Frank7

The lady that takes the lead! As others as said, it makes you feel desired, something that rarely happens outside of cerb. And hopefully, she'll choose to start things she likes, not just what she thinks you want. I'm never comfortable with someone submissive, here or in my personal life. If there needs to be a sub/dom relation, it's my job to be the sub. :P

There is already lots of people who don't fallow those social expectations. (open couples, swingers, polyarmori, etc) The problem isn't really the expectations, but the people who aren't honest about what they want and decide to enter a situation they know they won't like anyway. Usually, those who aren't afraid to tell what they want end up being happier. :P

Guess I got the biggest score, I ended up with a 58. :icon_eek:

Hit-Girl. =D But really, i could probably give a list of 100 heroes i like....i'm that geeky.

I also lost my virginity with an SP when i was 24. I only had two gf before, one was a long-distance internet relation and the other we dated about 3 months before she kissed me for the first time (it was mostly a last test to see to make her mind about me) I had been depressed for a few years cause i always had so much trouble finding someone to love and be loved back. So when i decided to see an SP, it was because i felt my virginity was just a burden and cause i wanted to remove all those interogations about sex, kissing, what to do, etc. It wasn't perfect, mostly because there wasn't much chemistry between us and i told her half way through that i was a virgin. (she was worried she was doing something wrong to make me uncomfortable) But she was really friendly, gave me tips about girls in general during the break we took and was honnest. For me, love as always been more important then sex. I still have problems finding someone, but at least the sex part doesn't complicate as much now. I'm not anxious about how it will unfold and if i'm in a period where i'm too horny, i can see someone instead of making bad decisions. =)

I got Humpy Superbutt for my real name. Cerb name was Doctor Rammer. Wish i had a Rugmuncher or Muffmuncher name. =(

Yes looks are important, just not the most important thing. To choose a lady to see on cerb, i'll either get hooked on her pictures then read her site/posts to see if she's interesting also or i'll get hooked on a post and i'll check to see if i'm also attracted physically. For me, it's about 25% each for looks, personality, how she acts with me and history to fall in love with someone. Looks: My big preference is for thin natural looking girls. No make-up and plain clothes. But there's a broad range i find attractive, it's a mix of all the physical attribute. She don't need to be perfectly pretty in my eyes, but there need to be some attraction at least. Personality: If i like how she acts, thinks, what she likes and dislike, etc How she acts with me: Obviously, i'm looking for someone who treats me well and care for me. A girl who find me interesting and flirt back will always be better then one who don't care, even if i don't find her as pretty. History: All the times we've spend together, the good memories, etc. So if it was a friend first or if i'm already dating her, i'll be more intrested even if the other girls "rates" higher on the 3 other part. So i wouldn't date a girl i don't find attractive at all and doubt i'd fall for her. If i'm already in love and look fades, that's a different story, since she'll still be 75% perfect. =D Hope people don't mind me being honnest.

Yes some guys would be open to it. But as roamingguy said, you should be honnest from the start. If you pretend to be in a monogamous relation with him then he finds out, he probably won't be happy. And most of all, if he's having sex with you, he deserves to know you're active with other peoples, so he can decide if he wants the risk or not (just like people in open relationship) Personnaly, i'd probably be okay with it, as long as the lady is present. If she's always out in the evening and the weekends, while i'm always out during the day for work, we wouldn't really be seeing each others. I know i wouldn't be okay dating a military girl for that part, if she's traveling elsewhere for months on time. You mentionned that you don't think you'll work forever. Depending how long you see yourself in this business, it might make it easier for some guys that would eventually get jealous after months/years.

For me it's not really a double life. My family and two friends know i've seen SP/MA. The others don't but mostly because they didn't ask directly. The never ask about my sexual life. I can see the problems with being honest some ladies would have. Sucks that the world is that judgemental for no reason.

Getting all excited at the idea of booking a date with my favorite MA for this weekend....then catching a flu (or a cold?). And with friday's forecast, i don't think i'll be good in time. I'll have to wait 2 weeks at least.

It's the base expectation in our society, but it can be challenged. Even in the past, there's been guys who refused to settle and just hook up randomly or that had an open relationship. Another way to look at it would be to compare faithfullness to the donation an SP receive. To be in a relation with X, you need to be faithfull. To have a date with a particular SP, you need her donation. -If you don't want to be monogamous, then you can't be with X, but there are other girls. -If you don't want to pay her donation, then you can't be with that SP, but there are other girls. Lying about being monogamous would be like telling the SP that her donation is in the enveloppe but hoping that she won't check. That seems to be a problem in ethic. =P

I think in general, most MP won't allow full service, BJ, daty and digits. Some won't allow kissing either.

Chlore Moretz, most talent and beautyful actress in the world. :D Jodelle Ferland, little canadian that is so awesome in horror movies. And Elle Fanning. Haven't seem much of her movies, but so far she's always been a brillant actress.

There was also a time i was feeling guilty masturbating. Most of the time, i lasted about 3 days, sometime a week. One time though, i lasted about 144 days. (After 2-3 weeks, i put a little x on the calendar to remember the last time i did it. The number might be a few days off)

Probably not, i suck at subtle signs and bodylanguage. If it's a repeat, she can kiss right away! If it's a first meeting, bring me in and ask how i am first.

I much prefer the ladie to initiate! I'm not very confortable or experienced with ladies, so it might be ackward if she waits for me. Though i'll probably initiate for a hug. Not evert provider think of doing that and i love hugs! And it's a good ice breaker before starting. I also make sure to get a hug before leave. ;)

Personnaly, i don't see an ethical problem with asking faithfulness from someone. Unless it's the very rare case( in canada) that someone is forced in a marriage, it was his/her own decision to swear that they'd be monogamous. However, i don't see anything immoral/unethical with not being monogamous. Polymorous or open life-style are just as ethical then monogamy. As long as everyone is conscenting, any kind of sex is ethical!

Since i prefer ladies to be all natural down there, that's how i am too. :P

Strickly physically, i'd go with a slim/skinny girl with small breasts. A beautyful face and nice hairstyle (very partial to loose hair) Bonus points for glasses! There's lots of other things i find attractive physically, but that's the best bet for me to find someone attractive. Physical attractiveness is not the only criteria, nor is it the most important.... but i've yet to learn mind reading. So for now, unless i know someone, first thing i notice will always be the physic.

I'm a huge fan of a big natural bush. :D

Just two answer the two last posts. Love might be the most wonderfull thing.... but on the other hand, one-sided love or lack of love is one of the worst thing. And IMO that's an even bigger problem then loving more then one person.

I believe it's an essential need and i couldn't live a complete life without it. The love that you get from friends/familly/etc and the romantic love are two different things though. And both are very necessary. Maybe not for everyone (some are happy alone or with flings), but in my case, yes i'd need to be loved by another-long term partner to feel complete.

Check this thread and if both ladies offer BJ, just ask them politly if they do double BJ too. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117343 (Posted here and in the private group so everyone can see :D )

Hi and welcome to cerb. :D Not sure if you have to be approved to do those things, but filling your profil, a pic and an ads in your section will help people to notice you and become curious.