willing to be honnest if you're doing it right or wrong. And you never know if she's just saying what she thinks you want to hear. =(

While it's not for everyone, i think marriage is wonderfull. It's my biggest goal in life to find a special someone and stay with her forever (aka death). Very good call zorobaby about not wanting to spend so much on the wedding though. =P

So far, my parents, one friend and one ex know. The résultats have been okayish to great. I'd tell more friends if asked, but it never really comes up. Nobody ask me about my sex life, how many girls i've had, etc. I'm not ashamed and i'd do my best to dispell the misconception about the trade. With my work (not a social one) i don't see how it could hurt me to be honnest about it. As long as i don't yell it while working (highly unprofessional =P) they can't reallu hold it against me.

Looks like she's having some fun. But i think of her other video i much prefer. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMpQgDbqz6U So cute. =3 It was listed on MSN as "girl embarassing herself." WTF? She does it well and she's showing she's fun to be around.

The only allergies i have are environnemental and cats. And cats won't affect me much if it's just 1-2 hours and i don't touch them. So never had to mention it. I really hope providers and clients mention it if they have severe or uncomfortable allergies.

White bread, egg-bacon-cheese sandwich! No mayo, no butter. I eat that twice a week for breakfast. =D

Just watched Wreck It Ralph. It's so good! Gamers will love it and even if you're not, the story is really cute.

Extremely good advices. Since there is always risks with sex, you should tell the person before you two start doing it. It's there choice if they want to "risk it". Yes there is some guys that would seriously date an escort. There was a few post about love between an escort and hobbiest or if someone would let her keep working if you started dating an escort. Dating an hobbiest could be a good way, but you have to be carefull. Some hobby cause they don't want to be monogamous, they need diversity or cause they like being infidel. That wouldn't end too well in that case. Another possibility, would you be willing to stop escorting if he's not comfortable with it? Of course, that depends if it's your full time job or you have another career as well. As far as undateable, i don't think so. There's a lot of people with bigger hurdles. Like not being charming/good at conversation...

Duh. Pretty obvious what SC is now that i think. I'm just not used to see the FS SC combination. Thanks, i'll check into it. =)

http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.ca/ That's a post on someone's blog about depression. My ex linked that to me some time ago and while long, it's a very good representation of depression. The dead fish analogie is exceptionnaly brillant.

Someone in favor of same-sex marriage is automatically gay or bi? Speaking for rights isn't always just about the one speaking.

You have a link for that? And what is an SC? =P Thanks Malika and webothscore. However, i'm in Plaisance. So going to Rigaud or Orléans is actually further then Ottawa. =( Only point for Rigaud would be less traffic i guess.

Anyone know of MAs or massage parlour around Hawkesbury or L'orignal? Just recently realized it's closer to my house then Ottawa and probably a lot less traffic during the week. =D

Anyone know of providers around Hawkesbury or L'orignal? Just recently realized it's closer to my house then Ottawa and probably a lot less traffic during the week. =D