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Not the best place to ask, we're fans of small breasts. =P Yours looks great the way they are!

I love hair and it's a very important part of attraction for me. The color however doesn't matter much, I like them all. Most of the time, I prefer long or medium hair and untied. =)

I've seen it in a few foot fetish porn (mostly lesbian) but I can't say that's a fantasy of mine. Never been asked to do that either.

Is the client asking you to pretend being a very young consensual girl or a pretend-aggression? If it's the first, I see nothing un-ethical about it. 18 is an arbitrary number and as long as everyone participating is consenting, it's all good morally. The laws are there cause in most case, there's abuse in those situation and because of how our society is. Another thing to remember is pedophilia isn't all black and white. Some are attracted to people there age as well, just like some people are bi or like all skin/hair colors and ethnics. And media always act like if pedophilia necessarily means pedophile rapist. It's the rape part that is unethical and should be dealt with (more harshly then our current laws). There's pedophile that are disgusted by anything non-consensual but we never hear about them cause they don't do anything.

In-call at the ladie's place/condo/apartment. In live either in a small apartment in a small town 1 hours from Ottawa or at my parent's place in Gatineau (most weekend) so outcall at my place isn't really an option. Hotels would end up costing more and an agency seems complicated (never actually tried it)

Haha, I'd make sure to stay in the way personally.:icon_redface:

Hundreds! If it's squirt bukake and solely for my pleasure. That would be a huge fantasy for me. If it's normal sex, for all the people involved, more then one or two is probably too much. Never tried but doubt I can satisfy that many people at once. MFF and MMF seems like fun things to try at least once though.

First, there's never any really reliable job. There's always the risk of someone or a company outbidding you in private sector. Government jobs used to be what was the most secure..... but we saw what happened with the public function in Ottawa. A few tips though: 1) There is more jobs if you're willing to move. Everyone fight for the big cities job, but they often have trouble finding people for small villages. 2)Aim for something essential. Specialy if it's not long lasting (like buildings). Health, food, water, etc will always be needed. 3)Skilled trades have lots of opening usually, specially if you're willing to be on call or work evening, night and weekend shifts.

1- Doesn't bother me a bit. 2- Sure. It would be great if a girl was doing everything that's expected of men. (paying, doing the first steps, being the boss) 3-Not sure to what point. Most of the people I know have crappy jobs or good jobs, but very rare are the extremely successful rich people. 4- A little bit scared, but not more then i'd be of a successful man. It's the successful part that makes competition, not the gender.

I probably won't be popular for saying that....but I really don't get it. I get that a lot of people here doesn't believe in monogamy. But if you think it's okay for you to go elsewhere, how could you pissed at your GF for doing the same? Seems hypocritical and sexist....

Like a few others said, I'd suggest talking to her. Seems you really care for her and don't want to lose her. So the only problem is sex? Talking will help know what she's thinking and if there's no sex because of a misunderstanding, because she doesn't want it or because she can't. If she can't but you both love and take care of each others, she might give you permission to seek sex elsewhere. It's the case for 1-2 cerbies from what I've read. Goodluck and I wish you the best. @porthos: I'm no expert, specialy for a women's point of view....but wouldn't your SO being on top and taking the lead help? If she's doing the pounding, she could control it and make sure it doesn't hurt her back. Of course, there's also oral sex and other non-intercourse acts, but you probably already though of that.

I really don't see a problem with that law. It mention clearly that it's the sharing of pics/vids of nudity/sex that would be illegal. Having a nude picture wouldn't be a problem, and sharing a clothed picture of your friend on facebook also wouldn't. So even if the relationship goes badly, as long as you don't send it to everyone for revenge, there shouldn't be problems. And most people don't post picture of there partners without consent if all is good in the relation. If you're an exhibitionist, then taking 5-10 minutes to write consent won't be too much of a price for your fun.

When I was about 5, I was playing on the sofa and fell head first on the TV's corner. Required a few stiches. (I prefer to say I fought the TV and lost though!) Even now, when I cut my hairs too short you can see it. And I have a half-moon cut on my left thumb. Cut myself in 6th grade trying to open a tuna can.

I didn't have sex in my younger years cause I couldn't get it normaly. And for a long while, I really wanted my first time to be with someone I loved. After a very hard online breakup at 19, I opened to the idea of a one-night-stand or a fuck-buddie, but again I wasn't able to find one. At 22, I got my first kiss after being with a girl for 3 months (then she broke up) That's when I decided to stop waiting. I needed confidence and to stop worrying about the sex part if I ever was to have a successful relationship. Knowing the future, I probably would have done it sooner. But that's the thing, you never know. I didn't want to quit at just 18, then meet a girl 1-2 months later and have to tell her how my first was. Having had to wait 5 more years if the girl isn't okay with it, it's her problem.

Like a few said, it would greatly reduce the pleasure for ME, cause I won't be tasting them. I wouldn't mind using one for a gf who wants to play safe, but i'll try to stick with SP/MA that offers bbDATY. =D

While the spotlights are a bit extreme, I love when I can enjoy the sight of the lady in all her glory. =D

Very interesting way to try changing perception about the sex trade women. Sadly, it's only in Argentina. http://www.cbc.ca/strombo/alt-news/art-draws-attention-to-plight-of-sex-workers-in-argentina.html An activist group in Argentina has come up with an innovative campaign to try to change people's perceptions about sex trade workers. The Association of Women Prostitutes of Argentina (aka AMMAR) has put together a campaign called 'Corner.' The ads, developed by Ogilvy and Mather Buenos Aires, are pasted onto walls at the corners of buildings. On one side is a sex trade worker and then as a you walk around the corner, the scene changes, showing the woman's child with a caption that reads, "86% of sex workers are mothers that are looking for laws to protect them from exploitation." AMMAR was founded in 1994, and the group, along with the Network of Sex Workers in Latin America and the Caribbean, aims to empower sex trade workers and promote human and labour rights. According to a report entitled Incorporating Sex Workers into the Argentine Labor Movement, AMMAR asserted itself as a trade union, becoming part of the union umbrella confederationCentral de Trabajadores Argentinos (CTA). Their initial demand was simply not to have sex trade workers rearrested and detained within 24 hours of being released from a police station. The group's central demand is for the sex trade to be recognized as legitimate employment

In the name of God by Sabaton. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TU91h959WsM A lot of there songs refers to war.

Something: That rape doesn't exist. If we're talking only something personal: To get a girlfriend.

While bondage and SM aren't my thing, I think i'd enjoy a dom/sub setting (as long as i'm the sub :P ) Regardless of that, it wouldn't bother me. Like roaming said, as long as it's consenting, you can like whatever you like!

I love GFE massage! Most important reason is the kissing. Seeing a lady but no kissing isn't for me. Then there is the touching, being able to feel her back (and massage her back? I'd love to try that sometime) The shower at the beginning and the end, that's been a huge fantasy of mine since I was 12-13. Seeing the water drip on her lovely body, it's a wonderful sight. Another consideration is the price, MAs are usually more affordable, so I could see them more often. And for the most part, GFE MA gives me almost everything I could wish for. Only the DATY is missing.... but I'll live with it until I can't hold longer then I'll see someone who allows it.

I'm sure it was innocent, but please don't say things like that about thinner ladies. Some are naturally like that and nobody should be put down. As for XXXAXXX's post, I'll never understand why people feel the need to voice it when someone isn't to there standards. If you have nothing nice to say, keep quiet, nobody wants to know that they aren't your type (unless they asked). Seems it's just bullying for no reason.

I don't see a problem with her post. It's done in complete anonymity so nobody will know who it was. Even if it's a recommendation board, there's still "negative" threads. (turn-off, what not to do, bad experience, etc) As long as nobody is pointed (and no "subtle" hints), it helps this community and everyone present to have better experiences.

A lot of the MA/SP mentions in thread like this that they don't care what you look like, as long as you have good hygiene, are nice and act like a gentleman. As for your reasons, I'd say they are pretty good. I saw my first SP cause I also had problems with dating (only managed to get kissed once, after 3 months!) It definitively made me more confident and better with myself. And I got to see what I've been missing for so long. Don't hesitate to tell the lady you'll be contacting that you're shy and it's your first time with an SP. Most of them are very good at making you comfortable. For the legal stuff, lots of great info on this site!

I guess i'm the exception haha. I don't usually notice the details. I'll probably get the sense something is different, but I couldn't tell what. Except for hairs, i'm kinda picky with that. In general, I love loose hair and don't like most of the weird complicated hairstyle. I also prefer the natural look most of the time. And not just the carefully crafted magazine "natural" look. I go camping with lots of friends for LARPs and even after 2 days in the wood, without shower and rolling in the dirt, the girls still look so beautiful for me. Or when the girl I had a crush for waked up and came out all sleepy, in PJ and sweater, no make up and hair all messed up. She had never been so cute. Might be cause I always see girls dolled up everyday, wherever I go. Usually, younger girls always take the effort to look good when going out, specialy if they are single or aren't in a stable relationship that lasted a long time. However, I rarely get to see a girl when she wakes up or when she's put no effort( I don't mean not showering and forgoing hygiene though) in my life. Never had a gf for long enough and never lived with a non-family member girl.